The issue is, and always has been, that 'treating trans people properly, caring about feelings, their development and their emotions', only has one answer. And that's a hundred percent capitulation.
David Blunkett sounds exactly like any normal person, who hasn't been subjected to TRA attacks. Sick to death of the entire issue, and obviously women's safety should trump men's self image. And look, a rapist in a woman's prison, what the fuck is that all about?
The thing is, if he even attempts to solve that ^ he will be told that his desire is to ''treat trans people properly, caring about feelings, their development and their emotions' is absolutely dead in the water.
It's either/or.
Hopefully, he will follow the same journey as everyone else, get increasingly frustrated and horrified by transactivism, and end up just telling them all to fuck off, so to speak.