@Cuppasoupmonster
"I no longer tune in because this proves to me he’s fundamentally a coward who if push comes to shove would rather appease the Male Rights Activists than show the same critical thinking he applies to everyone and everything else."
I think, irrespective of what JOB might say about being learning to be wrong or learning from his listeners, being 'right' matters to him. I don't think he'll engage with a topic unless he's confident he has the argument and thinking lined up and ready to win it. And this argument is complicated - there are a lot of threads to unravel. It's much easier to get a grip of this if you are a women because you tap into a lifetime of thinking and experience. So for Shelagh, this is more accessible than it is for James. I just don't think he's got there yet, and also, he has teens. My own husband doesn't fully get it either, and he has me talking about it endlessly.
@ArabellaScott
Coincidentally, it was the dawning realisation that some transgender women could / would commit rape that got me started on this journey a few years ago. Prior to that, I think I thought that living as a female, dysphoria, by definition included being psychologically incapable of committing a male crime against a female. I certainly thought excluding TW from female toilets, prisons seemed cruel.
When I think though of the arguments that gain traction in the public sphere, it's pithy questions like 'What is a woman?' Or 'Can a man have a cervix?' For a lot of people the answers to these are philosophical thought exercises. But a politician answers these questions doesn't tell me anything about what matters most to me and I think derails the main issues.
Whereas, if the opening question is 'Do you believe rapists should be in women's prisons', it gets more real fast . It also means you can go on: "What if the rapist identifies as a woman ...?" To "how do you legislate to stop this?" Etc.