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It’s another non binary person helping women to not feel bad about their periods

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Shallysally · 11/02/2023 23:40

Jeffrey Marsh on tik tok

And hurrah, he is going to help us against the patriarchy 🙄

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Shallysally · 21/02/2023 12:48

Ohyoudodoyou · 21/02/2023 06:50

I watched a couple of earlier videos and he's seems to have cultivated this character. Have a look at the one of his singing. He's awful and makes for very uncomfortable viewing. Surely no young person is going to listen to this claptrap from a middle aged male weirdo?

If the young person is being shunned by his family and feel they need to talk to someone who, allegedly, understands them, then maybe they would listen.

That’s the worrying part, Jeffrey comes across to us as nothing but vile and creepy. To a young person expiring their gender identification, then they (Jeffrey) may be perceived as the answer to their prayers.

Jeffrey has cultivated a massive following in the US, according ti his website. He is a top event speaker, has appeared on US TV, and when he is challenged comes across as being knowledgeable and empathic.

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WarriorNun · 21/02/2023 07:18

Linking this thread as it contains really worrying grooming behaviour from him

Jeffrey Marsh www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4746867-jeffrey-marsh

Ohyoudodoyou · 21/02/2023 06:50

I watched a couple of earlier videos and he's seems to have cultivated this character. Have a look at the one of his singing. He's awful and makes for very uncomfortable viewing. Surely no young person is going to listen to this claptrap from a middle aged male weirdo?

Redebs · 21/02/2023 06:33

FOJN · 12/02/2023 18:01

Jeffery Marsh is the patriarchy, you can't get much more patriarchal than paying a man to promote tampons. He's vile and creepy.

Exactly this

mach2 · 21/02/2023 06:28

Arrrgh! Bloody smartphones - should read 'In the end', not 'I'm the end'.

Though I could very well be 🙁

mach2 · 21/02/2023 06:27

Remember this bloke?

metro.co.uk/2022/08/17/decision-to-appoint-man-as-uks-first-period-dignity-officer-met-with-backlash-17200480/

IIRC it was a nepotism appointment I'm the end. It made me spit my tea anyway. First thought: "What the fuck would he know about it?"

toptail22 · 21/02/2023 05:01

He is exactly what's currently wrong with the world 🤢

RosaBonheur · 21/02/2023 04:56

OnTheRoll · 12/02/2023 03:32

"I am non-binary, I don't menstruate" - no, you don't menstruate because you are male

What could a "non binary person" who has never had a uterus, ovaries or a vagina possibly have to tell the world about menstruation?

Cheekymaw · 21/02/2023 04:43

Completely deluded that Marsh! Does he have an eating disorder as painfully thin? Also that Zoe TW that someone posted ! Really aggressive attitude and intimidating demeanour but he knows that completely! Also , the book ( Mama Zo) like what the f*ck, not gonna happen pal!

miri1985 · 21/02/2023 03:40

I look forward to the day that a trans man tries to end the stigma against erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. Would make just as much sense for viagra to sponsor a trans man as it does period product companies to sponsor trans women

Theunamedcat · 21/02/2023 01:58

There is a lot of backlash against this one

SammyScrounge · 21/02/2023 01:49

Shallysally · 11/02/2023 23:40

Jeffrey Marsh on tik tok

And hurrah, he is going to help us against the patriarchy 🙄

Just looking at him made me nauseous. He is so obviously a man and hasn't even got the famous trans skill at applying make up. And patronising,.so bloody patronising.

mumwon · 20/02/2023 22:45

I was watching a program about Michael Jackson where they showed a clip of him talking about loving children and how innocent it was to share their bed.
It took a long time for people to accept (and some still have not) that what he had was a paedophile ... I wonder how many years it will be before these risks that are being taken now will horrify people in the future who will ask themselves "how could they do this?"

HowardKirksConscience · 20/02/2023 22:37

I’m not saying anything new here I know but I’m just so tired of being expected to ignore my instincts in the cause of being kind and liberal and woke and whatever.

