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Helen Joyce & Julie Bindel: Should TERFs unite with the Right?

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ILikeDungs · 09/12/2022 11:22

By Unherd, a debate-style response to the purity spiral after Brighton. I do admire Helen Joyce and her ability to calmly and logically discuss the issues. Unherd have made it age restricted (because of all the fucks, I suppose!):

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ArabellaScott · 18/12/2022 15:19

So what plans do the right have to make society better for everyone?

Are you asking this in earnest? Do you genuinely think that people on the right actively want to make society worse?

beastlyslumber · 18/12/2022 14:53

JB gets off on being territorial and nasty towards women campaigners she doesn’t like, for reasons of the most ignoble and base kind. She throws around a bit of apparent feminist justification to make it look as though her motivations are lofty and noble.

I flinch at going that far, although I do think her motivations are fairly base in this case. I do have a lot of admiration for the work JB has done on prostitution and VAWG. For whatever reason she's got a bee in her bonnet or bats in her belfry or both when it comes to KJK. I don't think her objections to 'working with the right' are principled at all, because by any measure, JB herself has worked with the right plenty of times. I think the whole debate has come about because JB hates KJK and is trying to justify it, as you say, with feminism. It's very divisive, as we have seen.

I very much agree with this:

she is totally about id pol thinking, except with regard to gender.

I remember the debate on free speech she did with her and Ayaan Hirsi Ali on one side and - I want to say Billy Bragg and someone else on the other side. The 'against free speech' side were terrible, but JB was nearly as bad. She basically argued that she didn't want free speech except when it came to her being able to talk about gender. AHA was basically left on her own to carry the whole 'for' side - it was embarrassing. She outclassed them all.

Shinyredbicycle · 18/12/2022 14:46

Yes, that's likely true. I thought JB was perfectly clear for the same reasons.

beastlyslumber · 18/12/2022 14:44

But by the same token, HJ didn't make any sense to me when she spoke about her political views.

I think it wasn't the purpose of the discussion for either of them to set out their wider political beliefs. I'd be interested to hear more from HJ on this - she seems like someone very knowledge, sensible, and compassionate and I think it would be good to hear how she views economic questions.

I can't remember the part of the discussion you specifically refer to, but I'd say that HJ was in general very logical and easy to comprehend - but maybe that's because I tended to agree with her side of the debate more.

EndlessTea · 18/12/2022 14:14

She leapt from a premise of free market economics to the conclusion that that could be anti-oppressive without explaining how, the logical link between the two.

She did skim over that very quickly because that wasn’t what the debate was about. I think if HJ had a smear campaign going against left wing feminists for ‘cosying up to religious extremists’ or some such thing, the debate would have had a different title and she would needed to have explained herself a bit more.

But that’s not why the debate was held. It was really a forum created for JB to explain her mystifying behaviour, so we could all feel better.

Shinyredbicycle · 18/12/2022 13:39

I largely agree with you beastlyslumber.

But by the same token, HJ didn't make any sense to me when she spoke about her political views.

She kept from a premise of free market economics to the conclusion that that could be anti-oppressive without explaining how, the logical link between the two.

EndlessTea · 18/12/2022 13:31

I agree beastlyslumber, you are making so much sense. I can’t help feeling that this is all huge exercise in kowtowing to JBs vanity.

JB gets off on being territorial and nasty towards women campaigners she doesn’t like, for reasons of the most ignoble and base kind. She throws around a bit of apparent feminist justification to make it look as though her motivations are lofty and noble. Most feminists are heavily invested in the idea that JBs motivations are always lofty and noble, so they all bend themselves backwards with their ‘I can see both sides’, ‘JB has never let me down before’, squinting hard and holding their breath to make the arguments match the behaviour, but they don’t.

She is a flawed human being and the reason for the fact that she leaps from a premise to a conclusion without providing a logical link between them, is because the arguments aren’t logical, because they aren’t truthful.

This debate showed me that my suspicions were correct.

I see it. I’m disappointed.

Oh well, people are human and flawed. It’s not the first time that revelation has been a disappointment to me. I am an often a disappointment to myself.

DameMaud · 18/12/2022 12:33

All I'm trying to say is that it's complicated; it's really not a case of right = evil, left = good. That's not a position for anyone but an ideologue to take. Most of us aren't ideologues: we want what's best for us and the country we live in.

Agreed. Well put Beastly

MangyInseam · 18/12/2022 12:29

beastlyslumber · 18/12/2022 10:47

Yes, several posters have criticised JB for not explaining the full political background to her position.

