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US woman sues after 'gender affirming' double mastectomy

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ArabellaScott · 09/11/2022 11:56

'The defendants 'transgressed the bounds of socially tolerable conduct by abusing their positions of trust and authority' by recommending 'unnecessary, irreversible treatment' without weighing Kiefel's mental problems, says the complaint.

Because of the surgery, Kiefel must endure a 'lifelong inability ever to choose to breastfeed a child' and doubts she will ever find a 'life partner sexually and romantically attracted to a woman without breasts,' it adds.

Kiefel has called for a jury trial and seeks up to $850,000 in damages.'

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11399015/Oregon-woman-sues-trans-care-team-abhorrent-misdiagnosis-left-MUTILATED.html

Brace yourselves. The lawsuits are starting.

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butterfliedtwo · 09/11/2022 13:52

diamondsarefornextweek · 09/11/2022 12:28

This is the problem - when they're wanting to transition, it's legitimate, and no they're not mentally ill how dare you suggest such a thing.
Then, once transitioned, should they decide to detransition, suddenly it's oh yes of course it's a mental illness, and now I'm going to sue because I never ever thought I might change my mind.
Being trans is either a mental illness or it's not, you can't have it both ways.
If I got a tattoo and then changed my mind about it, how far would I get if I sued the tattoo artist for disfiguring my body ffs 🙄

Absolutely agree with this.

NippyWoowoo · 09/11/2022 13:51

BenCoopersSupportWren · 09/11/2022 13:39

That's not an accurate analogy. The purpose of an abortion is not to render the woman infertile, it is to terminate the pregnancy that exists at that moment. Infertility would be a rare but unfortunate side effect of the surgery going wrong, it is not the desired outcome.

There is no possible outcome of a radical double mastectomy but to remove the breasts, and therefore the potential functionality to breastfeed.

I continue to ask, as I have for years, what is the diagnostic criteria that allows doctors or psychologists to recognise which gender-non-conforming children referred to them as 'trans' will desist and which will not. Because if there is no such robust diagnostic tool available, then it is abhorrent that irreversible surgery that permanently removes young people's fertility or ability to breastfeed is being performed on some kind of lottery, best guess basis after the most perfunctory consultations. Every doctor performing such surgeries off the back of a nebulous, impossible to define ideology should be struck off. It is fucking disgusting that a generation of young people are being turned into lab rats because of an ideology driven by [redacted to avoid deletion].

Thank you for responding. When I said unable to have children, I didn’t mean as a result of the abortion, just that later they ended up not being able to have more children and regret their choice.

Even if I left that bit out, a woman could have an abortion and then regret it. It is irreversible. Why is that not comparable?

Tessabelle74 · 09/11/2022 13:50

Hmm this is an odd one. If she claims she has mental health issues that's why she had the surgery, surely anyone else wanting to sue will have to admit to the same despite the chant of "we're not crazy, we just want to be what we feel" shouted by other trans groups

Datun · 09/11/2022 13:42

Helleofabore · 09/11/2022 13:38

It is significant though that in all three cases we now know of, that the claimants were late 20s or in their 30s getting treatments.

Maybe it is because they are older that they have the courage and bravery to withstand the stress of the trials. I mean, Keira Bell is bloody amazing for taking on what she did!!! These three people are also very brave to do it.

The other significance is that the discussion has been usually focused on teens and decisions made as teens. This is another layer. That vulnerable adults are being caught up here too.

This will have to force the discussion in the relevant countries and internationally about the disconnection of transitioning from mental health. As far as I can see, this is been to the detriment to too many trans people.

I wonder if in the future, there will need to be a huge amount of work on what gender dysphoria is, and how to diagnose it and that only those with severe enough cases get surgical treatments.

It's also probably the age around which women start to wonder about starting a family.

There's nothing like the issue of getting pregnant to focus you on what you can expect from your biology.

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2022 13:41

Children are being taught that they can change sex and are coming home from school to announce it to their parents.

This case is what we reap when we sow a culture of lies. This is why biological facts matter.

BenCoopersSupportWren · 09/11/2022 13:39

NippyWoowoo · 09/11/2022 13:25

Could the same argument be made for someone who's had an abortion and then goes on to regret it/finds they are unable to have more children?

That's not an accurate analogy. The purpose of an abortion is not to render the woman infertile, it is to terminate the pregnancy that exists at that moment. Infertility would be a rare but unfortunate side effect of the surgery going wrong, it is not the desired outcome.

