Page 11 | OJ has a special message for us…

Cuppasoupmonster · 2023-01-19T13:14:29+00:00

https://twitter.com/OwenJones84/status/1616008459958231040/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1616008459958231040&currentTweetUser=OwenJones84 Gave me a laugh over my coffee anyway 😆 does he remind anyone else of arguments with their little brother? ‘You’re going to lose. Why are you hitting yourself’ etc 😂 Interesting he has never ever once engaged with any of the thousands of points as to why gender ideology is indefensible at best and harmful at worst, it’s always just ‘You’re going to lose… tiny minority… section 28’

Boiledbeetle · 21/01/2023 20:16

PizzaNinja · 21/01/2023 20:11

Love it

PizzaNinja · 21/01/2023 20:11

JacquelinePot · 20/01/2023 22:09

Busted! It's like Blackpool illuminations in here.

Boiledbeetle · 20/01/2023 22:04

JacquelinePot · 20/01/2023 21:44

I've got a two word message for OJ and the last one is 'off'

Oh...light?

Light off. Are you his mum? Is it past his bed time?

JacquelinePot · 20/01/2023 21:44

I've got a two word message for OJ and the last one is 'off'

WandaWomblesaurus · 20/01/2023 21:37

Reminds me to buy something from her store.

WandaWomblesaurus · 20/01/2023 21:37

Boiledbeetle · 20/01/2023 15:21

The KJK (every time i type her initials my tablet autocorrects to MUM, so cute!) Video is a really good watch.

It did look like she was looking at something but more likely a bullet point list rather than a word by word monologue like Owen.

It's just the way she goes through scenario after scenario after scenario. And each ones ends the same.

I love her.

She is usually keeping an eye on the comments on her screen so she can respond to people in real time, especially those who donate.

ArabellaScott · 20/01/2023 20:23

DialSquare · 20/01/2023 19:43

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I'm not that old.

Boiledbeetle · 20/01/2023 20:21

Cuppasoupmonster · 20/01/2023 19:49

Not even saggy titted oldies, just women in general. Even the young cool ones with pronouns in their email signature and septum piercings are being taken for a ride, convinced it’s all for their own ‘liberation’ of course.

It's like watching a really bad remake of the Stepford Wives

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Cuppasoupmonster · 20/01/2023 19:49

Not even saggy titted oldies, just women in general. Even the young cool ones with pronouns in their email signature and septum piercings are being taken for a ride, convinced it’s all for their own ‘liberation’ of course.

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DialSquare · 20/01/2023 19:43

Boiledbeetle · 20/01/2023 19:16

saggy titted boring oldies

I'm not boring.

Boiledbeetle · 20/01/2023 19:16

saggy titted boring oldies

I'm not boring.

nilsmousehammer · 20/01/2023 19:02

Cuppasoupmonster · 20/01/2023 16:54

He’s clearly decided he was entitled to do so as he’d had the bother of sleeping on the ward 🤷🏼‍♀️ tosser

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Reminds me of the insane entitlement of 'I cannot possibly fold my huge carefully chosen buggy out of the disabled bus space, which was never designed for me but for those who cannot access public transport any other way and have lives to lead too, and the person in the wheelchair must wait for another 20 mins and see if they can access another bus because it would wake up the baby'.

Respect and consideration are apparently now for saggy titted boring oldies. (And heaven help them if they fail to provide it on demand).

DialSquare · 20/01/2023 18:58

Datun · 20/01/2023 18:34

And you know what, I'm almost certain my multitasking skills are up to that as well...

I don't doubt it!

Datun · 20/01/2023 18:34

And you know what, I'm almost certain my multitasking skills are up to that as well...

Datun · 20/01/2023 18:31

DialSquare · 20/01/2023 16:56

I thought there was some extreme multitasking going on there until I quickly realised there was a typo for 'whole"

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Oh yes, sorry!

Boiledbeetle · 20/01/2023 17:01

DialSquare · 20/01/2023 16:56

I thought there was some extreme multitasking going on there until I quickly realised there was a typo for 'whole"

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You weren't on your own!

DialSquare · 20/01/2023 16:56

Datun · 20/01/2023 16:35

anyway I’m ranting…

yeah, but this while fucking thing makes you rant 😁

I thought there was some extreme multitasking going on there until I quickly realised there was a typo for 'whole"

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Cuppasoupmonster · 20/01/2023 16:54

ResisterRex · 20/01/2023 16:52

On the postnatal ward, after giving birth I wanted a bath. With some effort due to being cut ear to ear I got myself down the corridor to the communal bathroom (1 bath, no showers) to find one of the dads had decided to take a leisurely soak in it and I would have to come back later 😳

What the fuck?!

