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Helen Joyce & Julie Bindel: Should TERFs unite with the Right?

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ILikeDungs · 09/12/2022 11:22

By Unherd, a debate-style response to the purity spiral after Brighton. I do admire Helen Joyce and her ability to calmly and logically discuss the issues. Unherd have made it age restricted (because of all the fucks, I suppose!):

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beastlyslumber · 13/12/2022 22:17

In what ways do WPUK, a group of volunteer women, have more power than either the BNP, Hearts of Oak or ADF international UK?

Well the BNP have 26 members and zero legitimacy. Hearts of Oak - not sure they even have members? No one ever heard of them until they turned up at Posie's event, so clearly Standing for Women have more power than they do. ADF likewise, no one hear ever heard of them until feminists started speaking about them.

In what way do you think these groups have more power than WPUK @Shinyredbicycle?

LangClegsInSpace · 13/12/2022 22:12

Setting aside differences isn't an equitable thing though, if one party has more power than the other. It's using the resources of the less powerful party to shore up the resources of the more powerful, who are the ultimate winners.

It doesn't need to be equitable it just needs to be beneficial for both parties.

Kara Dansky and KJK have both appeared on Tucker Carlson. In terms of who used whose resources I think they won.

LangClegsInSpace · 13/12/2022 22:09

Floisme · 13/12/2022 17:44

Is Julie Bindel part of that Actual Gender Critical Left Facebook group? I think someone's already asked this but I can't see any answer.

I hope not (don't think she is).

What a nasty, unproductive little backwater they have made for themselves there.

MangyInseam · 13/12/2022 22:00

Hearts of Oak is a tiny fringe group with little credibility, and most people have never heard of them. They have no real access to the government or party system.

I would say that WPUK is likely far more influential, has more access to people with political power, and far more social credibility.

MangyInseam · 13/12/2022 21:58

beastlyslumber · 13/12/2022 20:19

which feminist groups have oppressive power over others?

????????

What?

This seems to be part of the larger pseudo-marxist thinking that can only envisage relations in terms of oppressive power structures.

Which is the background of gender ideology.

Which is possibly why JB and others like her find themselves in a conundrum - a movement that tackles GI in a holistic way challenges that paradigm, which they depend upon for their worldview.

Shinyredbicycle · 13/12/2022 21:56

That's how this part of the discussion started. A discussion about women working with groups with more power, including the power to oppress them. That's what social power is.

Should TERFS unite with the right?

In what ways do WPUK, a group of volunteer women, have more power than either the BNP, Hearts of Oak or ADF international UK?

MangyInseam · 13/12/2022 21:49

drwitch · 13/12/2022 19:14

The pay gap is driven by child rearing only if you take it as given that jobs should be packaged in that way. Why for example do law firms compete on availability rather than other dimensions of quality. Its the invisible women mechanism again

That's a POV, but one that I think has very little to do with the realities of childbirth or childcare for many women.

LangClegsInSpace · 13/12/2022 21:44

One factor in this might be JB's attitude to motherhood.

unherd.com/2022/07/why-i-didnt-want-children/

I don't think she's selfish for not wanting children and I agree that all of us who have chosen to have children have done so for basically selfish reasons.

I don't think she hates children and I think deliberately deciding not to have children is a brilliant choice that opens up a lot of freedom in life, especially for women.

But she's only interested in mothers and children if they are victims in some way and she has some really mean attitudes towards middle class mothers:

As a campaigner against all forms of violence against women and girls, my work affects more children than you can cram into a four-bedroom Georgian terrace.

I think she just doesn't understand motherhood.

She doesn't understand the timescale of 'MY child has ONE childhood and ONE adolescence and they're happening NOW and there's no going back later to fix things.'

Mine are late 20's and I'm so glad they just missed this shit but for mothers with children now, yes the house is on fire and their children are inside.

She doesn't understand the lengths mothers will go to, to protect our children, or how fiercely we will fight for them.

She doesn't understand that left-wing feminist approval will not likely be a priority for most mothers in this fight.

According to unicef there are 14,357,470 children in the UK. The vast majority of them have mothers who will do whatever they can to keep them safe.

That's a lot of mothers.

beastlyslumber · 13/12/2022 20:19

which feminist groups have oppressive power over others?

????????

What?

beastlyslumber · 13/12/2022 20:18

EndlessTea · 13/12/2022 19:21

I think the comparator was more that controversial fringe groups with small a membership base don’t have the mainstream clout of feminism.

Yes, exactly.

beastlyslumber · 13/12/2022 20:18

I can't see that feminists have power over any of those groups tbh.

I think this is a bit of a weird formulation, to say 'power over' - when the original discussion was about which group has more power in society.

