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Is it okay to work with groups whose principles you dont share as a feminist, but there is a common cause?

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IwantToRetire · 18/11/2022 00:02

Education not indoctrination
The events was organised by a coalition of groups including the Christian Institute, which opposes abortion, same-sex marriage and euthanasia, Stand By Me Scotland, which opposed the wearing of facemasks in schools during the pandemic, Academics for Academic Freedom and For Women Scotland, which opposes Scottish government plans for people to be able to self-identify their legal gender.
www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/education-not-indoctrination-tickets-426737442177

Glasgow venue cancels booking for cancel culture conference
www.thetimes.co.uk/article/04e3fa4a-6696-11ed-9c3b-2d9184d0076f?shareToken=4ffe4f56d755905a476b686c75b65dd0&fbclid=IwAR1UHupPu9Xu4bD_gF0JoJb0A9u-bE2RDTcRqmbt9c8bpRUird9JTGbG8o8

OP posts:
ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 15:14

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 15:13

Was your toddler group's aims to support the concept of the pro life movement?

Or was it a friendly community group for parents with small children?

Honestly the willful ignorance on here sometimes....

Wait, so it's okay for a toddler's group to be sponsored by or hold an event in a church? So long as the toddlers' group doesn't have the same aims as said church?

Dream, can you honestly not see the hole in your argument, are you taking the mickey?

OldCrone · 18/11/2022 15:14

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 15:13

Was your toddler group's aims to support the concept of the pro life movement?

Or was it a friendly community group for parents with small children?

Honestly the willful ignorance on here sometimes....

The aim of this conference is to discuss education in Scottish schools. What does that have to do with the pro life movement?

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 15:13

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 15:08

You know, I've been to toddler's groups in churches whose beliefs I don't share and even sometimes strongly disagree with.

I guess that's me allied with them, nonetheless.

Was your toddler group's aims to support the concept of the pro life movement?

Or was it a friendly community group for parents with small children?

Honestly the willful ignorance on here sometimes....

OldCrone · 18/11/2022 15:12

Lockheart · 18/11/2022 15:07

I think from their website it's the Tron Church which rejected same sex marriage.

That sentence is so badly written I was sure that it was the Tron Church that had voted to accept gay clergy.

MsMcWibble · 18/11/2022 15:10

Don't know how some people can bear to work with the Labour party, given their stance on women's rights.
A little bit hypocritical.
No one should have the right to shut down an event though.

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 15:08

You know, I've been to toddler's groups in churches whose beliefs I don't share and even sometimes strongly disagree with.

I guess that's me allied with them, nonetheless.

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 15:07

Thanks, that sentence was poorly phrased!

Lockheart · 18/11/2022 15:07

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 15:04

The conference will now take place at Glasgow’s evangelical Tron Church — which split from the Church of Scotland after it voted to accept gay clergy.

I can't parse out which church voted to accept gay clergy, there.

I think from their website it's the Tron Church which rejected same sex marriage.

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 15:05

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 15:04

The conference will now take place at Glasgow’s evangelical Tron Church — which split from the Church of Scotland after it voted to accept gay clergy.

I can't parse out which church voted to accept gay clergy, there.

"The Church of Scotland voted to allow its congregations to appoint a minister who is in a same-sex marriage"

It's the anti gay one who's picked up this event.

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 15:04

The conference will now take place at Glasgow’s evangelical Tron Church — which split from the Church of Scotland after it voted to accept gay clergy

Oh that's great, glad it's been accepted to go ahead by a nice reputable non offensive venue.. You've proven me completely wrong.

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 15:04

The conference will now take place at Glasgow’s evangelical Tron Church — which split from the Church of Scotland after it voted to accept gay clergy.

I can't parse out which church voted to accept gay clergy, there.

EndlessTea · 18/11/2022 15:02

MyLovelyPen · 18/11/2022 13:31

@EndlessTea do point out where I said I wasn’t comfortable listening to feminists? I’m intrigued.

In the context of this thread, which is about a feminist organisation doing a talk/meeting with other organisations who share similar concerns, in order to provide the feminist perspective of the issue, you said:

“there’s no fucking way I’m going to join with homophobic groups who are anti gay marriage, anti abortion, anti women in general to discuss those issues.”

So in this context, no you are not comfortable with listening to feminists. You might get horribly infected by the other perspectives presented, or something.

OldCrone · 18/11/2022 15:01

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 14:51

Really, it's just a diverse collection of people talking about a topic of shared interest

I wonder why it was cancelled then

It hasn't been cancelled. Did you even look at the links in the OP?

As the Times article points out:

It was forced to move to a new venue after the original hosts claimed that the topics they planned to discuss were offensive to LGBTQ staff members.

