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India Willoughby, Question Time Thu 2 Feb 2240

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Consufed · 02/02/2023 08:39

India Willoughby is going to be on Question Time tonight. BBC1 10.40pm.

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BellaAmorosa · 03/02/2023 13:26

Whatsnewpussyhat · 03/02/2023 13:07

No.
Neither female nor woman should be used to refer to a male human, and 'man' and 'woman' are not bloody genders.
They can call themselves transwomen all they want but they still belong to the male sex class.

Besides, TRA's are now using trans female and referring to themselves as female because they refuse to allow women to differentiate ourselves in any way or with any words.

@hamstersarse , I was thinking the same as @Whatsnewpussyhat

I would add that there is no issue with misunderstanding - merely an attempt to persuade us that the waters are now so muddied that we have to cede more language. If any significant proportion of the general public subscribed to the Butlerian definition (which is what IW means by saying "I am a woman"), the SNP MP on Question Time and Nicola Sturgeon would have said that Isla Bryson/Adam Graham is a woman, and many would have gone along with it. It's because we all know (and they know) that the category "woman" is universally understood as a sex category, that neither of them could say it. Because he is a man and they know he has not changed sex.

Madcats · 03/02/2023 13:23

By virtue of who I follow on Twitter O encounter a lot of India's tweets.

They spend rather a lot of time on MN, judging by the number of screenshots of posts I see.

TitsInAbsentia · 03/02/2023 13:20

Awiltu · 03/02/2023 11:20

IW's frustration speaks volumes about IW's view of women.

To IW, a woman is a shell, a surface appearance, a skin to inhabit. IW thinks that IW can climb inside that shell because to IW it is unoccupied, empty space. Hence the "better woman than you" comments - IW thinks IW is making better use of a "woman" shell by occupying it with IW's personhood.

The frustration is all "But I've put on the "woman" surface, I look like you, surely that is all it takes, why isn't that enough?" Absolutely no concept that beyond the surface appearance of an adult human female there is an actual human being.

I now have IW in my head like a hermit crab looking for a new shell ! 😁

WinterTrees · 03/02/2023 13:18

WallaceinAnderland · 03/02/2023 13:11

Did anyone notice at the beginning Willoughby said that most people think women's prisons are like the WI, sitting around making jam and knitting. How fucking patronising. No, India, we don't think that. Our little, soft lady brains are actually able to understand what prison is like for women. Probably more than you do, you numpty.

Yes!
It's so interesting when India makes these sweeping generalisations that only serve to reveal India's own ignorance, prejudice and rank misogyny. Like when India said that everyone assumes that MN is for discussions about prams and nappies or something.

India has not the slightest inkling of what women's lives are.

Rowthe · 03/02/2023 13:16

mrshoho · 03/02/2023 08:53

Yes exactly that. IW and followers saying how biased the studio audience was. NO, India, the audience was a cross representation of the population. Living your life on twitter is not the real world.

I think this is part of the problem.

They live their loves in an echo chamber.
Blocking anyone who disagrees and end up just with people agreeing and applauding them.
Then when they are in the real world- apparently it's been fixed, a bunch of transphobes/ GC blockbooked.

picklemewalnuts · 03/02/2023 13:15

Dear lord, Windy's been whingeing on Loose Women.

Windy's not even loosely a woman.

BellaAmorosa · 03/02/2023 13:13

LaughingPriest · 03/02/2023 12:13

I still think the term 'TERF' doesn't reflect what most of us believe. It is not excluding anyone from feminism because they are 'trans' - which has become meaningless anyway. It is because they are male. MERF is far more apt.

Hence I don't identify as a terf. How gendery someone feels has nothing to do with their sex.

Yes. Important distinction to make.

WallaceinAnderland · 03/02/2023 13:11

Did anyone notice at the beginning Willoughby said that most people think women's prisons are like the WI, sitting around making jam and knitting. How fucking patronising. No, India, we don't think that. Our little, soft lady brains are actually able to understand what prison is like for women. Probably more than you do, you numpty.

Datun · 03/02/2023 13:11

I wouldn't mind so much, but India relies on the fact that they are male in order to make a living. It's their entire USP. If India was actually a biological woman, no one would give a fuck what they thought and they wouldn't be asked to comment on anything.

