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Women's Rights Protest in Scotland - 15th September

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WanOvaryKenobi · 16/08/2022 19:19

Info here:

mobile.twitter.com/ForWomenScot/status/1559238497919070208

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RhannionKPSS · 06/09/2022 15:26

Anyway back to invited women to the rally at Holyrood on 15th September @ 11 ish.
Bring your voices , your banners and any males who care about women’s rights along. We might go to the pub afterwards...

RhannionKPSS · 06/09/2022 15:23

And there is no such thing as “ Cis” it’s offensive to many of us to use that term.

RhannionKPSS · 06/09/2022 15:19

Hearach15 · 06/09/2022 14:14

"But that cumbersome process is to weed out some of the bad actors, whatever transgender means."

Ireland made this change 7 years ago, the change barely registered it had such little impact on cis people.

That is a lie, the only reason it didn’t “ register “ as you put it was because of the underhand, dishonest way it was piggybacked on to other legislation.
Ask the women in prisons in Ireland how they feel about a trans identifying man in their spaces.
Ask the women of Ireland if they think that violent, disturbed young man who attacked his social worker and ripped at her eyelids, has threaten to murder his mother & clearly hates women should be in a women’s prison.

stealtheatingtunnocks · 06/09/2022 15:11

No, @Hearach15 - when this bill passes (which it will) you will see some spectacular grown up behaviour.

we are not going to Iose our single sex spaces. We are not going to have our girls, mothers and women who need single sex spaces stuck with males.

we say no. We mean no. We will get what we need becaise it is needed.

women are organised and collaborate. Have you not noticed what forms out of mumsnet? You can laugh or sneer all you want - but we build here. We have other places too so if this goes we will build elsewhere. We do it all the time.

yes, the bill will go throughZ. Despite which we will be keeping our single sex spaces. That is why TRAs are so cross. They know we know who is female and who doesn’t Belong next to us.

Hearach15 · 06/09/2022 14:16

stealtheatingtunnocks · 06/09/2022 12:11

And your right to a GRC without beurocracy? Why is that a right?

have you ever tried to get PIP? Or a Mortgage? Or a divorce? You have to provide evidence of your circumstances for everything. Why on earth would changing sex in law be any different?

that is not a right, that’s a teenage “it’s not fair!”

it is fair. Stop complaining and go to your room.

"it is fair. Stop complaining and go to your room."

When this reform is passed (which it will) you can go to your room and stop complaining 😀

Hearach15 · 06/09/2022 14:15

stealtheatingtunnocks · 06/09/2022 12:11

And your right to a GRC without beurocracy? Why is that a right?

have you ever tried to get PIP? Or a Mortgage? Or a divorce? You have to provide evidence of your circumstances for everything. Why on earth would changing sex in law be any different?

that is not a right, that’s a teenage “it’s not fair!”

it is fair. Stop complaining and go to your room.

"have you ever tried to get PIP? Or a Mortgage? Or a divorce?"

Nope but I believe in no fault divorce. I have also lived in France and the bureaucracy was out of control. Governments across Britain should reform the GRC and use it to slim down the state. That would save a few much needed £££.

Hearach15 · 06/09/2022 14:14

Musomama1 · 06/09/2022 12:02

But that cumbersome process is to weed out some of the bad actors, whatever transgender means. Do you think ANY man should be allowed in female spaces? Because self ID allows that.

And I'm not just talking about men who may pose a physical thread to women (and call me a transphobe but please explain why we have single-sex spaces in the first place), but men simply getting off on being in these spaces.

Like so many of us you might be old and ugly enough to deal with a pervy male, but what about a young girl? Did you grow up with a law that allowed anyone access into single-sex spaces?

"But that cumbersome process is to weed out some of the bad actors, whatever transgender means."

Ireland made this change 7 years ago, the change barely registered it had such little impact on cis people.

Hearach15 · 06/09/2022 14:11

WanOvaryKenobi · 06/09/2022 11:20

Nobody has the right to declare themselves to be a political, social, and biological class they are not.

Some males have a male understanding of what being a woman means to them, as males.

We socially and legally do not allow young people to declare themselves as older for a pension, or for non disabled people to have dispensations meant for disabled people, or for white people to be counted as BAME in the workplace.

So already, actually, they have way more rights by the fact a GRC is even a thing.

"So already, actually, they have way more rights by the fact a GRC is even a thing."

I think your issue is with the existence of the GRC itself. You should be campaigning for its full repeal rather than more modest changes as to how trans people apply for one.

stealtheatingtunnocks · 06/09/2022 12:11

And your right to a GRC without beurocracy? Why is that a right?

have you ever tried to get PIP? Or a Mortgage? Or a divorce? You have to provide evidence of your circumstances for everything. Why on earth would changing sex in law be any different?

that is not a right, that’s a teenage “it’s not fair!”

it is fair. Stop complaining and go to your room.

stealtheatingtunnocks · 06/09/2022 12:08

I think that @Hearach15 has a point here.

youbare right, trans women have been using female single sex spaces for decades. As a favour. We are very good at assessing risk, quickly and as a collective. If the women agreed the TW was not a risk we turned a blind eye. If a single woman was uncomfortable then the TW was ejected. It worked well as a favour based system.

now, though, we are OBLIGED to allow any male into our sex segregated spaces, and we are saying “no”. We don’t want fetishists or predatory men near us, our mothers, our daughters. Some of us have faith based reasons for that, some of us trauma and some of us would just like to not be around male people who tell us what to do and how to behave all the fucking time.

so, you are right, there is a loss fo TW there. But take it up with those who lobbied to remove our singles sec spaces - they took your favour based system away.