WPUK has more power than the BNP. It has more power than Hearts of Oak, and the ADF in the UK.

You seem to be changing the terms of the discussion to something else. You can do that, but please acknowledge it, otherwise it's changing the goalposts.

EndlessTea · 13/12/2022 19:34

Shinyredbicycle · 13/12/2022 19:27

Leaving aside which are the small, fringe groups and which are the main because that's surely a matter of perspective, which feminist groups have oppressive power over others?

Which groups would be compromising their politics and using their resources counter productively by working with another, more powerful group which fundamentally have completely different ends in mind?

I don’t think that is what the other poster was talking about - oppressive power.

Shinyredbicycle · 13/12/2022 19:27

Leaving aside which are the small, fringe groups and which are the main because that's surely a matter of perspective, which feminist groups have oppressive power over others?

Which groups would be compromising their politics and using their resources counter productively by working with another, more powerful group which fundamentally have completely different ends in mind?

Shinyredbicycle · 13/12/2022 19:21

Yes, both women touched on this 'working with' question, which is an important one.

As this and many other threads have shown, one woman's pragmatism is another woman's compromise too far.

EndlessTea · 13/12/2022 19:21

I think the comparator was more that controversial fringe groups with small a membership base don’t have the mainstream clout of feminism.

Shinyredbicycle · 13/12/2022 19:17

I can't see that feminists have power over any of those groups tbh.

Gender ideology is an acute problem because of the chronic problem of male violence not rather than.

It would never have taken hold if there wasn't already entrenched oppression of women and violence towards women and girls.

If women/feminists have even equal power, one 'no' would have been enough.

drwitch · 13/12/2022 19:14

The pay gap is driven by child rearing only if you take it as given that jobs should be packaged in that way. Why for example do law firms compete on availability rather than other dimensions of quality. Its the invisible women mechanism again

MangyInseam · 13/12/2022 18:50

ExiledElsie · 13/12/2022 18:38

I can't remember if she says it in this debate but I have heard her say she's not interested in the pay gap for rich women as they have comfy lives anyway.

I can appreciate that it's not her focus, and it is obviously less urgent that women suffering violence.

However, the fact that women are consistently underpaid is because women are just not seen as valuable as men are. So it's really the same problem.

I think that was also from the Triggernomatry interview.

Personally I am not that concerned about the pay gap because I think it is largely down to childbearing, and I don't think the answer to women's issues is to make them give up having and caring for children.

What struck me most in that particular interview was almost the first thing she said - she got into feminism because she went looking for lesbians.

I don't think she has a very serious interest in building a society, as such. So the political process isn't actually that important.

ExiledElsie · 13/12/2022 18:38

I can't remember if she says it in this debate but I have heard her say she's not interested in the pay gap for rich women as they have comfy lives anyway.

I can appreciate that it's not her focus, and it is obviously less urgent that women suffering violence.

However, the fact that women are consistently underpaid is because women are just not seen as valuable as men are. So it's really the same problem.

ExiledElsie · 13/12/2022 18:25

EndlessTea · 13/12/2022 17:44

Bosky it is undeniable when you lay it all out like that.

Yes - excellent post.

EndlessTea · 13/12/2022 18:06

MangyInseam · 13/12/2022 17:48

I don't find the explanations in JBs articles any more clear-sighted than her explanations here, I don't think that's the issue.

My impression is that JB is only interested in feminism which is specifically about rescuing women from violent male perpetrators.

Any feminism that doesn’t have that potential is a bit “meh” for her.

I remember when Invisible Women came out, she said it was a tour de force, or some such thing. Then recently, when she was on triggernometry, she said that she wasn’t interested in feminism about whether women have safety gear that fits them - she even said - I think - “it’s not a matter of life and death” - when it literally is a matter of life and death if a female police officer gets stabbed under her stab-proof vest, because it doesn’t fit.

I also think she is pretty territorial and petty, which is really confusing when she seems to have such noble aspirations.That’s why the explanations don’t hold up. It’s because they aren’t really her actual motivations.

MangyInseam · 13/12/2022 17:51

beastlyslumber · 13/12/2022 13:53

Don't know how I've lost you. I clearly answered your question.

But I think you've changed the terms a bit. It wasn't a matter of saying feminist groups have power OVER other groups, but that they are relatively more powerful than the groups discussed in the debate.

The "other group" I would say is the "far right". Feminism clearly has more credibility than whatever it is we are meant to think of when people use that phrase, that's the whole point of using it. To contrast the goodies with the obvious baddies.

The fact that usually it isn't any kind of far right that is being discussed notwithstanding.

MangyInseam · 13/12/2022 17:48

I don't find the explanations in JBs articles any more clear-sighted than her explanations here, I don't think that's the issue.

