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How Long Before We Look Back In Amazement

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TheShellBeach · 16/12/2022 13:11

..................over the fact that we had to go through all the transwankery. That we had to fight and fight over such an issue. That some men were allowed to do this to us. That even a lot of women could not see the harm this was causing women and girls.

I mean, surely there will come a time when we can look back and say "I remember that - it was awful - thank goodness people saw through it eventually." How long will it be?

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TooBigForMyBoots · 16/12/2022 17:25

Jamie Wallis MP has joined the Women's and Equalities committee. I fear things will get worse before they get better.Xmas Sad

Wiccan · 16/12/2022 17:22

fabricstash · 16/12/2022 14:05

Unfortunately this is alive and kicking in Bristol - bonkers

People will follow anything in Bristol unfortunately 🙄

PermanentTemporary · 16/12/2022 17:21

Depends on what people mean by 'my life. It's affecting people I know, my work, my sport.

AutumnCrow · 16/12/2022 17:20

thewayround · 16/12/2022 13:19

It has such a tiny impact on my life and I really only read about it ever on mumsnet, i doubt I’ll ever reach that point

Unfortunately it's having a massive impact on my life.

PermanentTemporary · 16/12/2022 17:17

Not very likely re the celebs. There are loads who mention their trans child - most very sensitively and clearly with permission- and for those who don't it will be because it's too painful and private. Any celeb who washed that kind of linen in public would quite rightly lose credibility.

nauticant · 16/12/2022 17:09

I'm waiiting for the first major celeb to find they have an indocrinated child and publicly come out and say "No thank you".

It wouldn't surprise me for a seemingly very small catalyst like that to make awareness and speaking up spread suddenly.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 16/12/2022 17:06

I think it won’t survive as long as some people fear. There is an increasing pushback from gay men (based on an unscientific view of tweets). They are resentful that their history and lifestyle is being rewritten from a trans perspective. I think their voice will be difficult for the pseudo liberals to ignore.
Add a couple of expensive lawsuits from detransitioners in the US and it will become harder to defend medicalised responses.
In the meantime the push to strengthen the EA and repeal the GRA could have long term benefits.
It’s painful and horrible but partly thanks to the fuss at Edinburgh Uni 30k people have watched AHF on YouTube

WarriorN · 16/12/2022 17:04

Where there's potentially a big push back is increasing awareness of and research into women's bodies -sport, medicine, fitness etc. the differences are huge. Invisible women etc.

Englands Women's football team clearly used modern methods of training which includes awareness of cycles. There's also a lot of current sports research into brain injuries among female football and rugby players.

Awareness of menopause among younger women is growing etc.

I think in a decade young women and girls will be more empowered in these areas. Hopefully also for girls' hormones etc causing awful symptoms which is potentially another driver to transition.

WarriorN · 16/12/2022 16:59

MotherWol · 16/12/2022 14:10

I suspect that as the current generation of 20-somethings grow up, there will be a shift away from pronoun/identity politics. It’s harder to maintain outside of a university environment, if you’re working and in a more professional setting. Furthermore, I imagine that as it becomes an established identity held by 30 and 40 somethings, it will be less appealing to teens, and that aspect will fizzle somewhat.

I feel this; unfortunately the embedment in schools, which will include staff (teaching is mostly female and I've already noticed there are growing numbers of trans men entering the profession) will potentially result in making it very difficult to balance appropriate teaching on this subject. Which will influence teens.

Though the oldies thinking they're hip effect may come into play in about 10 years.

Signalbox · 16/12/2022 16:55

TheShellBeach · 16/12/2022 16:15

Why are billionaires funding this?

I wonder the same thing.

I would think power. If you can get people to carry out medical experiments on children all in the name of progress you can get them to do anything.

picklemewalnuts · 16/12/2022 16:49

When the PP said 'poor schools' she wasn't referring to poverty stricken schools or schools in impoverished areas.

She was using it as 'unfortunate'- they feel obliged to toe the party line, as opposed to religious and independent schools that may feel more freedom to promote a particular ethos.

I'm not convinced she's right, but I don't think she was looking down her nose at state schools.

TheShellBeach · 16/12/2022 16:42

They don't give a toss about schoolkids being gunned down in their classrooms, so why would they care about this?

That is so true. Apparently their 2nd Amendment rights are more important than children's lives.

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notacooldad · 16/12/2022 16:16

Thankfully my kids go to schools and their peers really don’t also seem to be bothered about it all. Thank goodness. No classmates suddenly decided they want to be called Jane instead of Jeremy
How old are your kids?
I am currently working with two 17 year olds who have waited until they left high school so they could be ' free to be the real me' In the last few years I have worked with quite a few 15 and 16 year old as well.

