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Jerry Sadowitz

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Bearsinmotion · 15/08/2022 13:08

Is anyone following this?

Really strange - the Pleasance theatre have cancelled Jerry Sadowitz’s show at the fringe, citing audience walkouts and complaints of extreme misogyny and racism. But have not quoted what was said that was so offensive even to him. Both Sadowitz and people who were there have questioned the walkouts. The show had many, many warnings about offensive content, and that he was going to be getting his cock out, which he did, as do other comedians at the Fringe.

there are a few comedians supporting him on Twitter, around the defence of free speech. But what stood out to me in the language was that audience members felt “unsafe,” yet I have not seen a single person say that was them. Graham Linehan has written about it here. Just wondering if it was related to the TRA frenzy as Glinner implies, with manufactured outrage or whether Sadowitz genuinely went too far this time.

I used to love Jerry back in the day, and he was one of the few calling out Jimmy Saville when it counted, so I want to believe he’s not been targeted for once again calling out those doing real harm…

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NonnyMouse1337 · 17/08/2022 03:46

Sinasappel · 17/08/2022 00:34

Remind me not to appoint you as HR manager.

I wouldn't want the job any way. The fact that I've just had to spell out basic facts about not making blanket assumptions about people based on skin colour or ethnicity is evidence that I wouldn't have the patience to deal with the scale of such ignorance as a full-time job.

NonnyMouse1337 · 17/08/2022 03:37

WolverineBluey · 17/08/2022 00:26

"Unpleasant words", Nonni are you fucking serious?

Yes I'm fucking serious. There's a big difference between being surrounded by an aggressive group of skinheads in a street and called pki and watching an offensive comedy show where presumably all kinds of people and topics are being insulted / mocked (and this hypothetical brown person seems totally ok with all of that - maybe even laughed at some of the lines), and then someone else who isn't even present is called a pki as part of a joke (it's not even clear what the context of the joke was - something about Tories using the word?!).

Now it might be jarring and offensive to hear it, but it's insulting and infantilising to think that any and all South Asians are inherently incapable of distinguishing between the two scenarios.

South Asians are not a hive mind and stop behaving as if they are. One person might get so upset upon hearing the word irrespective of the context, another might get annoyed but shrug it off, and another might laugh at the joke because they get the underlying message or simply found it funny.

Stop assuming that there is only one kind of reaction a brown person is capable of having when confronted with slurs and unpleasant situations.

A guy passed me in the street once and muttered something about me being a fucking p*ki. It happened so quickly I didn't have time to even register the whole sentence. I didn't faint or feel 'unsafe'. I briefly felt angry and irritated - also surprised, like wow did he really just say that out loud?!.... and then I pitied the guy for his ignorance and racism. I also wondered what happened in his life to shape such views and behaviour. Soon after that I moved on with my day and my life. The incident is a footnote among my memories. Because ultimately the word is not a reflection of me, it's a reflection of the person who uses it on me.
In another situation and context, I might have felt differently, who knows. Who cares. The point is stop assuming all brown people get terribly upset upon hearing a racial slur and are incapable of distinguishing the context within which it's said.

donquixotedelamancha · 17/08/2022 01:00

Is it not reasonable that a Pakistani employee who works at a conference centre shouldn't have to, nor be expected to hear JS calling Rishi Sunak a p%%i live on stage?

That's not really the point. If he did that then he deserves to have his gig cancelled.

The vast majority of people who have seen his act seem to think he is being ironic and holding a mirror to to the dark parts of society. Up until now no-one has thought he was serious and intended to be racist.

If that's what he was doing then anyone, Pakistani or otherwise, might like or dislike his humour but it's not the same thing as Roy Chubby Brown.

If the pleasance genuinely thought he was a racist I would have expected them to be much more specific in their reasoning.

MangyInseam · 17/08/2022 00:48

WalrusSubmarine · 16/08/2022 23:00

Id be happy NEVER to have the P word never spoken again. And I’d guess a rape victim wouldn’t want to hear a rape “joke” on stage or CSA victim wouldn’t want to hear a CSA punchline or Michael Jackson song. I’d guess religious people are fed up of being mocked for their religious beliefs and I know gay people who are horrified that countries can ban the new Buzz Lightyear film because of a short chaste gay kiss.

I’d want the context of this comment, I’d want the views of a number of attendees, I’d want to know the complaints procedure and if it was followed, I’d want to know if the artist or promoter was spoken with about removing it, I’d want to know if that employee could be moved to a different section for the night etc.

I know I’m walking the “mumsnet is racist line” but if freedom of speech was that easy we’d have fixed it by now. It’s a complex problem.