Datun · 13/12/2022 17:48

Bosky · 13/12/2022 16:46

NecessaryScene - "This particular society-wide Woke mess is a new acute problem hitting everyone - particularly women due to their chronic problem."

JB is so behind the curve on this that she is a liability with her "Calm down, dear, left wing feminists can sort this out!" attitude.

Going with JB's references to FGM, prostitution, etc. the equivalent situation would be:
. . . . schools across the country would be promoting FGM, prostitution, etc.

. . . . the NHS would be planning to increase funding for FGM surgery (well, they are but they don't call it FGM)

. . . . Girl Guiding would have a Lolita Badge for Brownies

. . . . every schoolgirl in the country would either have a pimp or know at least a couple of friends who had volunteered to be regularly gang-raped

. . . . almost every family would have a daughter, grand daughter, niece, cousin or a friend with a child who is convinced that she needs "life-saving FGM surgery" or that if she doesn't have a man selling her to be raped that she will kill herself.

Meanwhile, girls are STILL being trafficked for sex as they have been for the last 40 years and STILL nobody knows how many children are affected and how many perpetrators are involved.
www.iicsa.org.uk/reports-recommendations/publications/investigation

Parents have been organising to protect their children but they do not need to fear that they will be reported to the police for being "untoward about paedophiles".
paceuk.info/

FGM and the rape of children are not being promoted as good and natural things by everyone from the BBC to the CofE and parents are not being taught that a toddler pulling open the poppers on their onesie is signalling that they either want to be raped or be subjected to FGM.

Note:
"FGM" in the previous paragraph is not a synonym for "gender affirming care".

JB really does not seem to appreciate the scale and urgency and, despite her references to the BNP and Tommy Robinson muscling in on the "grooming gang" fiasco, gives pats on the back to her Soc Fem pals who prioritise polishing their left-wing credentials over protecting children.

In the screenshot from the Facebook "Actual Gender Critical Left" note the first comment:
"The replies are all trite cliches. Sometimes I think if I hear (read) "safeguarding" one more time I will vomit".

Note the "reactions": they are all "Likes" or "Laughs".

This is in response to comments on a WPUK Facebook post about Jayne Egerton's article ""Women and the Religious Right in the USA" (lauded by JB).

Note the comments that follow.

What is vastly more important to these women than "safeguarding", which either makes them want to vomit or is a joke, is approbation by other members of their in-crowd and fellow journalists and academics.

The Soc Fems in that screenshot are also mainly in the USA, where the situation is even more dire than here in the UK.

These women, in both the UK and the USA, spend their time researching and posting about Hearts of Oak, Tommy Robinson, the Proud Boys, etc. as well as the increasingly ugly and dangerous backlash by the USA religious right against anything and everything under the LGBT+ umbrella.

There is also post after damning post about women in the UK and USA who are taking court cases, organising public meetings and street protests, who are doing their utmost to engage with policy-makers and the public and raise awareness. Utterly evil - some of them have even appeared on the Tucker Carlson Show 😱

JB seems to have in her mind's eye a fantasy army of Left Wing Feminists bravely doing battle to save women and children from male violence, of which transgender ideology is just the latest pocket of horrors. She praises their armchair activism, which consists predominantly of slagging-off actual activists in blog posts and on social media.

The irony is that KJK obviously admires JB and has repeatedly invited her on to her YouTube Channel and to attend #LetWomenSpeak events.

JB seems to think that to do so would damn her as a "right wing bigot" - apparently not realising that she already has that reputation with some on "the Left", being seen as a sell-out patsy writing click-bait for the Daily Mail. However, on the Right she is seen as a raging Left-wing feminist, so her involvement might well serve to scare off - or educate - the right wing men apparently lurking in the shadows ready to appropriate Gender Critical activism.

By contrast, HJ seems well aware that this is much more than a feminist issue and that we should not hang around while it gets rapidly worse, leaving the field wide open for violent far-right opportunists to step in, ie. without any help or encouragement from the diverse ranks of dissenters who are Gender Critical women and Feminists.

The far right, mainly men, are already doing just that in the USA and, wouldn't you know it, the Soc Fems who sit on their arses penning hit-pieces are blaming other women.

Pull your finger out, Julie, stop being part of the problem and start being part of the solution.

It's petrifying, isn't it?

The sheer scale of the problem is horrifying.

In Norway, a woman was threatened with jail for three years for identifying a man as a man.

Talking normally, about reality, is risking incarceration for women.

beastlyslumber · 13/12/2022 17:46

Floisme · 13/12/2022 17:44

Is Julie Bindel part of that Actual Gender Critical Left Facebook group? I think someone's already asked this but I can't see any answer.

Surely not? I know JB can be petty and mean but surely she wouldn't waste her time like that?