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TheShellBeach · 16/12/2022 16:15

Why are billionaires funding this?

I wonder the same thing.

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Baldieheid · 16/12/2022 16:11

I fear it won't end in my lifetime, but that when it does, it will make the Jimmy Saville (and other 70s, 80s TV "stars") scandal look like a side bar in the daily fail. The USA is lost. They don't give a toss about schoolkids being gunned down in their classrooms, so why would they care about this? This country has a chance, but it's going to take something horrific to make it change.

Nousernamesleftatall · 16/12/2022 15:58

This is an agenda coming to fruition. Many of the trans NGO's are funded by the same people worldwide. Women are not the target per se, it is the children. Why are billionaires funding this?

TheShellBeach · 16/12/2022 15:57

JacquelinePot · 16/12/2022 15:53

I honestly don't think the lie is sustainable. The lawsuits will help with that.

Eventually, yes.
So many people have been sucked in to this nonsense.

I had a friend on Twitter who started a thread about her workplace - she is a medical secretary and was tweeting because some of the doctors she worked for refused to use patients preferred pronouns.

I replied that as they were doctors, they were particularly well-placed to know that people cannot change sex.

She blocked me immediately.

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GoldenPineapple88 · 16/12/2022 15:54

It cannot come soon enough, OP.

JacquelinePot · 16/12/2022 15:53

I honestly don't think the lie is sustainable. The lawsuits will help with that.

RubyTrees · 16/12/2022 15:53

UnderHisEyeOverMyDeadBody · 16/12/2022 14:06

I hope so however, realistically I think if it does happen it will be decades from now.

Every time something comes out that I think could bring the whole charade to an end and open the eyes of the public, absolutely nothing comes of it.

I was going to reply that I didn't think it will happen in my lifetime (I'm 60) but this thread gives me hope:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4698483-will-we-die-out?page=1

GloomyDarkness · 16/12/2022 15:45

Depends how entrenched it becomes - I don't think it's looking great here in Wales but it's not an every day concern but it's an issue we are all aware of.

It is in DH workplace and DC educational institutes and it crops up - DH always get a look of panic on his face when it crops up at home often via media I think due to his academia experiences- but I ask awkward questions and suggest things aren't clear cut - but I'm still careful what I say and my teens aren't advocates and tend to lean towards some skepticism but also it's their friends/groups being kind is a thing and they haven't the live experiences to see the pitfalls.

I suspect US left wing media will have to change it's stance - a lot of the stuff flows from there - their soft power has quiet a reach.

Abccde · 16/12/2022 15:38

It's made me realise that there is a lot of men who have so much resentment and hatred towards woman.

These people have been given a voice, they have become popular and cool online, they are no longer the social outcasts, they are the leaders. They are seriously mentally disturbed individuals and they have power, so much power.

I am not just talking about men who decide to identify as woman - actually they are only part of the problem as they are very visible (even if they don't think they are).

It's those men who sit and wank in their flats (or most likely their bedrooms whilst mammy is downstairs making their tea). They are not going anywhere.

Even if its not Trans Ideology it will be something esle. These sad pathetic people hate us. They despise every single female. They have got so much power over the last few years thanks to the rise of anonymous social media.

It is terrifying .

Clearcoolhot · 16/12/2022 15:38

nauticant · 16/12/2022 14:18

What I find interesting is that this shows that some scandals don't go on unchecked because they're hidden. They can be happening clear as day but they're just not perceived as such (by many). In cases like this, scandals can be "uncovered" by a small event that no one would have assumed would have the power to make everyone leap up in alarm.

Also, that the entire world can be overtaken by overlapping related bizarre beliefs without it being a vast conspiracy. Just lots of people with very different motivations seeing that there are cracks in safeguarding/oppotunities to grab power who go for it and push it as far as it will go.

It’s fascinating isn’t it?

TheShellBeach · 16/12/2022 15:26

Apollo441 · 16/12/2022 15:10

My kids Catholic school is having none of it. We played the pay or pray card but now we're grateful that they seem to be a barrier against fashionable trends.

That's exactly it. "Fashionable" is the right word.

It started as a kind of trend and ended up decimating women's rights, left, right and centre.

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Apollo441 · 16/12/2022 15:10

My kids Catholic school is having none of it. We played the pay or pray card but now we're grateful that they seem to be a barrier against fashionable trends.