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"periods: a genderless function" FFS!!!

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whistleblown · 07/02/2023 17:23

How greedy and selfish of us to keen periods to ourselves all this time. 🙄🙄🙄

"periods: a genderless function" FFS!!!
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DeanVolecapeAKAelderberry · 09/02/2023 13:25

midgemadgemodge · 09/02/2023 12:45

Or another way since this seems hard for some to understand

My identity excludes " women " as an identity

Now

Do I say I am a woman meaning biology and leave people thinking it's my identity?

But My identity is personal to me and important

And I have suffered direct harm through people making none biological assumptions about me because they assume I have a specific identity on account if my sex

I have spent a god part of my life showing people that my identity is not my sex

And you are asking me to undo al I have stood for and striven for ?

Yes, just drop the 'identity' nonsense altogether. It seems to make you unhappy, it annoys other people, and it's unnecessary.

Be an individual instead of an identity.

howmanybicycles · 09/02/2023 13:01

And no one is trying to argue that we should allow astral bodies into the Oscars or make celebrities use an entirely different termonologyvor give up rights (e.g. press intrusion). There isn't really a new definition of woman. TRAs are just trying to bully one through.

midgemadgemodge · 09/02/2023 12:58

Star and moon are not the same though and using the same word for both "adastral object " is uncommon

The context of words is clear then no problem

  • so woman could mean a type of plant and adult human female

What it shouldn't mean and adult human female or adult human male

NewPanDrawer · 09/02/2023 12:53

babyjellyfish · 09/02/2023 08:35

Well, yes, that's the point I was making.

If "woman" can now mean EITHER "adult human female" OR "person of either sex who believes their gender identity is woman", it has two completely unrelated meanings, and people falling within these definitions are two separate and unrelated groups, not one group.

By your logic, the fact that the word "sole" can mean either a type of fish or the bottom of a shoe means that these two things have something in common. Other than both using the word "sole", they don't. And we can tell from the context whether we are talking about fish or shoes, so using the same word for both doesn't cause any particular problems.

Male people who use the word "woman" to refer to themselves are causing a problem because they would have us believe that they have something in common with adult human females and are therefore entitled to use our spaces and compete in our sports.

Yes I see what you mean.

Perhaps a better analogy for the situation we're discussing would be "star". It can mean some sort of astronomical body. It can mean a celebrity. Those are quite different meanings of the same word.

However, within the astronomical-body sense, it can be used scientifically to refer to very distant bodies of hydrogen fusing to form helium, or it can be used more colloquially to include anything glowing in the night sky including planets, comets shooting "stars".

Anyway, words can clearly have multiple, overlapping or conflicting meanings. And I don't think there's any point raging about editors of dictionaries, or how dreadful and illogical their definitions are. Dictionaries just record usage. To fight the changing mean of the words man and woman you really need to stop people using them in novel ways (not that you need reminding!).

midgemadgemodge · 09/02/2023 12:45

Or another way since this seems hard for some to understand

My identity excludes " women " as an identity

Now

Do I say I am a woman meaning biology and leave people thinking it's my identity?

But My identity is personal to me and important

And I have suffered direct harm through people making none biological assumptions about me because they assume I have a specific identity on account if my sex

I have spent a god part of my life showing people that my identity is not my sex

And you are asking me to undo al I have stood for and striven for ?

midgemadgemodge · 09/02/2023 12:40

Reading the definition carefully it does not include anyone who does not wish to be assumed to identify as a woman

Many women are in fact rather against the idea that women is an identity- that it describe something other than biology - that expecting them to be associated with woman as identities is hurtful and disrespectful

Let's try a thought experiment
If someone changed the word innocent to mean people who were not guilty or people who thought themselves innocent but were in fact guilty , would you want to call yourself innocent when asked if you AHF committed a crime? Would you take the risk ?

BitOutOfPractice · 09/02/2023 12:34

EndlessTea · 07/02/2023 19:29

I hate the word nuance too. It’s a smug twat’s word.

Me too. When someone says "nuance" they are actually saying "too complicated for you to understand".

I'd love to know what they mean by "bodily reasons".

LauraNicolaides · 09/02/2023 12:27

babyjellyfish · 09/02/2023 08:16

Nope. The new definition excludes anyone who, like me, doesn't "identify as" anything.

And even if I did identify as something, I still do not have even the faintest clue what trans women are identifying with, so how could we possibly share any kind of identity?

You need to read the definition carefully iI think @babyjellyfish - you are still included.

Datun · 09/02/2023 09:09

babyjellyfish · 09/02/2023 08:35

Well, yes, that's the point I was making.

If "woman" can now mean EITHER "adult human female" OR "person of either sex who believes their gender identity is woman", it has two completely unrelated meanings, and people falling within these definitions are two separate and unrelated groups, not one group.

By your logic, the fact that the word "sole" can mean either a type of fish or the bottom of a shoe means that these two things have something in common. Other than both using the word "sole", they don't. And we can tell from the context whether we are talking about fish or shoes, so using the same word for both doesn't cause any particular problems.

Male people who use the word "woman" to refer to themselves are causing a problem because they would have us believe that they have something in common with adult human females and are therefore entitled to use our spaces and compete in our sports.

