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Liverpool - woman who distributed indecent images of children over WhatsApp has walked free from court.

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BoreOfWhabylon · 10/02/2023 14:36

www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/liverpool-news/woman-distributed-indecent-images-over-26190141?utm_source=twitter.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=sharebar

"...officers seized a Samsung mobile phone on which they discovered 84 indecent images in category A - those graded as showing the most serious forms of abuse.

These included pictures and videos showing children aged as young as four being raped. Also found were 30 category B images and 35 in category C, which had been collected since October"

Except of course, the offender, Ketan Shende, is not a woman.

Liverpool - woman who distributed indecent images of children over WhatsApp has walked free from court.
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TheBiologyStupid · 10/02/2023 23:39

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 19:34

I don’t think anyone goes to prison for nonpayment of their TV license these days.

Offence analysis
TV licence evasion was the most common offence for which females were convicted in 2019.

In 2019, 74% of those convicted for TV licence evasion were female. This offence accounted for 30% of all female convictions, compared to 4% of male convictions.

Theft from shops was the most common indictable offence for which 34% of females and 14% of males were convicted in 2019.

Of the 34,300 defendants convicted for shoplifting, 9,600 (28%) were female. The custody rate for this offence was lower for female offenders (19%) than for males (26%).

www.gov.uk/government/statistics/women-and-the-criminal-justice-system-2019/women-and-the-criminal-justice-system-2019

Of course, we don't know how many (if any) of those convictions resulted in custodial sentences.

Soubriquet · 10/02/2023 21:35

Holy shit.

Am I seriously reading people saying that he didn’t abuse children because he wasn’t physically doing it himself?

What.The.Fuck.

nepeta · 10/02/2023 21:23

Does anyone happen to know the sex breakdown on people who watch digitalised child abuse? I have never seen a female individual accused of it, but I am sure there are some. Still, this might be yet another crime statistics which tilts heavily male in terms of perpetrators. Or did, when data was collected on the basis of sex.

nepeta · 10/02/2023 21:22

@Onnabugeisha and @Boiledbeetle, I am so so sorry that you had to have such horrible people in your lives, but I am happy to see your strength afterwards.

Pootleplum · 10/02/2023 20:46

Just to remind everyone to give feedback to this IPSO consultation on sex and gender reporting guidance

www.ipso.co.uk/what-we-do/consultations/public-consultation-on-guidance-on-reporting-of-sex-and-gender-identity/

Boiledbeetle · 10/02/2023 20:41

@Onnabugeisha 🍫🍷

PSNonsense · 10/02/2023 20:40

Weallgottachangesometime · 10/02/2023 20:19

@Onnabugeisha the sharing of sexual images of children is a form of abuse. Non-contact, but abuse

This. Over and over.

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 20:36

Boiledbeetle · 10/02/2023 20:14

I know Geisha. I think our coping strategies have been different, maybe because our abuse was done differently, maybe our personalities. For me the knowledge that he produced them not for himself but to sell on for others to enjoy is what fuels my feelings of perpetual abuse.

Every time I read of a man like this, or even think of the subject of child abuse images I relive the flashbacks of those photos being taken. I'm back in the room at 7 pleading with him to stop.

It's part of the abuse knowing they exist. Knowing people will be jerking off to them. Knowing that was why he was taking them.

(I've also never watched a beheading video. Why the fuck would anyone want to do that?)

And that’s fair, Boiled. I think our strategies are quite different, I’m fighting off images of me as Dorothy in Oz in plaits and being forced to….can’t go on. Sorry. But giving you friendly wave, this thread is too hard for me now.

Cantseethewindows · 10/02/2023 20:34

Please can we not refer to this as child pornography? Pornography implies consent, children cannot give consent. They are images of child sexual abuse.

Notaflippinclue · 10/02/2023 20:33

Whose the journo? These people should hang their fecking heads in shame.

Notaflippinclue · 10/02/2023 20:30

Whose the judge?

feellikeanalien · 10/02/2023 20:30

I know that he got a suspended sentence so is not going to prison but that is another thread on its own.

feellikeanalien · 10/02/2023 20:29

I'm so sick of all this. Women and children really don't matter do they?

If a person who is born a man (I don't know what is acceptable terminology on here these days) gets off on watching children being abused he should be sent to a male prison and hopefully feel even part of the fear those children felt.

I'm done with being "kind".

