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I am a woman! Please remind me how

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Booblessbeauty · 17/01/2023 09:29

I have a genetic form of cancer which means female body parts have been removed and female hormones suppressed. So I have had a full hysterectomy, including cervix, ovaries, etc. ANd a radical double mastectomy. And will be taking tablets to suppress female hormones for the rest of my life. O yes, and I am bald because of chemo. And I often wear mens clothes. They are practical and cheap

So. please confirm for me what makes me a woman.

I do have my own little list, which I will post shortly, but I would like to hear your ideas first

I am not fragile, in any way, so you are very welcome to be as honest as you want

OP posts:
nilsmousehammer · 17/01/2023 09:51

Do you have a gold lame handbag? Wink

So sorry with all you have to deal with OP. But whatever happens to your body, it will be happening to a female body. There is nothing at any point that stops it being female, or could. Centuries from now it will still be identifiable as female. Even the DNA traces you leave behind are identifiable as female.

ArabellaScott · 17/01/2023 09:48

Your heart is female: www.nature.com/articles/s41467-022-31544-5
Your liver is female: swhr.org/exploring-the-role-of-sex-and-gender-differences-in-liver-health/
Your kidneys are female: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7745509/

We could keep going, and there would be sex differences in every part of your body. We've not even got onto how you were raised as a girl and lived as a woman all your life!

Basically every part of you is coded female, and that can't ever change.

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK9967/

Rubidium · 17/01/2023 09:47

If you met with a group of other women who had also had hysterectomies/ mastectomies, you would be able to discuss and compare your experience with these women. Someone male would not be able to participate in that conversation.

LaughingPriest · 17/01/2023 09:44

Anyone born female gets to be a girl/woman.
It's a shame that people want to restrict this to people who think a certain way, act, behave, prioritise, feel a certain way. (They won't say what way, because they are fully aware it would look ridiculous and misogynistic).

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 17/01/2023 09:37

I am sorry to hear about your condition.

You are biologically female - being a woman isn't about how you look. You were born female, your cells are female, all the organs you had removed relate to being female, you will always be female.

You are an adult human female - you are a woman

poshme · 17/01/2023 09:37

If you walked across a room facing away from me I would be able to tell you were a woman.

You are. XX in every cell. Female

MillicentTrilbyHiggins · 17/01/2023 09:37

You were born female.

And if you weren't a woman you couldn't have had a hysterectomy.

TheFeistyFeminist · 17/01/2023 09:36

The bits that you needed to have removed were female bits, that grew there during normal development.

The hormones you need to have suppressed are those female hormones that your body produces naturally as a result of your normal development.

If you were to conduct genetic testing, your biological sex would most likely be identifiable from any and every cell in your body.

It isn't what you wear, a hairstyle, a particular shade of lipstick or the type of handbag you carry.

Twizbe · 17/01/2023 09:36

growinggreyer · 17/01/2023 09:33

Hmm, have you looked at your underwear? If there are little bows sewn on, you are definitely a woman.

Lol at this

RudsyFarmer · 17/01/2023 09:36

If they dug up your skeleton in one hundred years they would know you were a woman.

picklemewalnuts · 17/01/2023 09:35

The cancer you have only affects women. It's genetic.
If you had had no idea whether you were a woman, the cancer you got clarified it.

Original poster
Booblessbeauty · 17/01/2023 09:34

Nothingandnowhere · 17/01/2023 09:32

Only a female can have a hysterectomy

Ha! love that!

OP posts:
growinggreyer · 17/01/2023 09:33

Hmm, have you looked at your underwear? If there are little bows sewn on, you are definitely a woman.

AndyWarholsPiehole · 17/01/2023 09:33

Having all those parts removed proves you are a woman..

ArabellaScott · 17/01/2023 09:33

OP every cell in your body is, and always will be, female. Flowers

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 17/01/2023 09:33

You became a woman at the moment of conception. It is encoded in every cell of your body, and every bone in your skeleton. Nothing can change that.

Nothingandnowhere · 17/01/2023 09:32

Only a female can have a hysterectomy

midgetastic · 17/01/2023 09:32

Depends on what you mean by women

I'd say you are one because your body is of the type that we would expect to have all the bits that you have have removed

Since you had the bits removed you have the only type of body that could have had those bits removed

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