Yes, it's a nonsense argument.

And not even a word coincidence, it's just taking it! Taking an existing word and slapping it on a concept they just made up. Ta da!

Like the unicorn and the horse with a plunger on it's head. Two unicorns innit.

babyjellyfish · 09/02/2023 08:38

howmanybicycles · 08/02/2023 20:57

If woman is everyone female bodied and grown up, then Oscar is a woman. If woman is those people who identify as women, then most women aren't one. This either or does not make sense.

Indeed. Oscar has (a) actually being a woman, and (b) not identifying as a woman, in common with the majority of women. Almost as if Oscar isn't that different to the rest of us after all.

babyjellyfish · 09/02/2023 08:35

NewPanDrawer · 08/02/2023 20:34

The way the definition is structured in that dictionary it's either/or.

Well, yes, that's the point I was making.

If "woman" can now mean EITHER "adult human female" OR "person of either sex who believes their gender identity is woman", it has two completely unrelated meanings, and people falling within these definitions are two separate and unrelated groups, not one group.

By your logic, the fact that the word "sole" can mean either a type of fish or the bottom of a shoe means that these two things have something in common. Other than both using the word "sole", they don't. And we can tell from the context whether we are talking about fish or shoes, so using the same word for both doesn't cause any particular problems.

Male people who use the word "woman" to refer to themselves are causing a problem because they would have us believe that they have something in common with adult human females and are therefore entitled to use our spaces and compete in our sports.

babyjellyfish · 09/02/2023 08:16

NewPanDrawer · 08/02/2023 18:20

They do both satisfy the "new definition" however much you dislike it and however much you repeat the question and demand a different answer! I mean you need to take this up with the editors of the dictionary and not with me.

Nope. The new definition excludes anyone who, like me, doesn't "identify as" anything.

And even if I did identify as something, I still do not have even the faintest clue what trans women are identifying with, so how could we possibly share any kind of identity?

ComfortablyDazed · 09/02/2023 00:01

NewPanDrawer · 08/02/2023 20:34

The way the definition is structured in that dictionary it's either/or.

So it’s not a definition, then.

One job. A dictionary has one job….

FRIGATUS · 08/02/2023 21:11

Erm… this is just insane.

So today the Tate and modibodi have shown themselves to hold some pretty strange views…

TheBiologyStupid · 08/02/2023 21:08

"This nuanced topic..." - is this the first sighting of nuance on that side of the debate?

deeperthanallroses · 08/02/2023 21:07

NewPanDrawer · 07/02/2023 19:05

This post is not about transwomen claiming to have periods, which always sparks such fury on here.

This is about transmen actually having them. The fact that the words are muddled is a problem. But all they are saying is that biological women with dysphoria who want to be known as men still menstruate. And they don't want to have to revert to identifying as women to be able to say so.

Transmen would be better off with counselling to enable them to confront the reality of their bodies rather than rewriting logic and science out of the whole conversation. This is just ‘x upsets me so you all have to talk about it differently. Doesn’t change whether I have a period or not, does confuse the narrative substantially, hurting the slow path to women and girls being treated like humans , but I want it this way.’

escapingthecity · 08/02/2023 20:59

Just had a little look at Modibodi's IG, Which is covered in "period pants for all genders" shite. Nope. Another brand off the list. Why is it so hard for manufacturers of products for women to accept that their customers are women?

howmanybicycles · 08/02/2023 20:57

NewPanDrawer · 08/02/2023 20:34

The way the definition is structured in that dictionary it's either/or.

If woman is everyone female bodied and grown up, then Oscar is a woman. If woman is those people who identify as women, then most women aren't one. This either or does not make sense.

howmanybicycles · 08/02/2023 20:50

NewPanDrawer · 08/02/2023 20:28

Look at the definition - I'm pretty sure that it includes you.

No. I don't identify as a woman. I have called myself it whilst it's a biological term. Nothing to dobwith identity.

midgemadgemodge · 08/02/2023 20:35

I can't accept a definition that could imply that it's my identity

And I can't accept a definition that is not a definition but a set of options because that's not a definition

NewPanDrawer · 08/02/2023 20:34

midgemadgemodge · 08/02/2023 20:30

Pretty sure a definition that relies on how you identify will exclude a large number of those previously known as women because they don't see it as part of their identity

It's not my identity, nearer a curse or affliction

The way the definition is structured in that dictionary it's either/or.

mumyes · 08/02/2023 20:33

Ducking hell.

I always quite admired ModiBodi as a brand.

Not after this.

NewPanDrawer · 08/02/2023 20:31

Happylittlechicken · 08/02/2023 19:08

Could that be because the two groups referred to in the definition have nothing in common apart from being humans?

It could, but see my previous answer to this question!

midgemadgemodge · 08/02/2023 20:30

Pretty sure a definition that relies on how you identify will exclude a large number of those previously known as women because they don't see it as part of their identity

It's not my identity, nearer a curse or affliction

NewPanDrawer · 08/02/2023 20:28

howmanybicycles · 08/02/2023 19:13

According to them I'm not a woman. Does excluding most women from the definition of woman not bother them? It's a disgusting definition and writing it is an act of aggression.

Look at the definition - I'm pretty sure that it includes you.

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