And India boasting on Twitter that they ignored a gender neutral toilet to walk 'miles' out of their way to access the women's facility at an airport, neatly demonstrates exactly why we need sex segregation.

Publicly bragging about making women uncomfortable, knowing other women will read it, constitutes exactly the sort of behaviour that sex segregation is set up to mitigate.

Let's get more of India on the telly. Aggressively making the case for women everywhere.

JemimaTiggywinkles · 03/02/2023 13:10

It has come to something when you hope that people in power are being dishonest rather than stupid.

Tbf, I don't think those things are mutually exclusive. It is perfectly possible that the person in question is both dishonest and stupid.

picklemewalnuts · 03/02/2023 13:07

BringMeTea · 03/02/2023 11:38

Anyone remember a few years ago and IW was on Big Brother and there was a thread. And some folks were confused by the initials and Ian Woosnam started trending? 😂 Fun times. I also recall poor Anne Widdecombe being harangued by IW after innocently saying 'he'.

You don't often see Anne Widdicombe looking worried, but she certainly does in the clip posted up thread where India marches in to harangue them all.

Boiledbeetle · 03/02/2023 13:07

NicolaSturgeonsSOGIbottom · 03/02/2023 13:02

Aw, thanks! My brain functions a bit like an old fashioned kaleidoscope, loads of scattered bits and pieces just rattling about and then with half-a-turn to the front cylinder a pattern forms (and I need to sketch it out on paper before it disappears again 😝)

I’m sort-of-half considering signing up for a Medium or Substack account and copying over some of my longer posts, if only because whole MN threads can vanish in the blink of an eye and if you spend your morning typing out not just your opinion on current events but also the thought process that led you to that opinion, including any relevant primary and secondary source links it’s a bit bloody annoying.

See also: the page reloading while you are mid post 😬

I think you should.

And the page thing is driving me la la at the moment.

Whatsnewpussyhat · 03/02/2023 13:07

hamstersarse · 03/02/2023 11:10

I was reading some hideous paper about why men can become women <a class="break-all" href="//(www.cambridge.org/core/journals/hypatia/article/trans-women-are-or-are-becoming-female-disputing-the-endogeneity-constraint/090DEAA53EA17414C5D3E8D76ED5A75C" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here) and it struck me that there may be something that we need to stop doing when trying to find common ground

From this part here:

"Both the Beauvoirian and Butlerian approaches, broadly speaking, agree that there are concepts we call sex (male and female) and gender (man and woman). The core distinction, I take it, is one of direction. On the Beauvoirian approach, sex is prior to gender, such that the concept of woman is understood as a series of roles and norms that are interpreted from and imposed upon people who are female. On the Butlerian approach, on the other hand, gender is prior, such that we categorize bodies as male and female in order to fit the socially constructed roles of man and woman."

I think there is something in the interchangeable way in which we use female and woman that seems to be causing some of the confusion and animosity. IW does not refer to 'herself' as female, but does refer to 'herself' as a woman. And in some ways that does line up to what many GC's believe - that gender is more variable.

Maybe all I am saying is that we need to get our words right here - use female in all interactions to be totally exact.

No.
Neither female nor woman should be used to refer to a male human, and 'man' and 'woman' are not bloody genders.
They can call themselves transwomen all they want but they still belong to the male sex class.

Besides, TRA's are now using trans female and referring to themselves as female because they refuse to allow women to differentiate ourselves in any way or with any words.

PatientZorro · 03/02/2023 13:04

HootyMcboob76 · 02/02/2023 23:42

Mis-read your quote to read "makes pissing harder".

Thought to myself, that'll be the old prostate then India.

Oh dear, time for bed I think.

😂😂 classic.

Usually I can’t watch QT as it makes me want to rip out the tv and chuck it out the window.

Having read this thread I’m going to make an exception…I want to see Ella and yellow dress lady letting the sunlight stream in.

