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Edinburgh Fringe comic spat on and shunned by colleagues as a 'transphobe' for show about women

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JanieAllen · 17/08/2022 13:33

www.scottishdailyexpress.co.uk/news/politics/edinburgh-fringe-comic-spat-shunned-27762754

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applesandpears33 · 21/08/2022 18:14

That is awful. I hope your complaint is handled quickly and they don't wait until the Festival has ended.

WanOvaryKenobi · 21/08/2022 18:04

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 21/08/2022 17:28

In what way? Telling you off for attending?

The complaint is still being handled.

Essentially he was going up to middle-aged women (particularly gender non conforming women), asking them if they were seeing the show, then rolling his eyes if they confirmed. So directly going for anyone he thought was attending based on their sex, age, and gender presentation in an attempt to publicly shame them.

Then he said the show was transphobic because anyone can buy a vagina, and then implied all a vagina needs to do is be capable of taking a dick.

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 21/08/2022 17:28

WanOvaryKenobi · 21/08/2022 17:17

I went to see the show last night and a Gilded Balloon staff member was harassing the audience as we went in. I've put in a formal complaint and it is currently being looked into.

In what way? Telling you off for attending?

WanOvaryKenobi · 21/08/2022 17:17

I went to see the show last night and a Gilded Balloon staff member was harassing the audience as we went in. I've put in a formal complaint and it is currently being looked into.

RhannionKPSS · 21/08/2022 16:36

None of them have seen the show, the one who spat on Elanie hasn’t seen it, he probably only heard what he wanted to hear from others, possibly including one of the other “ comedians “ at the Fringe.
They are a shower of bawbags & Aunt Lydias.

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 16:35

The poster arguing with me hadn't seen the show!

endofthelinefinally · 21/08/2022 16:31

One of the biggest complaints currently is that trans health care is so poor. We should be talking about the health needs of young women who go on puberty blockers and cross sex hormones, even before we get to any kind of surgery. These young women will need exactly the kind of care and support that Elaine is talking about. Vaginal atrophy and osteoporosis are both miserable, painful conditions and this needs to be addressed.
I just can't understand why a trained, experienced HCP raising these issues deserves to be vilified and silenced. It must be the case that none of the detractors have actually listened to her talk.

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 16:24

Comments off on both EGG threads now.

museumum · 21/08/2022 16:16

Elaine’s cause is so so so important for anyone born with a vulva, however they identify. I’m furious that it is being derailed by a group of people who are so blinkered and vehement. It makes me want to cry with frustration.

TheLassWiADelicateAir · 21/08/2022 13:55

www.spectator.co.uk/article/elaine-miller-is-right-about-women-s-health-

Debbie Hayton article supporting Miller.

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 21/08/2022 13:13

FrustratedEgg · 21/08/2022 13:05

@PSKeyboardwarrior I don't blame you, I honestly don't understand how anyone in the NHS can believe all this stuff.

Abusive power structures and asymmetries exist at every level of the NHS.

This is just an easy source of additional bullying, abuse, and the ability to do it while acting as a virtuous Witchfinder General.

FrustratedEgg · 21/08/2022 13:05

@PSKeyboardwarrior I don't blame you, I honestly don't understand how anyone in the NHS can believe all this stuff.

Waitwhat23 · 21/08/2022 12:58

I'm not on EGG but have been told by other sources that the posters holding the line for sanity and reality did excellent work in the face of really determined unpleasantness from a couple of very vocal TRA's. Well done

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 12:54

It was her naivety and lack of critical thinking that got me and continued 'transphobia' responses to legitimate questions and scenarios. Worrying for a so called Applied Psychologist.

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 21/08/2022 12:50

The more I'm thinking about it the angrier I'm getting. She works in the bloody NHS as an Applied Psychologist and is threatening me online for saying sex over gender.

Unfortunately, despite Forstater and Bailey, I have no confidence that the NHS would have your back if this were raised as a complaint to HR or as a concern for her patients/clients.

The clash of ideology and [X] rarely ends well if the latter is to be trumped by a sacred caste that can not be challenged in a way that is accepted as normal for all other groups.

FactsAreNotMean · 21/08/2022 12:33

I think that post shows why many "normal" (by which I mean not already engaged on either side of the debate) women just don't speak. You've got


  • people being called hate groups

  • folk speaking with absolute certainty about the validity of their views

  • complex and intentionally obscuring language

  • phrasing which people don't understand - cis/AFAB etc


Is it any wonder that many people don't engage?

Really making me angry, you should be absolutely furious

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 12:18

The more I'm thinking about it the angrier I'm getting. She works in the bloody NHS as an Applied Psychologist and is threatening me online for saying sex over gender.

An Applied Psychologist who comes out with blanket statements such as 'transwomen aren't harmful', because being trans automatically makes them so. How is that allowed?!

Calyx72 · 21/08/2022 11:39

Hugs to you Elaine xxx I had tears of anger for you watching that xxx

TanteRose · 21/08/2022 11:20

Just seen Elaine’s video from 18 August on FB - heartbreaking but also heartening
{{{unmumsnetty hugs}}} @gussiegrips

someone needs to contact Emma Barnett at the BBC and get Elaine on Woman’s Hour…

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 10:13

I'm not too concerned, my department has bigger things to deal with at the moment, and I'm also not an officer.

FrustratedEgg · 21/08/2022 10:07

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 09:59

Name change - I'm the one being threatened with going to my employer 🙄👋. I hope she does, we could do with a laugh.

What thread has the comments been turned off?

Hi! @PSKeyboardwarrior! It's the thread where you were threatened that has had comments turned off. I couldn't believe you were threatened with that!

FactsAreNotMean · 21/08/2022 10:06

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 09:59

Name change - I'm the one being threatened with going to my employer 🙄👋. I hope she does, we could do with a laugh.

What thread has the comments been turned off?

The "call for action" post. It seems to have been invaded overnight calling FWS terf central, hate group etc. Disabling comments seemed sensible IMO as it was going downhill fast and that sort of threatening nonsense is flipping ridiculous.

I'm glad you are ok/not too concerned. This sort of shit is why many women (including me) can't speak publicly because not all empoyers will just laugh. They might be on a sticky wicket trying to sack or discipline because of it, but future careers prospects are a different matter sadly.

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 09:59

Name change - I'm the one being threatened with going to my employer 🙄👋. I hope she does, we could do with a laugh.

What thread has the comments been turned off?

FrustratedEgg · 21/08/2022 09:55

Interesting to see that the other thread has had comments turned off by admin but the one about Elaine hasn't.

RhannionKPSS · 21/08/2022 00:48

Whereareyourshoes · 20/08/2022 22:22

@FrustratedEgg thank you for posting in that group - am also a member. Positive to see the support for Elaine and her show. Only a small number of word salad warriors on there but at least they help shine more light on this subject. Not joining in the conversation on FB as I get too pissed off by those twisting words and meanings and am like to say something unhelpful to the situation.

I’m not able to go to the show (finances too tight for any fringe shows this year) but I’ve shared Elaine’s speech from Alloa with a number of people. As she said, these issues really are a matter of life and death for women (the old fashioned cunty kind). I am so full of admiration for Elaine and I hope she is encouraged by how much support there is for her despite the hate from the think-they’re-inclusive-but-really-aren’t crowd.

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