That's even before you start to consider the skewing of statistics and the fact that it is not only women prisoners who are at risk but the female prison staff.

The person in the photo is not a woman.

LexMitior · 10/02/2023 20:24

Yes it is necessarily broad. The point of possession charges and the purpose is designed to capture many actions.

A common defence to possession of this material used to be accidental. That is made much harder by the scope of making.

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 10/02/2023 20:22

The phrase "making indecent images" is seriously misleading.

The court’s interpretation of ‘making’ indecent images is broad. The following can amount to making indecent images; opening an email attachment, downloading an indecent image, storing an image, and accessing a website where an indecent image “pops up".

OrangeToothbrush · 10/02/2023 20:19

Findyourneutralspace · 10/02/2023 19:39

Journalists had be absolute privilege to report on court proceedings but it has to be an accurate report on proceedings, so unfortunately if the defendant was referred to as a woman in court, using female pronouns, their hands are tied.

That was the only possible defence I could think of yesterday, when as I said upthread the original published version did not include the judge's comment about transition.

But today that comment was included. Indicating the journo indeed had it in his notes the whole time but did not consider it relevant to include. A pretty shocking and misleading omission.

So we know the dysphoria and transition was referred to in court, so there's surely nothing legally wrong in putting trans woman in the headline?

Weallgottachangesometime · 10/02/2023 20:19

@Onnabugeisha the sharing of sexual images of children is a form of abuse. Non-contact, but abuse

Wiccan · 10/02/2023 20:18

FFS I cannot believe the opinions of what isn't abuse this is too triggering I'm out !

FrancescaContini · 10/02/2023 20:17

The viewer is complicit in the abuse. Absolutely.

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 20:16

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Boiledbeetle · 10/02/2023 20:14

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 20:06

Me too Boiled. You know this about me. Weve spoken on other threads about our common survivorship.

I feel nothing when a paedo clicks on an image of me, because I don’t know when it happens. All I know is the images are out there and will be long after I am dead and gone. I have had to accept this reality.

But to say future people seeing these are just as guilty and just as bad as the abusers who actually did that shit to me as a young child?! No, cannot agree. Living through the abuse and having the nightmares and flashbacks to this day is far far worse than living with the knowledge that people out there are still seeing it.

I know Geisha. I think our coping strategies have been different, maybe because our abuse was done differently, maybe our personalities. For me the knowledge that he produced them not for himself but to sell on for others to enjoy is what fuels my feelings of perpetual abuse.

Every time I read of a man like this, or even think of the subject of child abuse images I relive the flashbacks of those photos being taken. I'm back in the room at 7 pleading with him to stop.

It's part of the abuse knowing they exist. Knowing people will be jerking off to them. Knowing that was why he was taking them.

(I've also never watched a beheading video. Why the fuck would anyone want to do that?)

MrsOvertonsWindow · 10/02/2023 20:08

@Onnabugeisha - he made indecent images of children. Why on earth do you think it's right to minimise such repellent crimes? Fgs, think before you post such vile comments.

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 20:06

Probablymagrat · 10/02/2023 20:01

@Onnabugeisha Onnabugeisha - can you not imagine how the abuse is compounded by knowing that thousands of other peadophiles are sharing images of your abuse, which incidentally are images of a crime scene, and getting off on it? Imagine how that feels, not only were you abused physically, it was photographed and filmed, and now is shared, sold, and comodified without your consent. Forever and ever, those images of abuse, pain and humilation will probably outlive you, and go on to fuel more and more abuse. Please just try to imagine, and be thankful that you do have to imagine it and don't know how it feels first hand.

I don’t need to imagine.

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 20:06

Me too Boiled. You know this about me. Weve spoken on other threads about our common survivorship.

I feel nothing when a paedo clicks on an image of me, because I don’t know when it happens. All I know is the images are out there and will be long after I am dead and gone. I have had to accept this reality.

But to say future people seeing these are just as guilty and just as bad as the abusers who actually did that shit to me as a young child?! No, cannot agree. Living through the abuse and having the nightmares and flashbacks to this day is far far worse than living with the knowledge that people out there are still seeing it.

LexMitior · 10/02/2023 20:04

That is not quite right. Images of children are frequently created to order by paedophiles. It is not reasonable to call such people passive as they are root cause of such material.

Those people may never be "abusers" in a physical sense. But they are not passive.