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“Sex is a result of colonialism”

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SmugglersHaunt · 21/01/2023 22:42

Just saw an old friend I’ve not seen in a long time. We were talking about this and that then got on to trans issues. She said that binary sex is a concept that comes from colonial times and racial oppression etc. I actually couldn’t argue as it was so nuts. Apparently I’m akin to a QAnon person for believing in biological sex. She basically said I’ve been radicalised.

Apparently men won’t ‘dress up as women’ to enter women’s spaces, as ‘they can more easily ‘dress up as a policeman’ to abuse women. Everything I said was shouted down. Cases like Karen White etc are apparently not true.

I’m (probably stupidly) shocked. I have read a lot of this shite over the years, but to hear it from someone who I‘ve known for a long time was bewildering. I honestly can’t understand how anyone goes along with this. Not sure why I’m posting this but just want to vent I guess.

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Figrolls14 · 22/01/2023 22:39

KatMcBundleface, thank you for that delightful link

ErrolTheDragon · 22/01/2023 22:38

Crabo · 22/01/2023 20:21

We are hearing some nutty nonsense but this really does beat it all. Must’ve come from some American University. I do think it’s most unwise to send you kids to university these days as they get their heads filled with nonsense

The nonsense seems to mostly be learned earlier, from the Internet.
There may be some uni subjects worth them steering clear of but not the whole of higher education.Hmm

Ameadowwalk · 22/01/2023 22:04

(Continuing my previous post) All of which is different than saying sex is a result of colonialism, which is so simplistic as to be meaningless.
however, thinking on it a bit more, I wonder if what is meant is that -taking the hierarchical thinking about race of the nineteenth century, this is about the ways in which white educated elites sought to make themselves distinct from other groups - by having stark sexual differences in social roles. I cannot remember which nineteenth century writer wrote something along the lines of ‘the more civilised the race, the more distinct men and women are’.
It fits with the development of social Darwinism.

But it doesn’t mean sex as in the biological differences between men and women - it means the socially constructed roles of what men and women do, how they behave and so on. Nobody was arguing that men and women were physically the same in other places, but that races were not civilised if women and men did not have distinct social roles as befitting to their sex (in their view not mine, so women caring and nurturing and not entering the professions, for example - ‘woman, know thy place’ dressed up in pseudo-scientific language). It was racist and sexist rolled into one.

Ameadowwalk · 22/01/2023 21:53

The one sex model - and I might have this wrong as a good while since I read Laqueur - was the idea that female reproductive organs were inverted, less perfect male reproductive organs, not different. It makes more sense if you see early modern drawings of what they thought they looked like. Male organs on the outside of men and female ones were inverted versions on the inside of women. Then anatomists discovered female organs were not actually male inverted but different and this meshed with social ideas that men and women could not be compared in terms of their natures either. The idea of women being ‘the weaker sex’, for example.
I agree that the word sex was doing a lot more than simply describing biological sex by the nineteenth century but not that this was meaningless - there were were distinct and different expectations of how men and women should be simply because they were male or female, those expectations (and laws) structured people’s lives. This is where I sort of see the argument that imperialism brought these ideas of sexual difference (and the laws and organisations built around them) to the colonial context - not meaning that male and female had not existed before or that people did not understand sexual difference and reproduction but that imperial ruling classes took the particular sex-based roles and attributes which were associated with Victorian masculinity and femininity (which contemporaries associated with distinct male and female sexes) into the colonial context, just as they did racial hierarchies.

JustSpeculation · 22/01/2023 21:28

@Ameadowwalk ,

I was being sarcastic, which I now regret.

Aristotle demonstrably had a clear idea of the different reproductive roles of males and females, in a way which mirrors my own understanding of these roles even if he had an odd understanding of the mechanics and biology of it all. But I can't see how this adds up to a "one sex" view unless you are using the word "sex" to mean more than just reproductive role, and to refer to the whole natures of men and women. So not just referring to gametes and plumbing and the physiological differences which go along with this, but instead becoming a word which describes our whole beings. I think this is making the word do too much work - so much work that it stops referring to anything specific and becomes useless. The word becomes useless becasue it can refer to anything and everything to do with being human, and we can never know in any instance precisely what is meant.

I'm aware of Laqueur's book, but I haven't read it.

Justme56 · 22/01/2023 21:16

Surely if there were more than 2 sexes then we would still need ‘single’ sex spaces - just 3, 4 or whatever ridiculous number they suggest. Better than squeezing those who don’t belong in the wrong ones.