Guys who are as creepy as fuck have set off our alarms our whole lives. When we ignore those alarms we regret it. I refuse to change my mind on this because creepy men do not change, whatever they label themselves.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 20/02/2023 22:24

Datun · 20/02/2023 18:40

What adult male goes public saying children should go no contact with their parents, and they will be their family, and talks to another male about tampons, without knowing it's off the scale wrong?

Marsh must know it's wrong, must also know that everyone else knows it. So what the fuck are they doing??

Presumably as nobody ever tells these people "no" their behaviour escalates off the scale. It's interesting that whenever there are demonstrations - especially against women meeting / talking there's always abuse, threats of sexual violence, insults, violence and more. Nobody ever says no with the Stonewall captured police standing by watching (until very recently) The behaviour we see suggests they believe there are no boundaries that they cannot violate.

EndlessTea · 20/02/2023 22:04

I agree aloris it’s feels invasive and one step away from rooting through sanpro bins for our used tampons and sanitary towels. Pervy.

aloris · 20/02/2023 21:40

Alarm bells ring in my head anytime males talk about how they want to "end period stigma" or start talking about menstruation in detail. Menstruation is a very private thing. I don't feel stigmatized by it but I don't see why any men would feel the need to know anything about a woman's menstruation or to talk about it with that woman, other than the woman's husband and gynecologist (if male, which I prefer not, but there you go). It's as if someone were telling you to lift your skirt for them to see underneath and when you say no, they tell you that there's nothing to be ashamed of, body parts are natural. Yeah I know it's natural but I don't want you involved in it because it's private. Males should just stay far away from such topics, it's none of their business.

Again, I just feel that it's telling women and girls that we are not allowed to have boundaries. Males have decided women and girls have put our boundaries in the wrong place, or don't need boundaries at all, and women and girls who disagree are bigots.

mrshoho · 20/02/2023 19:50

Datun · 20/02/2023 18:40

What adult male goes public saying children should go no contact with their parents, and they will be their family, and talks to another male about tampons, without knowing it's off the scale wrong?

Marsh must know it's wrong, must also know that everyone else knows it. So what the fuck are they doing??

This aspect is one of the most sinister of this ideology. We see right through it. Youngsters have been well and truly targeted by adults.

Datun · 20/02/2023 18:40

What adult male goes public saying children should go no contact with their parents, and they will be their family, and talks to another male about tampons, without knowing it's off the scale wrong?

Marsh must know it's wrong, must also know that everyone else knows it. So what the fuck are they doing??

MrsFionaCharming · 12/02/2023 20:46

My FYP is normally parenting and food, but since this video and the equally ridiculous one by Dylan it’s entirely TERFtok. Hopefully it’ll be showing those videos to lots of people who haven’t gone out looking for them.

FrancescaContini · 12/02/2023 20:42

OnlyTheWeedsGrow · 12/02/2023 05:42

As well as being able to end period stigma, Marsh offers Marsh’s contact details and welcomes any gender-confused children into Marsh’s family.

Marsh also says Marsh is Jesus-like…

m.youtube.com/watch?v=zx3NNVi6IBs

I find this video even more distressing than the ‘you WILL respect me’ one.

Creepy individual. His statements are meaningless but he thinks that interspersing them with images of a bloody-faced Jesus on the cross etc makes him profound. Is this the kind of shit that kids are being exposed to on TikTok?

Shallysally · 12/02/2023 20:35

I’ve just had a look on the website, there’s a disclaimer referencing that Jeffrey is not a therapist, psychotherapist etc.
Apparently he has gained the status of Zen master with Buddhist monks.

So he is apparently free to spout this bile, and people have the honour of actually paying for his dangerous, non regulated “wisdom” at the cost of $99 for a very short 20 minute session.

He is very popular as a speaker in the US. Although this is balanced with a lot of criticism.
There are several tik tokers who have called out the tampon debacle.

And I realise there is no point to this post, was just hoping to maybe find a regulatory body to report him to.

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risefromyourgrave · 12/02/2023 20:12

Getting strong psychopath vibes from that fella.

thirstyformore · 12/02/2023 20:10

What a pile of fucking tripe. I struggled to watch that. Who the fuck does he think he is? Not in my name thank you very much.

Justalittlebitduckling · 12/02/2023 18:35

“I’m not going to tell you what to do, BUT…”
🤣