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The Times is Changing its Comment policy

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Igneococcus · 06/12/2022 14:56

I just got this email:

" Dear XXX,
We are writing to let you know that from December 13 it will be our policy for digital readers of The Times and The Sunday Times to comment on articles using their real names. We believe this is the best way to ensure high-quality participation.
As we would expect from our readers, conversations on our digital platforms can be thought-provoking and intelligent. We know you will not always agree with us and we welcome robust conversation and unique perspectives. Smart debate can also help to inform future story ideas.
The Times view is that you should know who you are speaking to, rather than debating with a pseudonym. We want to present an alternative to social media, where animosity is too often protected by anonymity.
The quality and civility of debate on The Times and The Sunday Times platforms sets us apart. We value immensely the support of readers who are helping to keep our standards high."

That will kill any discussion for contentious issues like trans issues.
I can sort of get where they are coming from but I'm the only person with my name in the whole of the UK, so if I post under my real name I stand out a lot more than, for example, a Jane Smith does.

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Splittends · 19/01/2023 19:35

So true @Ameadowwalk, it is startling how the vast majority of the commentators' names are now male names. Women have, literally, been silenced.

Ameadowwalk · 19/01/2023 19:28

I think I had been through about three or four six month discounts by phoning and trying to cancel over the last five years for various reasons. The change in policy gave me a reason to be a bit more assertive in my desire to cancel. I am a single parent and I have better things to do with the subscription money (and my time). I also found an anti-woman tone in many of the comments, particularly around some things like the pay gap where you found yourself stating the obvious to people (men) who really didn’t care about the systematic disadvantage women face, including those without children.
What will happen is more of these types of comments will proliferate as there are fewer women to put the alternative views forward.

KatMcBundleFace · 19/01/2023 07:40

I saw a comment online that someone rang up to cancel based on this, and got a huge discount on their next six months subscription if they stayed.

I don't know what decision they made in the end.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 18/01/2023 11:31

Like you, I’m not prepared to jump through hoops, to prevent the Times removing the anonymity on which my freedom of expression depends. They have shown that they don’t give a toss about retaining my custom - so be it.

Bosky · 18/01/2023 06:41

A woman I know who has a very unusual name phoned The Times customer help line and had a chat to them about all the reasons (as cited by PP) that she should not use her real name and why women should not be forced to use their real names. For her they did not include stalking but she explained that this can become an issue at some point so it is important to be anonymous from the start.

She said that she had a long conversation with what sounded like a young man who was very sympathetic. They ended up agreeing an alternative "real name" that was a woman's name made up of a common first name and last name.

It's not an ideal outcome because they very likely landed on a name shared by many women, one or more of whom might be misidentified as the author of her comments. This could cause problems for any such misidentified women.

It could also cause problems for the subscriber if she is misidentified as someone else.

This made me wonder about another unintended outcome of forcing people to use their real names.

The more common a real name then the more likely it is to be duplicated and also shared with women who are not subscribers.

The dual purpose of a Pseudonym is to be both anonymous and also, if possible, unique, so as to avoid confusion between actual subscribers. If there is more than one "Anne Smith" commenting, for example.

At the moment I really can't be arsed phoning The Times Customer Service to walk them through all this. If anyone else feels like doing it then you could add these issues to the list of things they really should have thought about if they wanted to get and keep women subscribers.

Ameadowwalk · 17/01/2023 18:59

lifeinthelastlane · 06/01/2023 09:49

I've stopped paying. I can live without the paper, not very interesting when I knew I couldn't comment on stories.

Yes.
It’s not only outing to GC people but discriminates against those who want anonymity having been victims of domestic abuse. If you are going through court proceedings or have a stalkerish ex, it’s better to have a level of anonymity to comment.

ResisterRex · 15/01/2023 09:05

I've always felt having a system with your real name then a pseudonym was a bit dicey. It's very hard for them to justify. The The Telegraph has always had something closer to what the Times has brought it. That's how I understood it when I signed up to both.

You used to always have to write it with your real name to a paper, and you could always ask for them to remove it if published.

I feel really mixed about their policy but it is their platform and their decision. And you could always write in properly and ask to be kept anonymous if published.

MrsMidClegs · 15/01/2023 09:00

CyanCrystalViolet · 06/01/2023 08:52

Has anyone else now had their commenting rights revoked? I emailed them but got a shirty response.

Yeah. Up until a week ago I was able to post but they have come down hard now and nobody is allowed to post comments without outing themselves.

MrsMidClegs · 15/01/2023 08:58

CyanCyan · 06/12/2022 15:38

I received this and looked at changing my name as my last name is unusual, however you’re required to call them about it. I doubt they’re going to allow me to do it.

I checked. Your last name must be the one you registered with and it is the name on the bank card you subscribe with. You are allowed to use the initial of your first name, but it must spell out your full name correctly.
For those with a distinct and unusual surname this is outing. And is discrimination of people with gender critical beliefs.

Babdoc · 06/01/2023 10:16

I have always commented under my real name, but as title, initial and surname, so
it isn’t obvious I’m female. Misogynist bias usually assumes Dr F Bloggs to be male!

lifeinthelastlane · 06/01/2023 09:49

I've stopped paying. I can live without the paper, not very interesting when I knew I couldn't comment on stories.

CyanCrystalViolet · 06/01/2023 08:52

Has anyone else now had their commenting rights revoked? I emailed them but got a shirty response.

