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Would you want your child to be taught by someone who looked like this?

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grannyjacob · 16/09/2022 15:24

How can this be allowed?

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Datun · 17/09/2022 16:52

ReunitedThorns · 17/09/2022 14:01

Any sensible person would say that what this guy was wearing was inappropriate, but when you're so far down this rabbit hole, people just can't.

It's not nice that people become involuntarily involved with this guy's fantasies, but I don't know how legally classify that, unless he had clear signs of sexual arousal (which then becomes a child protection issue). Perhaps even us mocking the guy is helping his fantasy? (Not a pleasant thought).

After seeing a lot of young teenage boys (through links on GC sites etc) being told that their sexual fetish is in fact gender dysmorphia by various pressure groups and charities, I grew worried about a whole generation not even knowing that it is that.

Yes. It's been deliberately portrayed as something it quite clearly isn't.

What's to stop someone entering politics on an independent ticket, part of whose manifesto would be to get rid of all this shit. And they post photos of Yaniv and this guy and all the rest of it and say if you don't want this vote for me.

Because, despite mainstream media not reporting it, as has happened here, more and more people will become personally, and specifically, affected by gender ideology.

And eventually, they will end up voting for the person who will get rid of it.

We don't have this level of batshittery, and people already saying they will vote for which ever party sorts it.

Ritascornershop · 17/09/2022 16:31

@WarriorN Yes, I’m in Canada, though a different province to this teacher. I worked in schools and can verify both that gender ideology is encouraged in schools & that in my province (in state schools) teachers often dress very casually.

I’m on my phone so can’t do a word search, but a look at the BC Code for Educators and the BCTF (teachers’ union) contract shows no mention of dress code that I can see.

It is incredibly difficult to get rid of, or even discipline teachers. They will lose their teaching license if it’s proven they sexually abused a student (including of course, older teens who they may claim provided “consent”). Other cases, including racism and sexism, can be more difficult. I’ve seen them shuffled to another school after hitting a young child.

Again, I’m not in Ontario (where the school in question is), but the teaching culture is quite similar in some regards in the two provinces and, as many have noted, Canada is well entrenched right now in “be kind” gender ideology and devoted to non-thinking.

EsmaCannonball · 17/09/2022 16:25

The female students and staff of that school must feel so demeaned by this and everyone must feel so degraded by being obliged to participate in someone else's sexual fetish. They must know he's getting off on it.

That's one of the many problems with the 'don't be rude and stare at the flasher' school of feminism. It requires determined stupidity and for everyone to pretend they don't know what they know. And when people see a man like this, they know.

DdraigGoch · 17/09/2022 16:15

WarriorN · 17/09/2022 11:14

We had our updated safeguarding training last week.

The code of conduct documents are getting longer. Which is good. "Appropriate" is a common word.

That teacher wouldn't get within 1 mile of our school under that document.

Again I'd like to hope that enforcement will be rigorous. I certainly hope that no exceptions will be made for members of a sacred caste. I'm not too confident though.

Westfacing · 17/09/2022 15:56

Someone please tell me that this is fake!

Surely no school would allow such a grotesque parody of womanhood in the classroom.

DialSquare · 17/09/2022 15:55

I've been scratching my head wondering what this reminded me of and it's just come to me. It's like a sketch out of The League of Gentlemen.

YesitsBess · 17/09/2022 15:53

GeorgeorRuth · 16/09/2022 16:12

I presumed it was one of the clickbait fake news things. It can't be serious 🤔

I thought this until I read it. There’s a video.

I mean even from a safety perspective, imagine getting those stuck in a lathe? Carnage!

Soubriquet · 17/09/2022 15:47

this made me laugh

ClocksGoingBackwards · 17/09/2022 15:42

Eww, that’s disgusting.

No, I wouldn’t let my child be taught be someone that thought that was appropriate for school and I would not allow them to be in a school where the management allowed it to happen.

Soubriquet · 17/09/2022 15:40

Just wanted to add, would people be so happy to accept this, if a white person went in black face and insisted they were black.

People wouldn’t be so happy to go along with it then would they

Musomama1 · 17/09/2022 15:39

Well as @Datun says Canada has painted itself into a corner. I'd be interested in how it would play out with a female teacher, but honestly the only woman I've seen like this was Lola Ferrari from the Eurotrash days. She worked in the 'adult industry' right? not in a high school.

I mean he's teaching woodwork but this is an education in gender identity and fetish to the classroom. I hope these kids turn out more informed than the grown ups - they are witnessing first hand the extremes of allowing men to do whatever the f they want.

Soubriquet · 17/09/2022 15:38

No. I would not be happy. That is not a real body and it’s clearly a fetish.

A woman under normal circumstances would never be able to do that. So why can this person?