He’s clearly decided he was entitled to do so as he’d had the bother of sleeping on the ward 🤷🏼‍♀️ tosser

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ResisterRex · 20/01/2023 16:52

On the postnatal ward, after giving birth I wanted a bath. With some effort due to being cut ear to ear I got myself down the corridor to the communal bathroom (1 bath, no showers) to find one of the dads had decided to take a leisurely soak in it and I would have to come back later 😳

What the fuck?!

Datun · 20/01/2023 16:35

anyway I’m ranting…

yeah, but this while fucking thing makes you rant 😁

RoyalCorgi · 20/01/2023 16:30

Part of me thinks it’s because none of them have a clue what bearing children does to a woman’s body - they think it’s 9 months with possibly a slightly achey back, out pops the baby and then a couple of months later you’re more or less back to normal.

Let's be clear: they don't know because they choose not to know. They really don't give a fuck either way what the experience is like for the woman.

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Cuppasoupmonster · 20/01/2023 16:28

Therefore you’re both at his disposal like seems kind furniture fairy godmothers 🙄 honestly I’m due to give birth again in 8 weeks and I swear if the same thing happens to me I will stand hammering on the door until he leaves.

The ‘oh but women make up their own minds about whether to be a surrogate’ reminds me of men who say the same about sex workers. They have the level of autonomy to decide to do all that apparently but not to decide they want their own spaces, they must be instructed by the menz on that matter.

Part of me thinks it’s because none of them have a clue what bearing children does to a woman’s body - they think it’s 9 months with possibly a slightly achey back, out pops the baby and then a couple of months later you’re more or less back to normal. They don’t realise (or choose not to realise) that it is such an enormous event for a woman physically and emotionally that there’s nothing to compare it to.

I’m in my early 30s, second pregnancy and it’s been horrific - although not ‘on paper’ because technically baby and I are both okay at the moment. But I had hypermesis until 24 weeks which made me lose so much weight that at 29 weeks pregnant I now only weigh 4lb more than before I got pregnant. I have PGP and back pain, struggling to even put my own shoes on. I haven’t had more than 4 hours unbroken sleep for months because of pregnancy insomnia and needing the toilet constantly. Not to mention all the tests, various meds I’m on to keep us both healthy etc.

The idea that anyone would do this for 9 months and then go through the much bigger event that is birth and fourth trimester ‘out of the goodness of their heart’ is laughable. Either money changes hands or some poor woman has been emotionally put upon by the men in her life to ‘provide’ for them. Remember all those nauseating posts by Brian Dowling about how happy his sister was to give him and his boyfriend a baby ‘because she’s single and might not get to experience it otherwise’? Like she was some kind of spinster who should be happy to go through all that with none of the perks at the end. And the heartbreaking post about how the baby ‘always settles when she sees her aunty Aofie’. Well duh that’s because she is the baby’s mum 😡

anyway I’m ranting…

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Datun · 20/01/2023 16:04

I agree with all your post soup but this

On the postnatal ward, after giving birth I wanted a bath. With some effort due to being cut ear to ear I got myself down the corridor to the communal bathroom (1 bath, no showers) to find one of the dads had decided to take a leisurely soak in it and I would have to come back later 😳

Is just staggering. He sees a bath, he needs a bath, so it must be there for him!

They really should be dramatic consequences.

In the furniture shop, the same man had already asked me to help him, despite the fact that I had a winter coat on, my bag over my shoulder, and obviously didn't work there.

But it is a shop run by women. Therefore...

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Cuppasoupmonster · 20/01/2023 15:51

Datun · 20/01/2023 15:35

I know I'm quoting myself!

I realise that men will often gain from the sexism, but even so, it's very weird sometimes when you know they can't see what's in front of their nose.

I was in a furniture shop and the woman was helping me, and a man just interrupted us and asked her to help him. He simply didn't see me - and only saw her in terms of how she could help him.

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Men cannot rid themselves of this subconscious mindset that we are there to serve, affirm and validate them at all costs.

Tradesmen ask me to make them tea/coffee and sometimes even food. I’ve never seen them ask DH for so much as a glass of water.

At work it’s always the women offering to do tea and coffee rounds. Fuck that shit, I don’t offer any more.

When my sexist in laws come for dinner they’re always ‘surprised’ when it is DH cooking, and see it as proof that I’ve castrated him and am lazy. ‘Mr Soup is cooking is he? Well, that’s a surprise! Why is he doing that?’ Etc

On the postnatal ward, after giving birth I wanted a bath. With some effort due to being cut ear to ear I got myself down the corridor to the communal bathroom (1 bath, no showers) to find one of the dads had decided to take a leisurely soak in it and I would have to come back later 😳

Surrogacy and expecting women to allow themselves to be put at extra risk to affirm and validate biological men is absolutely no different. OJ might not be asking his female colleagues to bring him refreshments but it all comes from exactly the same place. He’s no better than your average postnatal ward bath hogger…

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