Ofcourseshecan · 22/01/2023 21:01

Thank you, everyone who has taken up the challenge of explaining reality to believers in genderism. This latest bit of woowoo dogma, sex being a colonialist construct, takes the batshittery to levels that make anti-vaxxers sound smart.

Ameadowwalk · 22/01/2023 20:44

JustSpeculation · 22/01/2023 10:00

But Aristotle thought there was only one sex - women are defective men, who should be given less food and have a tendency to scold, but who nevertheless have the right to be happy, as this benefits the community - according to a sociology textbook I was reading last week. Aristotle may have noticed differences between male and female, and may also have noticed that the differences were related to reproduction (he specifically refers to "copulation" in relation to propagation a number of times). However, this distinction is not sex, which was not invented until the mid 18th century.

Sex is something else. What, precisely, we don't know, but we do know that it is socially constructed. It might have someting to do with heteronormative power structures, which clearly also didn't exist before the 18th century.

Of course heteronormative power structures existed before the 18th century!

Who were the priests and the clerics in the Catholic Church? Not women, that is for sure. Does not the apostle Paul emphasise men’s authority over women? And Christianity was pervasive. While it was before the rise of domesticity in the late nineteenth century, women still were those who ran the household, birthed and cared for the children, were legally dependent on their husbands, oh and let’s not forget witch burnings. So yes, there were heteronormative power structures.

What did happen in the 18th century was that - according to Laquer - there was a shift in medical understanding of reproduction from women being seen as a subset of men (a one-sex model) to women being seen as incommensurably different ( a two sex model). This mapped onto to societally constructed sex roles which saw women as hysterical and irrational due to menstruation and their reproductive role. This grew out of heteronormative power structures and reinforced them. Who was deciding how anatomy should be understood and practicing medicine at the time? Not women for sure.

Crabo · 22/01/2023 20:21

We are hearing some nutty nonsense but this really does beat it all. Must’ve come from some American University. I do think it’s most unwise to send you kids to university these days as they get their heads filled with nonsense

EpicChaos · 22/01/2023 20:17

Even Neanderthal man managed to figure out how to breed! Gee Whizz! :-/

Delphinium20 · 22/01/2023 20:08

"It suggests" not "I suggest". Shit. Bad typo. Bad.

Delphinium20 · 22/01/2023 20:05

IcakedefargeIam · 22/01/2023 11:11

I think trying to argue reasonably with the batshit is a mistake. The OP's friend is, probably, not racist but what she is disseminating is. Don't entertain it at all. Anyone who comes out with this crap, treat it like you would any other racist shit. Call it out, every single time. Don't reason with it. Call it out. It's racist, end off. It's racist, how dare you. It's racist, I used to think better of you. It's racist, get out of your echo chamber and educate yourself.

While I agree this is useful for an immediate reaction, "omg. I can't believe you said that! Don't you see how racist that comes off?"

I think it's relatively easy to argue why something is racist. I'd give her a few points and say, "maybe you didn't mean it but that statement presumes ignorance by indigenous people about sexual reproduction and it assumes that they didn't have their own cultural stereotypes and structures based on sex differences. I suggests they are less intellectually capable than colonizers."

ErrolTheDragon · 22/01/2023 16:07

Not really. More a general feature of human beings. Colonialism and Empires date back to ancient times; having your country colonised by the Babylonians was no fun at all. Part of this weird reverse arrogance that the modern disciplines have is that only white Europeans did ‘proper’ colonialism.

True enough, empires by definition do imperialism! However, it may be that the combination of colonisation with a religion which believes it is The One True way is particularly likely to tend to suppress rather than accommodate indigenous religions and culture.

Anactor · 22/01/2023 15:45

“It's probably a general feature of proselytising religions.”

Not really. More a general feature of human beings. Colonialism and Empires date back to ancient times; having your country colonised by the Babylonians was no fun at all. Part of this weird reverse arrogance that the modern disciplines have is that only white Europeans did ‘proper’ colonialism.

The three major proselytising religions are Buddhism, Islam and Christianity. (Buddhism tends to say it’s not a proselytising religion, but they do seem to be very, very good at explaining why they’re the right path to follow.)

ScrollingLeaves · 22/01/2023 15:23

IcakedefargeIam · Yesterday 22:58

Yeah, presumably it's why it's called the 'missionary position'. Until the Europeans showed up, native people had been randomly plugging bits of bodies together. It's a wonder their populations hadn't died out. Let's ignore that many cultures had different customs and rituals specific to each sex.

It's arrogant and racist
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It certainly is.

