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Neo/pronouns

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Sparklybutold · 28/09/2022 23:26

I am currently studying part time. The course organiser is trans non binary. I have always felt uncertain by this person. Digged deep to see whether it's a prejudice, but they trigger a nervous system response which screams inwardly ‘dont trust’. Last year - they were they/them. This year per/pers. I can't decide whether it's to keep us on our toes owing to what I'm studying or if it reflects a genuine choice. If both are non binary why change? I've been informed by someone else it's a case of what feels right for them. My heads in a bit of a spin with it.

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Sparklybutold · 28/09/2022 23:40

@ToGanymedeAndTitan
Pers have down things that have seriously harmed and people, including myself. I'm not sure per understands the depth of this either. Pers stance on diversity etc is refreshing and interesting but despite wanting to like pers, per previous actions have seriously hampered this.

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ToGanymedeAndTitan · 28/09/2022 23:31

Have they done anything to make you feel uneasy?
Or is it just the fact they are trans/non binary that made you feel that way?
Them not using pronouns you approve of shouldn't be a reason not to trust them