Boiledbeetle · 03/02/2023 13:04

Theeyeballsinthesky · 03/02/2023 12:47

Tbh I think at sone point last year we agreed it stood for Tired of Explaining Reality to Fuckwits 😁

😁

India Willoughby, Question Time Thu 2 Feb 2240
Angelwings77 · 03/02/2023 13:03

Madcats · Today 12:09
"Predatory Lesbians" would be a good sequel to the Apple TV series "Bad Sisters" (I don't think any of them are lesbians, but I am only on episode 4, and really am not too sure what a lesbian is these days now that some have penises)

One of the Bad Sisters is a lesbian and I’m pretty sure Bibi doesn’t have a penis

NicolaSturgeonsSOGIbottom · 03/02/2023 13:02

Boiledbeetle · 03/02/2023 12:21

@NicolaSturgeonsSOGIbottom can you either do your posts as audio books or come and sit in my living room and just talk at me. That last post was fascinating.

Aw, thanks! My brain functions a bit like an old fashioned kaleidoscope, loads of scattered bits and pieces just rattling about and then with half-a-turn to the front cylinder a pattern forms (and I need to sketch it out on paper before it disappears again 😝)

I’m sort-of-half considering signing up for a Medium or Substack account and copying over some of my longer posts, if only because whole MN threads can vanish in the blink of an eye and if you spend your morning typing out not just your opinion on current events but also the thought process that led you to that opinion, including any relevant primary and secondary source links it’s a bit bloody annoying.

See also: the page reloading while you are mid post 😬

EmmaEmerald · 03/02/2023 13:00

Rowthe · 03/02/2023 12:03

And no called India out on it.

India kept saying " what about if I had to go to prison?"

And any time anyone brought up legitimate concerns would accuse them of homophobia or racism.
Really offensive.

Ella was great!

Just repeating the facts. You cant change sex.

At first I wondered why no one commented but I then thought about it and realised that you’d have to be so incredibly careful what you said.

ReneBumsWombats · 03/02/2023 12:58

Beowulfa · 03/02/2023 12:20

Anyone else starting to feel faintly disappointed that they've never been targetted by these mythical predatory lesbians?

Yeah. Why don't they like me?

scratchedbymycat · 03/02/2023 12:57

This was IW before QT. I genuinely think she bought into the SNP belief that self-id is totally supported by the public and she was entering la-la unicorn land. I think reality was a bit of a shock. I hope politicians took note of the mood too.

The other thing I noted in Fiona's introduction to IW, was the. assertion that IW is "a supporter of independence".

Honestly, I can't help thinking IW thought that would immediately endear her to a certain section of the public, because the SNP gov has established the principle that if you support Independence you can get away with almost anything. Sadly, the Scottish public keeps proving them correct by re-electing them. Not last night though.

The truth is too, that if the person representing TW on that panel was someone other than IW, the reaction would have been far worse. Imagine if someone built like Isla Bryson with a baritone voice sat there? Reality would have really hit home then. IW is the kind of TW the GRC imagined in 2004. Isla Bryson and her ilk are who self-id 2023 include.

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BellaAmorosa · 03/02/2023 12:55

LaughingPriest · 03/02/2023 10:15

Just about to watch now.

I know many people disagree but can we please not be nasty about people's appearances on here? I'm sure many women could be called masculine-looking and it is COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT to whether they are women.

There is enough to criticise about what people claim to think. I won't be part of mocking appearances. It's what India does, ffs, and we are better than that.

Asymmetrically sized eyes can be due to medical conditions.

Well said. Cervix jokes are fair enough, though.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 03/02/2023 12:47

LaughingPriest · 03/02/2023 12:13

I still think the term 'TERF' doesn't reflect what most of us believe. It is not excluding anyone from feminism because they are 'trans' - which has become meaningless anyway. It is because they are male. MERF is far more apt.

Hence I don't identify as a terf. How gendery someone feels has nothing to do with their sex.

Tbh I think at sone point last year we agreed it stood for Tired of Explaining Reality to Fuckwits 😁

BigFrau · 03/02/2023 12:45

zurala · 03/02/2023 12:41

Can I watch this on catch-up anywhere? It sounds really interesting

www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episodes/b006t1q9/question-time

zurala · 03/02/2023 12:41

Can I watch this on catch-up anywhere? It sounds really interesting

Rowthe · 03/02/2023 12:38

WinterTrees · 02/02/2023 23:09

Ella has the dangerously calm look of a woman who knows this shit inside out and is utterly assured that she can't be caught out.

Contrast certain others on the panel.

The two men on the panel quietly sitting in the corner hoping they dont picked on to talk

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