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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Help me work out how to alert my friends to what's happening. Also is my panic irrational?

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FriendofJoanne · 11/01/2023 13:29

I've posted the Sex Matters petition and all my family and some of my closest friends have signed, but others have said nothing. When we get together we are usually in a group catching up on our lives in general, and I try to talk but haven't managed to so far.

I've shared the petition on our Whatsapp group but only had one contact me separately. I've written a letter but not shared it as there's so much to say. I want to share my worries succinctly - about women's rights being eroded, children being taught that gender is more important than sex, children and vulnerable adults being medicated and given surgery instead of therapy to help them with trauma.

This is affecting my mental health now, I feel sick, depressed and anxious about the world we live in because of this. I care about global warming and the financial inequality of the world too, but this issue has taken over my life. For you others in this who post regularly how do you manage your anxiety? Do you feel anxious? How do you keep going?

I try to put time boundaries around how long I spend reading, but I do tend to listen to podcasts while doing other things.

My husband suggested I step away for a bit, I do need to, but I feel strongly that once I've shared my concerns it will relieve my anxiety and I'll be able to stop obsessing about it.

So please help me very succinctly explain why this issue is so important. Thank you :) Or just some headlines to catch peoples attention to read more. I think a lot of people still don't think its relevant to their lives.

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FriendofJoanne · 11/01/2023 13:51

Thank you, it does help to hear that. It's just that feeling of not having a voice, not being able to say what I feel I need to say. I'll feel better once I've done it and sent individually to people as I think things get missed on group chat.

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SamphiretheTervosaurReturneth · 11/01/2023 13:42

This is affecting my mental health now, I feel sick, depressed and anxious about the world we live in because of this. I care about global warming and the financial inequality of the world too, but this issue has taken over my life. For you others in this who post regularly how do you manage your anxiety? Do you feel anxious? How do you keep going?

I agree with your DH. Take a step back. You need to find a balance that you can live with. It's no good burning yourself out for something that is outwith your control.

You seem to have done what you can within your friendship group. You don't really need to educate people who have shown no interest.

Look after yourself first and foremost. None of us, your friends, your family would want to see your MH decline because of this, or any other, issue.

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