Bosky · 16/12/2022 22:55

Igneococcus · 16/12/2022 22:07

Rose Wild is talking about the response in the Times today and it pisses me off:

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/04b7c8ec-7d7c-11ed-8486-22782b7fe87b?shareToken=007c0dbb1a64df45db9aa7cee08d7ef2

"Some women have complained of being silenced. It is hypocritical, one said, “when you have repeatedly run articles highlighting the bullying of women who express gender-critical views, to bring in a real-names policy which will exclude women from being able to comment freely”.
I trust this won’t happen. It is unlawful, as Maya Forstater has established in court, for employers to discriminate on the ground of gender-critical beliefs. If anyone were to be victimised at work on the basis of a comment that met Times community guidelines, they would have a very strong case for action.

Well Rose Wild has more trust in people's lawfulness than I have.

Yeah - good to know that if you are discriminated against at work and have to take it to an Employment Tribunal you would win but that's a bundle of laughs isn't it?

Union won't support you? Never mind, hope for crowd-funding to take the union to court for discrimination too.

Great fun!

What a stupid woman!

Igneococcus · 16/12/2022 22:07

Rose Wild is talking about the response in the Times today and it pisses me off:

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/04b7c8ec-7d7c-11ed-8486-22782b7fe87b?shareToken=007c0dbb1a64df45db9aa7cee08d7ef2

"Some women have complained of being silenced. It is hypocritical, one said, “when you have repeatedly run articles highlighting the bullying of women who express gender-critical views, to bring in a real-names policy which will exclude women from being able to comment freely”.
I trust this won’t happen. It is unlawful, as Maya Forstater has established in court, for employers to discriminate on the ground of gender-critical beliefs. If anyone were to be victimised at work on the basis of a comment that met Times community guidelines, they would have a very strong case for action.

Well Rose Wild has more trust in people's lawfulness than I have.

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Torteela · 14/12/2022 12:17

It is very interesting (and not at all surprising) to note how many of the commentators now appear to be men.

lieselotte · 14/12/2022 11:46

My surname is relatively common but I will still take care in what I post now.

lifeinthelastlane · 13/12/2022 17:14

I don't get why it can't be moderated in a normal way.

Farmageddon · 13/12/2022 16:25

I commented on articles twice today under my pseudonym and it didn't stop me, not sure how they are enforcing this?

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 13/12/2022 14:39

nilsmousehammer · 12/12/2022 11:48

It's a bit more than a shame.

It effectively silences women from defending their rights while creating the impression that women are happy to hand their rights over to a bunch of misogynist nutjobs.

It is enabling the subordination of females to males on the basis of sex, but to happen very naicely under the illusion of it all being so very modern and progressive.

This. Women lose freedom of expression (more so than men, because they are more penalised for GC comments) because of male abusive behaviour.

Farmageddon · 12/12/2022 21:07

nilsmousehammer · 12/12/2022 11:48

It's a bit more than a shame.

It effectively silences women from defending their rights while creating the impression that women are happy to hand their rights over to a bunch of misogynist nutjobs.

It is enabling the subordination of females to males on the basis of sex, but to happen very naicely under the illusion of it all being so very modern and progressive.

I agree, it's very frustrating to realise that there are so few places that women can talk openly about this. And by talking openly, I don't mean posting hateful content like name calling and slurs, I mean accurately describing male sex offenders and crossdressers as male.
Apparently, to some people that is deemed hateful. So ridiculous.

nilsmousehammer · 12/12/2022 11:48

It's a bit more than a shame.

It effectively silences women from defending their rights while creating the impression that women are happy to hand their rights over to a bunch of misogynist nutjobs.

It is enabling the subordination of females to males on the basis of sex, but to happen very naicely under the illusion of it all being so very modern and progressive.

Janieread · 12/12/2022 11:22

Farmageddon · 08/12/2022 17:31

If they push me to do this (I haven't received an email yet) then I will just cancel my subscription and make it clear why.
I like the Times, and appreciate that they have aired gender critical views when many other mainstream newspapers didn't, but I'm not going to out myself for their benefit.
If they moderated properly, surely it shouldn't be necessary.

Moderation is a minefield. You can't moderate for a slow drip drip of thinly disguised bile. The Times comments are toxic on anything to do with race/teenagers/schools/benefits so I think using your real name is a good thing. I cancelled my membership because the comments were so relentlessly unpleasant. It's a shame that women might feel unable to comment on trans issues but there it is.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/12/2022 21:30

I think I may have to stand up and be counted.

What I believe is not hateful. It does not deny trans women feel what they feel.

It is simply this.

That regardless of how one defines Woman, the thing trans women feel, which they name Womanhood, and the fact of having a female body and the physical and social consequences that has, are not the same thing

That our culture has been shaped by patriarchy and that gives advantages to male people

That female people have right and need to speak of the physical and social consequences of being female in this society, share our experiences, find common cause and work together as female people to have our voices heard, to make visible and challenge cultural biases and to support each other against those cultural threats and limitations

That those who assert the words TWAW are a material fact that gives trans women the right to anything designated "women only" are taking resources and support that were put in place to mitigate those consequences from the female people who need them and giving to male people who do not

If I say nothing, if I accept being silenced, my silence about what I believe leaves a space that those who have silenced me can fill with lies about what I believe to justify what they do.

I can, if it comes to it, lose my job and be OK. Many others are not so lucky. So I have to speak because these things need to be said.

lifeinthelastlane · 11/12/2022 20:33

Although I've a very common name so probably wouldn't be identified by it, I am going to cancel my Times' subscription I think this is a terrible idea.

BettyFilous · 11/12/2022 17:02

thegreenjudy · 08/12/2022 13:32

The good thing is that only subscribers can see comments. They can't be googled. So you should be at least save from nosy HR people 😂

Rachel Meade posted moderate comments on a private Facebook group. Didn’t stop another member reporting her to her employer and professional body.