I'm not saying this hasn't happened, but the posts I remember were more saying that she doesn't make a lot of sense, that she leaps from a premise to a conclusion without providing a logical link between them. I don't think they were asking for more political background, but saying that her speaking style is unclear.

Yeah, this.

She consistently seems to believe the left-good right-evil viewpoint, and also that it is only through left political action that change occurs.

Which to me is clearly untrue, it's pretty questionable whether leftist structures, like belief in patriarchy if we are talking about feminism, result in better legislation or social change. I would tend to say they have often worked against it.

I don't think she should explain this more, I just think it's wrong, and blinkerd.

I'd also say that as far as anti-racism goes, if we are talking about current anti-racist campaigning on the left, not just in the LP but across progressive parties in the UK and other countries, I think it's a kind of race essentialism, awful stuff. Deeply racist in the 19th century sense.

Clearly there was a time when id pol and equality of outcome approaches were less powerful on the left, but it has been growing over decades and now seems to have pushed out almost every other way of thinking about justice. Which is why a lot of people who have historically seen themselves as progressives are finding they simply have no political home there.

When I consider that the very moderate approach of a John McWhorter, or Trevor Phillips, are now so truly out of step with left anti-racism, I have to wonder WTF JB means. And it's not like she really embraces old style leftism herself, she is totally about id pol thinking, except with regard to gender.

beastlyslumber · 18/12/2022 10:47

Yes, several posters have criticised JB for not explaining the full political background to her position.

I'm not saying this hasn't happened, but the posts I remember were more saying that she doesn't make a lot of sense, that she leaps from a premise to a conclusion without providing a logical link between them. I don't think they were asking for more political background, but saying that her speaking style is unclear.

beastlyslumber · 18/12/2022 10:44

I think what is meant by 'left' and 'right' has changed drastically over the past few decades. In general, however, you can characterise the right as more conservative - wanting to conserve traditions, ideals, institutions and traditional ways of doing things; and the left as progressive - wanting to move society closer towards an idealised future. In economic terms, the left is more associated with a larger and more centralised state, more government control, nationalised industries; where the right is more associated with the free market, competition, and individuals making their own way.

In terms of social equality and justice, both left and right have pluses and minuses. It was labour who held back the vote for women, and labour who brought in the first immigration controls (to stop Jewish immigration). Tories brought in equal marriage. Labour under Blair created many more childcare opportunities, sure start centres and expanded university access. The tories currently have a way more racially and sexually diverse leadership than labour. Labour have an antisemitism problem and a hard left that is silencing women. Tories have at least one MP who is an out and out misogynist and likes to play dress up as a lady.

I think that most people tend to find themselves somewhere in the middle of all this. We want a society that works economically and we don't want people living in tents in the city centre. Does that make us left or right? We want some immigration controls but we don't want children to die in the ocean. Does that make us left or right? We want people to be able to make a living and start their own businesses, but we don't want huge monopolies profiteering. Again, is that left or right? I think we tend to want very similar things, but when it comes to voting, we're swayed by the single issues that we care most about. For me, that's gender ideology and wokism. As long as the tories stand against that and labour stand for it, I'll vote tory. Does that make me right wing?

I'd like the tories to be more conservative. I don't think everything needs to be destroyed and remade in the image of some utopia. On the other hand, I do think some industries should be renationalised, and I'd like to save some version of the NHS. All I'm trying to say is that it's complicated; it's really not a case of right = evil, left = good. That's not a position for anyone but an ideologue to take. Most of us aren't ideologues: we want what's best for us and the country we live in.

Shinyredbicycle · 18/12/2022 10:25

And yes I get that the right means much more than the current incantation of the Tory party.

By the same token, the left means much more, in fact something completely different, to the current incantation of the Labour party, TRAs, identity politics, 'Anifa' and everything else than we constantly get lumped in with.

Shinyredbicycle · 18/12/2022 10:22

Yes, several posters have criticised JB for not explaining the full political background to her position.

The last 12 years of government have been towards the 'utter shitshow' end of the not great spectrum. Labour also utter shitshow', but it's not them that have fucked the economy, public sector and lives of millions.

How is pointing this out 'dehumanising' anyone?

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 18/12/2022 10:18

The point is that both right-wing and left-wing people want a better society. They just have different ideas about how best to achieve this. The mentality that left = morally good, and right = morally bad is childish and clearly not true.