No, I don't think you can assume any of those things are true. There are members of minority groups that don't mind hearing jokes with those kinds of words, there are people who have been sexually assaulted that will laugh at jokes relating to sexual assault, there are religious people who are happy to laugh at jokes about religion, etc.

Especially, in every case, if the jokes are enlightening, which is not incompatible with them being shocking.

Anyone speaking on behalf of all these people as if they are of one mind is speaking out of turn.

Sinasappel · 17/08/2022 00:34

NonnyMouse1337 · 16/08/2022 23:57

No one can reasonably expect to go through life without encountering situations that they may find annoying, hurtful or upsetting.

Brown people should not be encouraged by white people to adopt mental fragility as an identity.

The pervasiveness of the idea that people with more melanin in their skin are somehow inherently less robust when faced with unpleasant words entrenches an association of inferiority when compared to white people.

Racial slurs can shock, anger and upset but at the end of the day we mustn't let a stranger's words (and in the context of an offensive comedy show no less) have so much power and influence on our minds.

Remind me not to appoint you as HR manager.

WolverineBluey · 17/08/2022 00:26

"Unpleasant words", Nonni are you fucking serious?

NonnyMouse1337 · 16/08/2022 23:57

acollectionofshortstories · 16/08/2022 22:20

Is it not reasonable that a Pakistani employee who works at a conference centre shouldn't have to, nor be expected to hear JS calling Rishi Sunak a p%%i live on stage?

No one can reasonably expect to go through life without encountering situations that they may find annoying, hurtful or upsetting.

Brown people should not be encouraged by white people to adopt mental fragility as an identity.

The pervasiveness of the idea that people with more melanin in their skin are somehow inherently less robust when faced with unpleasant words entrenches an association of inferiority when compared to white people.

Racial slurs can shock, anger and upset but at the end of the day we mustn't let a stranger's words (and in the context of an offensive comedy show no less) have so much power and influence on our minds.

MaChienEstUnDick · 16/08/2022 23:40

xxyzz · 16/08/2022 22:10

A good point well made, @WalrusSubmarine .

Can you imagine what would happen if everyone who objected to aspects of their job on ethical/moral grounds just put their foot down and refused to do it? The country would grind to a halt immediately!

How many civil servants do you think agree with every aspect of the government's agenda that they're required to deliver? How many teachers love the curriculum and think it's best for their students? What about people who work for all the many industries that harm the environment (power companies), people's health (tobacco companies) or kill people outright (arms companies)?

These people all cope with certain aspects of the job they dislike, no morally and ethically disapprove of, because they get paid, and they need money to live.

There is a bit of me realising, as I write this, with a sudden rush of recognition, that of course it's students doing fabulous summer jobs at the top comedy club at the Edinburgh Fringe who are refusing to work when they don't like the jokes of a particular comedian, just as of course it's Guardian journalists who refuse to work alongside the likes of Suzanne Moore, and of course it's people working in editorial roles at top London publishers who refuse to work on anything written by JK Rowling.

It's because virtually all of them are from highly privileged backgrounds, who have no money worries, an overwheling sense of entitlement, and are extremely well-connected, which is how they get these (frankly much sought-after) jobs in the first place.

But instead of being grateful for their extreme good fortune, they expect absolutely everyone around them to pander to their ludicrous sense of privilege.

And depressingly, too many employers like the Pleasance do. Along with the Guardian and the vast majority of publishers.

It goes even deeper than that. There's been a lot of pressure put on the 'big 4' to raise their wages - and they have, to be fair - but not in any way that compensates for how expensive accommodation is in Edinburgh over August. I saw a job for a content creator for one of the big names which was something like 60 hours per week for £600 - you're not going to be able to find accommodation for that.

So even people who are getting jobs on their own merit are doing it from a background of financial privilege. Very few people can afford to work at the Fringe.

acollectionofshortstories · 16/08/2022 23:34

Also it's a purely hypothetical employee.

acollectionofshortstories · 16/08/2022 23:33

Is there actually any evidence whatsoever that an actual as opposed to theoretical employee of Pakistani origin worked at the venue or objected to anything that was actually said? Or are you getting outraged on behalf of something that was quite possibly not said, in a context that is not known, and on behalf of a person who almost certainly doesn't exist, or we would have heard from them before now?

No outrage, I'm just looking at it in an employer/employee legal sense.

JeffThePilot · 16/08/2022 23:29

I also have ABSOLUTELY NO PATIENCE with people who use the word 'unsafe' when they mean 'upset' - THEY ARE NOT THE SAME. Staff were not 'unsafe' because a comedian used offensive language, they were hurt, or shocked, or scandalised. But 'unsafe'? No. They were in a nice indoor venue with other staff around. And doors they could walk out of if it all got too much.

