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Gendered hair, the struggle is real

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KatMcBundleFace · 15/01/2023 14:19

Do we think that Metro is secretly gender critical? They keep publishing absolutely whingefests that really do not show the TQ in a good light at all.

Now of cause everyone should be able to have the hair cut they want..... it is just gender stereotypes after all. But I can't help laughing at the delicate ones crashing into the real world 👇

metro.co.uk/2023/01/15/going-to-the-barbers-as-an-lgbtq-person-means-hiding-my-identity-18080558/

Favourite bits:

"For me, short hair was what I’d longed for, and was symbolic of me becoming a man,’ he says.
Trans people make a lot of changes – both big and small – to feel a sense of trans joy. Hair, after all, is one of the first things people see.
But his first haircut when he came out was not just about choosing scissors or clippers – it was about feeling inner peace."

"Harry now goes to a mixed-gender hairdresser who treats his hair ‘gently and allows me to talk about my life, gender and my partner’."

Talking about your gender eh? Makes a change from "where are you going on your holibobs luv?". Let's ALL talk about our gender next time we are in the hairdressers... it'll go down so well! We all have inner peace after a good hair cut though, so I hear them on that.

Then we get to Eden, who works,
SHOCKINGLY in the charity sector and has a lot of pronouns. Confusingly all mixed up in the article.
"Eden, 27, who is transfeminine and works in the charity sector, says xe can’t use any old barbers as she has to out herself as trans."

Next we find out about the 😱 horror of having to book a "gents" cut when you're non binary.

Finally we get to David, who's had to be vague about their partners pronouns.
Because some women were once a bit mean when he was listening in on their conversations at the hairdressers .
😱😱😱

I'm going to hold all these people in my prayers.

OP posts:
CountZacular · 15/01/2023 14:37

Remember that gender is a social construct, and the depressing stereotypes commonly associated with what it means to be a man or a woman have simply been invented over time,’ they say.

‘Some trans people seek to completely change their appearance to match their true gender by having a gender-affirming “masculine” or “feminine” haircut which gives them a sense of gender euphoria (although it should be noted that this is not the case for every trans or non binary person)

Do they hear themselves? Gender is a social construct in one breath but they need to change their appearance to match their ‘true’ gender. Why would you have a ‘true’ gender if it’s made up by society?

unclebuck · 15/01/2023 14:37

😂aww bless

Florissant · 15/01/2023 14:24

Does MN have an eye-roll emoji? If not, it needs to.

bellac11 · 15/01/2023 14:22

Its exhausting

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