And the new venue?

The conference will now take place at Glasgow’s evangelical Tron Church — which split from the Church of Scotland after it voted to accept gay clergy.

Coyoacan · 18/11/2022 15:01

the original hosts claimed that the topics they planned to discuss were offensive to LGBTQ staff members.

I wonder if the staff were really offended.

I posted a meme on fb and got accused of being prejudiced against LGBT, when in fact the meme was written by a gay man and supported by a transsexual acquaintaince.

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 14:59

It was cancelled because staff refused to work it.

beastlyslumber · 18/11/2022 14:57

Oh look, I was right! "It was forced to move to a new venue after the original hosts claimed that the topics they planned to discuss were offensive to LGBTQ staff members." - from the Times article linked in the OP.

beastlyslumber · 18/11/2022 14:55

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 14:51

Really, it's just a diverse collection of people talking about a topic of shared interest

I wonder why it was cancelled then

Presumably because that's exactly the kind of thing that the TRAs and woke millenials don't want to happen.

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 14:52

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 14:51

On the contrary to wanting to be right, it's a very hard and lonely place to be in, when everyone on one side is screaming at you HAND MAID and everyone on the other is screaming TERF.

I hope you don't think anyone here is screaming at you.

Not on this thread at all, but on other threads where the topic has actively been about transwomen then yes, I have definitely been called hand maid, naive, etc, in not very neutral terms by any means.

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 14:51

Really, it's just a diverse collection of people talking about a topic of shared interest

I wonder why it was cancelled then

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 14:51

On the contrary to wanting to be right, it's a very hard and lonely place to be in, when everyone on one side is screaming at you HAND MAID and everyone on the other is screaming TERF.

I hope you don't think anyone here is screaming at you.

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 14:49

Okay, we're making progress! So you don't object to people meeting to discuss education, dreamwhispers; the problem is the event sponsors, yes?

'This event will bring together academics, parents, teacher, students, and the wider community to discuss recent changes in Scottish education.'

The sponsors are from various different political backgrounds, by the look of it.

'SPONSORS: The Battle of Ideas, The Christian Institute, Academics for Academic Freedom, Stand By Me (Scotland) and For Women Scotland.'

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 14:49

SudocremOnEverything · 18/11/2022 14:45

Do you even understand the difference between talking to or engaging with and supporting?

Yes of course I do. My point was that those people you are talking to and engaging with, you may find that they haven't been cancelled at all, it may just be that their views are unsavoury to many people. That's not cancel culture, that's just a lack of interest.

Coyoacan · 18/11/2022 14:48

You're more than welcome to support those people most vociferously but you may find somewhere along the line that rather than "cancel culture" there simply isn't the appetite for the views they hold in wider society

Hahaha.
You have a very linear idea of history which does not concord with reality.

For someone has never heard the reasons why the right to abort is necessary, the pro-life argument could be very attractive and "kind". Next thing you know there is a pro-life voting majority. For many women believed that we had achieved a good position in society, then the TRAs found a way of driving us back to Victorian times.

EndlessTea · 18/11/2022 14:48

MyLovelyPen · 18/11/2022 13:35

And yes I am intolerant of religious beliefs that hurt others in the same way that I’m intolerant of the aspects of self ID that hurt others.

That sounds all well an good. But it’s all about where you draw the line, isn’t it?

People who are anti-abortion, believe that abortions aren’t merely ‘hurting others’, but murdering innocents.

So by your own logic, you should be intolerant of your own pro-choice views.

Or is it ‘Oh no! I don’t consider a foetus to be an ‘other’’? Or ‘Foetus’s can’t be hurt’?

It is only where you choose to draw the line and you are intolerant of others drawing the line differently….

Basically, you think you are right and good and justified and others are wrong and bad and unjustified. You are intolerant of those who hold different views.

Using the ‘I am a harmless, person who is anti-hurt’, is just a lie you tell yourself, to excuse your own intolerance.

beastlyslumber · 18/11/2022 14:48

Dreamwhisper · 18/11/2022 14:42

Because they’re not looking to talk to people and find ways forwards. They’re looking for allies to help them defeat their enemies

Yes. You've hit the nail on the head. That is the answer to the OP and why it doesn't work to club together with people pushing narratives you disagree with in order to target the "enemy". It's not a good faith and honest approach is it? It falls down to scrutiny when you pick an "ally" with such unfavourable views. It brings your own judgement and point into question, and negates your credibility.

FWS are part of this event, along with many other groups. If it's a front for some kind of brainwashing scam, why would FWS be involved? Makes no sense. You could just as easily claim that FWS are using the event to push their pro-choice views onto the other groups or attendees.

Really, it's just a diverse collection of people talking about a topic of shared interest.