There is no possible outcome of a radical double mastectomy but to remove the breasts, and therefore the potential functionality to breastfeed.

I continue to ask, as I have for years, what is the diagnostic criteria that allows doctors or psychologists to recognise which gender-non-conforming children referred to them as 'trans' will desist and which will not. Because if there is no such robust diagnostic tool available, then it is abhorrent that irreversible surgery that permanently removes young people's fertility or ability to breastfeed is being performed on some kind of lottery, best guess basis after the most perfunctory consultations. Every doctor performing such surgeries off the back of a nebulous, impossible to define ideology should be struck off. It is fucking disgusting that a generation of young people are being turned into lab rats because of an ideology driven by [redacted to avoid deletion].

Helleofabore · 09/11/2022 13:38

It is significant though that in all three cases we now know of, that the claimants were late 20s or in their 30s getting treatments.

Maybe it is because they are older that they have the courage and bravery to withstand the stress of the trials. I mean, Keira Bell is bloody amazing for taking on what she did!!! These three people are also very brave to do it.

The other significance is that the discussion has been usually focused on teens and decisions made as teens. This is another layer. That vulnerable adults are being caught up here too.

This will have to force the discussion in the relevant countries and internationally about the disconnection of transitioning from mental health. As far as I can see, this is been to the detriment to too many trans people.

I wonder if in the future, there will need to be a huge amount of work on what gender dysphoria is, and how to diagnose it and that only those with severe enough cases get surgical treatments.

ArabellaScott · 09/11/2022 13:32

Children are being taught that they can change sex and are coming home from school to announce it to their parents.

Yep. There was probably a period of grace where everyone understood biology and how it works, that the 'new' terms for 'gender' substituting for 'sex' were still tacitly accepted and understood.

But the new generation are being taught 'gender' with no underpinning in 'sex'. The ideas, unmoored from material reality.

Poor kids.

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IncompleteSenten · 09/11/2022 13:29

NippyWoowoo · 09/11/2022 13:25

Could the same argument be made for someone who's had an abortion and then goes on to regret it/finds they are unable to have more children?

I don't know. It's a completely different situation isn't it and really not genuinely comparable but I suppose if it could be argued that their mental health meant they lacked the ability to make an informed choice and that they were not given the information they needed to have in order to understand the implications of the operation or were unable to absorb that information as given. 🤷

Feysriana · 09/11/2022 13:29

NippyWoowoo · 09/11/2022 13:25

Could the same argument be made for someone who's had an abortion and then goes on to regret it/finds they are unable to have more children?

No.

Datun · 09/11/2022 13:29

AngeloMysterioso · 09/11/2022 13:15

She was 30 years old at the time of having the procedure and it didn’t occur to her then that having her breasts cut off meant she wouldn’t be able to breastfeed?!

People are asking on social media whether or not transwomen can have periods and get pregnant. This is males, with neither uterus nor eggs.

This is what happens when you pretend sex doesn't exist.

This is what happens when men make endless videos on YouTube saying they are women and do absolutely experience periods.

This is what happens when men try to take a cocktail of drugs in order to claim that they are just as capable of breastfeeding as women.

This is what happens when high profile transwomen claim they have a cervix.

Children are being taught that they can change sex and are coming home from school to announce it to their parents.

A surgeon in America was challenged with all the mastectomies she was doing, and replied with, well if I cut their breasts off, they can always go and buy some more.

I have absolutely no doubt that this woman did not realise the implications of what she was doing. She thought she was neither male nor female, ffs, and everyone affirmed that!

RosalindsAFuckingNightmare · 09/11/2022 13:28

IvyTwines · 09/11/2022 13:27

I think a generation of youngsters is growing up believing breasts are just bouncy castles for men.

Exactly. If you can have girl-dick why can't you have boy-breasts?

Feysriana · 09/11/2022 13:28

Looking at this doctor’s ad on TikTok, it may be that the doctors carrying out these procedures are also mentally ill…

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11303919/Florida-sex-change-surgeon-dubs-Dr-Teetus-Deletus-REPORTED-consumer-watchdog.html

ArabellaScott · 09/11/2022 13:28

NippyWoowoo · 09/11/2022 13:25

Could the same argument be made for someone who's had an abortion and then goes on to regret it/finds they are unable to have more children?