ErrolTheDragon · 22/01/2023 15:17

ExiledElsie · 22/01/2023 14:57

Is Christianity a western religion? Showing my ignorance here, but it comes from the same region as Islam and Judaism, are people from the Middle East white colonialists for the purposes of these arguments?

(Disclaimer, I know pretty much nothing about these religions, but knowing stuff doesn't seem to be a requirement.)

I think it's more that it was primarily Western branches of Christianity which were heavily involved in colonisation.There have also of course been Islamic colonisers. It's probably a general feature of proselytising religions.

Anactor · 22/01/2023 15:14

JustSpeculation · 22/01/2023 15:02

I'd call Islam and Judaism western religions, as Eastern religions are things like Buddhism, Hinduism and Shinto and what have you. Others may disagree.

I’d say they were Eastern religions which successfully colonised the West. (Also a religion MA). Judaism is only a ‘Western’ religion in the sense that it’s more familiar to us than Buddhism/Shinto et al, because there’s a fairly large Jewish population in Western countries.

Anactor · 22/01/2023 15:03

JustSpeculation · 22/01/2023 14:45

I'm going to apologise, because I was parodying the kind of idiot argument I've heard on this issue, and didn't signpost that enough.

It’s okay, I did get that it was a parody after a re-read. I just thought it was worth pointing out how batshit the idiot argument is…

JustSpeculation · 22/01/2023 15:02

I'd call Islam and Judaism western religions, as Eastern religions are things like Buddhism, Hinduism and Shinto and what have you. Others may disagree.

ExiledElsie · 22/01/2023 14:57

Is Christianity a western religion? Showing my ignorance here, but it comes from the same region as Islam and Judaism, are people from the Middle East white colonialists for the purposes of these arguments?

(Disclaimer, I know pretty much nothing about these religions, but knowing stuff doesn't seem to be a requirement.)

JustSpeculation · 22/01/2023 14:45

Anactor · 22/01/2023 13:47

That’s what Aristotle thought. Plato thought something else again (two sexes) and other philosophers were arguing about women’s roles as well.

Arguing that the whole of Greek society thought X because some Greek philosophers (even if one of them was Aristotle) thought X is utterly batshit. It’s like arguing that the Greeks all lived in clay wine jars because Diogenes did.

I'm going to apologise, because I was parodying the kind of idiot argument I've heard on this issue, and didn't signpost that enough.

Anactor · 22/01/2023 13:47

JustSpeculation · 22/01/2023 10:00

But Aristotle thought there was only one sex - women are defective men, who should be given less food and have a tendency to scold, but who nevertheless have the right to be happy, as this benefits the community - according to a sociology textbook I was reading last week. Aristotle may have noticed differences between male and female, and may also have noticed that the differences were related to reproduction (he specifically refers to "copulation" in relation to propagation a number of times). However, this distinction is not sex, which was not invented until the mid 18th century.

Sex is something else. What, precisely, we don't know, but we do know that it is socially constructed. It might have someting to do with heteronormative power structures, which clearly also didn't exist before the 18th century.

That’s what Aristotle thought. Plato thought something else again (two sexes) and other philosophers were arguing about women’s roles as well.

Arguing that the whole of Greek society thought X because some Greek philosophers (even if one of them was Aristotle) thought X is utterly batshit. It’s like arguing that the Greeks all lived in clay wine jars because Diogenes did.

puffyisgood · 22/01/2023 13:36

it's true. it's a little known fact that Charles Darwin's observations about natural selection etc drew exclusively on his observations from those of the Galapagos Islands that'd historically been used as stopping off points by European conquistadors. much richer, more diverse, more nuanced things were going on in the other islands, but all that data got hushed up because it didn't fit the narrow colonial mindset.

Grammarnut · 22/01/2023 13:22

queencookiemonster · 22/01/2023 02:31

Hijra are third gender people in South Asia. The British criminalised them in 1871 and it wasn't until independence that the law was repealed. Hijra are still ostracised as a result of the law put in place. rpl.hds.harvard.edu/religion-context/case-studies/gender/third-gender-and-hijras

Hijra are not a third gender, they are men who decide or are forced to become male to female prostitutes.

SockGoddess · 22/01/2023 12:48

Yet another inconsistency is when they say there's more than two sexes, sex is a spectrum, etc. So if that were true, that would mean sex is a real thing and not a social construct, wouldn't it? Make your minds up.

The whole thing is like trying to have an argument with a narcissist who keeps moving the goalposts and contradicting what they just said.