It’s a fetish and the school are encouraging it.

badbaduncle · 17/09/2022 15:36

I can't get that "do your boobs hang low" song out of my head now. FFS

ArcheryAnnie · 17/09/2022 15:34

donquixotedelamancha · 16/09/2022 15:48

Would you want your child to be taught by someone who looked like this?

I was expecting to moan at you for highlighting someone of unfortunate appearance...and then I clicked the link. Holy fuck.

Same. I was gearing up to type "I don't care what a teacher looks like or dresses like, whatever their sex" and then I clicked the link....

ImNotAnExpert · 17/09/2022 15:03

If the school were to pull him up for this, what could they possibly say, though?

Males wearing caricatures of female bodies/dress has become not only normalised but elevated to the status of a higher caste. The wearing of fake breasts cannot be questioned - to do so would put the questioner in the position of being 'transphobic'.

This teacher is part of the 'most marginalised' groups of people and can therefore not be challenged.

Justme56 · 17/09/2022 14:55

I’m not sure but if I get deleted so be it. I’m only repeating the words of Naomi Cunningham when she spoke up at the consultation earlier this year.

ImNotAnExpert · 17/09/2022 14:48

Justme56 · 17/09/2022 13:46

I guess if you base laws on gender identity and gender expression this is the outcome. I think there are many men who perceive what makes a woman a woman is the size of her breasts. As was highlighted in the Scottish GRA consultation some men transition for ‘erotic reasons’ but apparently this isn’t an issue.

Oh, are we allowed to talk about this, now, then?

ReunitedThorns · 17/09/2022 14:01

Datun · 17/09/2022 12:31

Yes, hence quite a few prominent transwomen describing their humiliation fetish.

And this is the other thing, it's not good enough to exclude this person on the grounds of health and safety or whether he's violating a dress code. If he is bringing a fetish to work and using the pupils in order to act it out, he should be sacked and/or arrested.

Any sensible person would say that what this guy was wearing was inappropriate, but when you're so far down this rabbit hole, people just can't.

It's not nice that people become involuntarily involved with this guy's fantasies, but I don't know how legally classify that, unless he had clear signs of sexual arousal (which then becomes a child protection issue). Perhaps even us mocking the guy is helping his fantasy? (Not a pleasant thought).

After seeing a lot of young teenage boys (through links on GC sites etc) being told that their sexual fetish is in fact gender dysmorphia by various pressure groups and charities, I grew worried about a whole generation not even knowing that it is that.

Justme56 · 17/09/2022 13:46

I guess if you base laws on gender identity and gender expression this is the outcome. I think there are many men who perceive what makes a woman a woman is the size of her breasts. As was highlighted in the Scottish GRA consultation some men transition for ‘erotic reasons’ but apparently this isn’t an issue.

wellhelloitsme · 17/09/2022 13:35

@FlyingD

It is true though. So you've called it absolutely wrong on this one.

diamondpony80 · 17/09/2022 13:20

donquixotedelamancha · 16/09/2022 15:48

Would you want your child to be taught by someone who looked like this?

I was expecting to moan at you for highlighting someone of unfortunate appearance...and then I clicked the link. Holy fuck.

Lol, I was just expecting a few tattoos or something! This is just crazy.

Datun · 17/09/2022 12:31

ReunitedThorns · 17/09/2022 11:32

I've got no problem with that fact.

What worries me about the affirmation model is that every so-called specialist is reluctant to call it that, and that we are training people (both those with the fetish and everyone else) not to see it that way. It's dangerous and boundaries need to be set.

I'm just staggered that the man in question has no self-awareness at how ridiculous he looks. Unless being ridiculed is another one of his fetishes?

Yes, hence quite a few prominent transwomen describing their humiliation fetish.

And this is the other thing, it's not good enough to exclude this person on the grounds of health and safety or whether he's violating a dress code. If he is bringing a fetish to work and using the pupils in order to act it out, he should be sacked and/or arrested.

Would you want your child to be taught by someone who looked like this?
OldTinHat · 17/09/2022 12:12

My eyes, my eyes!!!!!!

MrsOvertonsWindow · 17/09/2022 12:12

This reminds me of the harassment of women lecturers at Vancouver Island University. They files a formal complaint back in 2018 about an adult male with a diaper fetish who repeatedly involved them in his fetish. I can't see any outcome to the investigation / complaint but the behaviour in terms of involving unconsenting others (and it's in Canada) seems rather similar.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5089529/University-failed-male-student-baby-role-play-fetish.html

TooMuchToDoTooLittleInclination · 17/09/2022 12:10

Dreamwhisper · 16/09/2022 16:08

This seems weird. I don't see how anyone, whether trans gender or not, would be allowed to 1 wear a big wig without it being tied back in a class like that and obviously more importantly, be permitted to wear such obviously, grotesquely fake and suggestive body padding.

I agree that sources seem limited though.

Wig??

didn't even notice the wig 😂😂😂😂