I doubt it’ll ever come back . i will always regard a male in my space with suspicion now.

blame Pam Duncan Smith and Alex Coke Hamilton and Nicola Stirgeon and Patrick Harvey and all of them. They took it away from you.

Musomama1 · 06/09/2022 12:02

Hearach15 · 06/09/2022 09:21

The right to get a GRC without having to prove to bureaucrats in a cumbersome process that you're transgender.

But that cumbersome process is to weed out some of the bad actors, whatever transgender means. Do you think ANY man should be allowed in female spaces? Because self ID allows that.

And I'm not just talking about men who may pose a physical thread to women (and call me a transphobe but please explain why we have single-sex spaces in the first place), but men simply getting off on being in these spaces.

Like so many of us you might be old and ugly enough to deal with a pervy male, but what about a young girl? Did you grow up with a law that allowed anyone access into single-sex spaces?

WanOvaryKenobi · 06/09/2022 11:25

Hearach15 · 06/09/2022 09:21

It's about excluding trans women from women's spaces. Spaces they have been using for decades.

Just be honest.

Single sex spaces. We are currently entitled to them under the Equality Act which is very specific about the definition of sex in law.

Transwomen, TIMs, whatever you want to call them are male. This violates single sex spaces that many women want and need for personal, cultural, religious, safety, and dignity reasons.

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WanOvaryKenobi · 06/09/2022 11:20

Hearach15 · 06/09/2022 09:21

The right to get a GRC without having to prove to bureaucrats in a cumbersome process that you're transgender.

Nobody has the right to declare themselves to be a political, social, and biological class they are not.

Some males have a male understanding of what being a woman means to them, as males.

We socially and legally do not allow young people to declare themselves as older for a pension, or for non disabled people to have dispensations meant for disabled people, or for white people to be counted as BAME in the workplace.

So already, actually, they have way more rights by the fact a GRC is even a thing.

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ArabellaScott · 06/09/2022 09:36

Yes, obviously, women want to exclude males from female spaces. That's why there are 'female spaces' in the first place.

Hearach15 · 06/09/2022 09:21

stealtheatingtunnocks · 06/09/2022 03:03

It’d not a rally about or anti trans anything, @Hearach15 . It’s about women and the loss of our rights to single sex spaces which some of us wish to retain.

it’s bout women.

It's about excluding trans women from women's spaces. Spaces they have been using for decades.

Just be honest.

Hearach15 · 06/09/2022 09:21

RhannionKPSS · 06/09/2022 00:55

Please enlighten us on what rights trans people do not have in the UK...

The right to get a GRC without having to prove to bureaucrats in a cumbersome process that you're transgender.

WanOvaryKenobi · 06/09/2022 07:38

@Hearach15 Normally in a democracy when there are opposing sides to an issue there is a debate.

There has not been.

Ultimately, this is about women losing the right to have single sex spaces, and therefore lose their right to privacy, dignity, safety, and the right for religious and ethnic minority women to take part in public life. If there really wasn't a threat, we would not be seeing TIMs rape and assault women in their spaces. But we do. For me, one is enough.

As a feminist I do not believe the feelings of males are more important than the safety and dignity of women. TIMs have all the same rights as everyone else, they do not have the right to encroach on others. We do not owe males validation for their fantasies. Not at any risk.

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stealtheatingtunnocks · 06/09/2022 03:03

It’d not a rally about or anti trans anything, @Hearach15 . It’s about women and the loss of our rights to single sex spaces which some of us wish to retain.

it’s bout women.

RhannionKPSS · 06/09/2022 00:58

It’s going to be an interesting & excellent rally with strong, funny articulate women like Kate & Lisa speaking out.

RhannionKPSS · 06/09/2022 00:55

Hearach15 · 05/09/2022 23:18

Why would they do that when all the people on the demo oppose trans rights?

Please enlighten us on what rights trans people do not have in the UK...

RhannionKPSS · 06/09/2022 00:54

It appears the PDC didn’t appear at the demo, maybe she realized it wasn’t appropriate...

RhannionKPSS · 06/09/2022 00:52

I expect politicians who are part of a panel hearing evidence on any policy to hear all the view points & arguments & be open minded to every speaker.

Hearach15 · 05/09/2022 23:21

RhannionKPSS · 03/09/2022 14:26

I saw Pam Duncan Glancy did a video to encourage people to support the “ Trans Rights” demo on Monday in Edinburgh.
Wonder if Pam will bother to do the same for the women’s rally...
As she is on the committee at the GRC hearings this video has clearly demonstrated her bias, and I find that concerning to say the least.

When you say "bias", you mean she has been open about supporting the reform? Surely you would expect a politician to be honest about their views on legislation?

ArabellaScott · 05/09/2022 23:19

Looks brilliant. Have a blast, all who can make it!

Hearach15 · 05/09/2022 23:18

BlackForestCake · 05/09/2022 20:43

If trans rights do not conflict with women’s rights, as these MSPs claim to believe, then they should have no issue with joining the women’s demo.

They won’t, of course.

Why would they do that when all the people on the demo oppose trans rights?