No.

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ArabellaScott · 09/11/2022 13:27

'her decision is based on a society wide fantasy that particularly targets vulnerable individuals.'

Exactly. It's a bit of a fallacy that these two particular doctors/therapists are to blame, because as far as I can see they are following current accepted practise, which is to 'affirm' a trans identity in cases of gender dysphoria, and proceed with body modifications accordingly.

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IvyTwines · 09/11/2022 13:27

I think a generation of youngsters is growing up believing breasts are just bouncy castles for men.

Helleofabore · 09/11/2022 13:27

NancyDrawed · 09/11/2022 13:00

But isn't this where we are headed with a potential ban on talking therapies for people who believe they have gender dysphoria?
If a specialist isn't allowed to explore WHY a patient isn't comfortable in their own skin and has to only affirm their belief, this is where we end up - with people who were never challenged on their belief and therefore truly believed that hormones/surgery would sort them out, only to find out when it's too late that they didn't.

Yes. Having a very ambiguous conversion therapy ban will mean that there will be less talking therapy.

NippyWoowoo · 09/11/2022 13:25

Could the same argument be made for someone who's had an abortion and then goes on to regret it/finds they are unable to have more children?

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2022 13:25

If you're going to perform mutilating, irreversible surgery on a healthy person, you would need to be damn sure of

a) what the surgery is going to do to improve their lot (evidenced based)

b) that there aren't other less invasive approaches that would achieve the same ends

c) that the patient fully understands the implications of what they're consenting to and are able to give that consent.

In this case, there's an argument that none of those conditions were achieved.

This is absolutely on the health professionals btw. First, do not harm. There is a Hippocratic oath for a reason.

There will be a tsunami is these cases soon. It's going to be horrifying. And the medical profession's reputation will be seriously impacted.

NancyDrawed · 09/11/2022 13:25

And by blind spot I mean that they suspend reality in order to satisfy the belief.

IncompleteSenten · 09/11/2022 13:24

Good.

I expect the inevitable lawsuits from people who were mutilated as children will have higher success rates than those who were operated on as adults because the issue of capacity is far far clearer and therefore more difficult for defence lawyers to argue about.

NancyDrawed · 09/11/2022 13:23

AngeloMysterioso · 09/11/2022 13:15

She was 30 years old at the time of having the procedure and it didn’t occur to her then that having her breasts cut off meant she wouldn’t be able to breastfeed?!

I suppose if at the time she was convinced that she would never want to have children - being trans and therefore not a woman - it might not have been in her mind. And back to the affirmation only approach, if no one challenged her on the reality of losing her breasts, some of the responsibility is on them, surely?

Didn't Freddie McConnell have a similar problem in that she was disappointed she couldn't breastfeed the children she had due to having had a double mastectomy? It seems to be a real blind spot in people who are so deep into this ideology.

IvyTwines · 09/11/2022 13:23

@AngeloMysterioso the much publicised UK trans activist Freddy Mcconnell recently tweeted that Freddy didn't realise removing Freddy's breasts, including nipples, meant Freddy would be unable to breastfeed.

Datun · 09/11/2022 13:21

If I got a tattoo and then changed my mind about it, how far would I get if I sued the tattoo artist for disfiguring my body ffs 🙄

The more accurate analogy is, if the tattoo artist is in a position of authority and has convinced someone, with mental health issues, that having a life altering, extreme and damaging tattoo is necessary in order for them to become neither male nor female.

This girl identifies as non-binary. There's no such thing. It's a completely made up concept which is being pushed as legitimate enough to have life altering surgery to achieve.

People wondering whether or not she should just accept her own decision are missing the massive issue that her decision is based on a society wide fantasy that particularly targets vulnerable individuals.

Lysis · 09/11/2022 13:20

GiantKitten · 09/11/2022 12:53

She was about 30 when it was done though - not a teenager - granted it all sounds a bit rushed in the final stages, but it had been considered by her for 4 years.
Doesn't she bear a lot of the responsibility?

Except that the UK criminal courts have found that having consent from the patient is not a defence for body modifiers, and they cannot remove healthy ears, split tongues without expecting a jail sentence: www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2019/mar/21/tattooist-dr-evil-jailed-for-performing-ear-and-nipple-removals

What is the difference between removing breasts at the patient's request and removing an ear? The only difference I can see is that one was done by qualified doctors and the other by a body modifier.

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