I think this is the key point for me. Right wing people don't wake up in the morning, rub their hands and think 'how can we make the world a little bit shitter?'

they believe they're doing the right thing, just like everyone else

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 18/12/2022 10:17

That wasn't what JB was saying in the film. She pointed out that second wave feminism went hand in hand with effective campaigns like anti racism and gay rights.

OK

but there are lots of right wing gay and black people. They are unlikely to support racism and homophobia. So anti racism and gay rights simply cannot be left wing. They're something different.

beastlyslumber · 18/12/2022 10:14

I wasn't aware anyone had criticised JB for this? Maybe I missed it.

Yes, agreed that the tories have not been great in government but then again, labour has been atrocious in opposition. But you were asking about the right in general, rather than the current incarnation of the tory party in particular. That's a whole other debate!

The point is that both right-wing and left-wing people want a better society. They just have different ideas about how best to achieve this. The mentality that left = morally good, and right = morally bad is childish and clearly not true. The attempt to dehumanise the right as bad and evil is very worrying. We should all know by now what the risks are of dehumanising and hating large groups of people.

Shinyredbicycle · 18/12/2022 09:56

The discussion wasn't about the history of left wing campaigning feminism either, yet plenty of posters have criticised JB for not explaining this in greater detail.

Reflecting on the ever growing social inequalities in UK society since 2010, forgive my hollow laugh at your description of right wing political ideals beastlyslumber.

If that was their plan for the last 12 years, it's gone as far off track as it could really, hasn't it?

beastlyslumber · 18/12/2022 09:47

So what plans do the right have to make society better for everyone?

That isn't what the discussion was about, so HJ wasn't going to be spelling out her personal political beliefs.

But obviously the right (broad grouping) want to make society better. Nearly everyone wants a society where people are free and equal and have a good standard of living and good health and enough to eat.

Shinyredbicycle · 18/12/2022 09:26

That wasn't what JB was saying in the film. She pointed out that second wave feminism went hand in hand with effective campaigns like anti racism and gay rights.

So what plans do the right have to make society better for everyone?

Because several posters have criticised me for saying that HJ didn't actually explain this in the discussion, but no-one has responded to my requests that someone spell it out for us.

MangyInseam · 18/12/2022 02:53

Shinyredbicycle · 17/12/2022 18:00

For goodness sake, is it really so difficult to understand that you have have leftish political beliefs and want to work to make society better for everyone AND despise the current institutional left of the Labour party?

It's not about muscling anyone out, it's about the wider beliefs that actions happen within. Or not.

There are plenty of people on the right who dislike the current government. That doesn't make their political beliefs suddenly not right wing

That's not what anyone is claiming.

You know that wanting society to be better for all isn't a sentiment that belongs to the left, don't you?

The narrowing of feminism to being a politically partisan movement is absolutely about muscling women out, it's about claiming the voice of the whole class for a certain segment of that class, and being able to dismiss dissenters as "handmaidens" or some similar term without really engaging with their thoughts.

Solidarityisbetterthanchsrity · 18/12/2022 00:14

I thought Maya was left wing too?

On another point, KJK certainly does guilt by association: she harasses anyone who associates with Debbie Hayton.

Shinyredbicycle · 17/12/2022 18:10

That should have been an 'ie' not 'is'. Sorry! Doesn't make sense as it is.

If the wider political context isn't relevant you you, fair enough, it's just that that was the topic of the discussion and of this thread.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/12/2022 18:04

Not sure what the relevance is of being left wing and not supporting the current labour party. (especially as that would describe me)

I think you said

the only way that we will counter the material manifestations of gender ideology is medicalising of children and loss of single sex spaces, services and provisions.

I still don't understand why you have to be left wing to be effective at preventing children being mutilated. Nimco Ali has been very effective at preventing children from being mutilated, and she's not left wing?

Shinyredbicycle · 17/12/2022 18:00

For goodness sake, is it really so difficult to understand that you have have leftish political beliefs and want to work to make society better for everyone AND despise the current institutional left of the Labour party?

It's not about muscling anyone out, it's about the wider beliefs that actions happen within. Or not.

There are plenty of people on the right who dislike the current government. That doesn't make their political beliefs suddenly not right wing

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/12/2022 17:54

HJ said in the conversation there aren't very many left wing feminists.

If people implement a rule that only left wing feminists can fight gender ideology, we'll all be calling men 'she' and having to pretend we believe in lady brain by 2030.

trying to muscle others out because you disagree with them on economic policy is MENTAL