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Someone explain to Sara about sharing loos

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pink85 · 24/08/2022 12:29

I'm so tired. They really don't get it or understand why women don't wanna share with men. The second we metaphorically and actually open our spaces for them to use too we're putting ourselves at risk but people like her care more about someones feelings being hurt than real women potentialy being attacked (and not necessarily by TW but by any man) because its okay for anyone to say they're whatever sex they want and we all have to grin and bear it. Link to her tweet: Twitter

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LateSummerLobelia · 24/08/2022 13:46

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/08/2022 13:43

But seriously I wish women like that would grow up.

Me too. They're just virtue signalling to get attention.

Agree.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/08/2022 13:43

But seriously I wish women like that would grow up.

Me too. They're just virtue signalling to get attention.

movingcastle · 24/08/2022 13:43

I'm an adult survivor of domestic abuse in childhood - by the time I was in my early teens I was so terrified of men that I had selective mutism and couldn't go in a shop if there was a man on the till. He controlled our bathroom access at home and easy access to safe toilets remains a major issue for me even now. I wouldn't have been able to use a mixed sex toilet. I wouldn't have even gone in the door. Which with (at the time undiagnosed) endometriosis and periods that were utter carnage, would have made the world even smaller for me.

I understand that it's easier to say I'm the one with the problem rather than open your eyes and take a good look at men and be honest with yourself about what you're seeing. I understand that it feels easier and safer to prioritise male feelings over female safety, because males are so bloody scary when they want something and are told they can't have it.

But seriously I wish women like that would grow up.

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pink85 · 24/08/2022 13:26

Sorry for multiple posts I have a screenshot of her tweets

Someone explain to Sara about sharing loos
Someone explain to Sara about sharing loos
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pink85 · 24/08/2022 12:48

She's gone private now but basically she was saying she'd never seen anyines bits when she was using a loo so basically what was the big deal if they're peeing in a locked cubicle.

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