Absolutely right.

Years ago now I saw a comedian as part of a comedy evening, dead now, who billed himself as “unapologetically offensive” and I suspect rather saw himself as being a Sadowitz type (though without the wit).

He told a rape joke as part of his act and I didn’t laugh. He noticed me not laughing (I was not front row) and decided to make a big deal about it, ending up with him encouraging the audience to wait for me after the show and beat me up.

I didn’t feel “unsafe”, I didn’t even leave.

What I did do is walk up to him in the bar afterwards and politely asked him if he’d considered that he might, that evening, have joked about a rape victim being beaten up for not laughing at a rape joke, and if he felt that this was OK. He blustered a bit about satire, and I asked him if he thought every single audience member who was laughing at it was because they understood it was satire, or could it be that in fact he was encouraging something much nastier.

Anyway so much for unapologetic because he was very apologetic by the time I’d finished with him.

(As an aside, Rhod Gilbert was also on the bill in one of his earliest ever gigs after going full time into comedy, and he was in the bar and overheard me confronting this comedian, and made the point of coming over to me afterwards and saying he thought I was absolutely right to challenge it, have always liked him ever since)

BlackForestCake · 16/08/2022 23:17

Stewart Lee used to do a routine about “the values of the Carphone Warehouse” in which he mocked the vacuous virtue signalling of corporations. I suspect he doesn’t perform that any more.

ScribblingPixie · 16/08/2022 23:09

That BBC story needs a proofread. It seems to be about both Jerry and Gerry Sadowitz.

xxyzz · 16/08/2022 23:08

acollectionofshortstories · 16/08/2022 22:20

Is it not reasonable that a Pakistani employee who works at a conference centre shouldn't have to, nor be expected to hear JS calling Rishi Sunak a p%%i live on stage?

Is there actually any evidence whatsoever that an actual as opposed to theoretical employee of Pakistani origin worked at the venue or objected to anything that was actually said? Or are you getting outraged on behalf of something that was quite possibly not said, in a context that is not known, and on behalf of a person who almost certainly doesn't exist, or we would have heard from them before now?

Given that the Pleasance never actually quoted the use of the word P*, which you think they would have done, if that actually was the cause of the cancellation (would have been straightforward enough to explain to Sadowitz, and to the media), I can only assume that this term wasn't actually used at all.

What Sadowitz actually did say remains unknown. And unless the Pleasance admit it, which currently seems unlikely, will remain unknown.

It all feels rather Kafkaesque. Or should that be Stalinist? Accused of a crime that is not described, with no evidence given, and found guilty by a secret court of...students working a holiday job.

Hmm.

TheLassWiADelicateAir · 16/08/2022 23:03

JemimaPuddlegoose · 15/08/2022 19:13

How do you know he didn’t tell the venue? Venues are responsible for their listings. Surely someone at the venue should have watched one of his previous shows first to find out the general content!

Okay, at the risk of sounding like a know-all, can I please please explain how Ed Fringe model operates in practice? Can you please just read what I have to say before deciding?

Ed Fringe is a massive festival that is "open access" meaning that anyone can perform there if they can afford the fees.

The festival has over 3500 shows this year.

The way Ed fringe works is, people apply to perform and they pay the fee.
Obviously someone does read the applications when they first come in, and some venues are more choosy whereas others are purely spaces for hire that literally anyone can pay the fee and put on anything they like.

The Ed Fringe website automatically sends out an email to everyone who is bringing a show (all 3500 of them) which contains a link to an online form, where each act (all 3500 of them) fills in their show details. The form contains a section "Show description" where the act or their producer or their manager or whomever is handling their EdFringe run writes in the marketing blurb that will become the official show description. Another part of the form is a section marked "content warning" where each act/their person is supposed to write down everything that might need to be trigger warned. Nudity is absolutely something you are supposed to write in the box!

Those 3500 forms get sent to the EdFringe web development team, who copy and paste them into the 'live' website. As you can imagine 3500 show descriptions is a lot! Please understand, no one is actually reading the forms once they've been submitted. The onus is 100% on each act to make sure their show description and content warning is accurate and up to date.

The Pleasance as a venue has no involvement over what's on the Edfringe.com website. At all. I happen to know that the Pleasance gives each act a log-in for pleasance.co.uk so they can edit their own show descriptions on the Pleasance website, but the Pleasance website is separate from the EdFringe.com website, and it's the EdFringe.com website that everyone uses.

A lot of people have complained about this, it's a big ongoing problem. But in this specific situation, JS or whoever on JS' team submitted the form is to blame. Because they should and could have typed a more accurate description into the form, and they certainly should have put "may contain nudity" and "offensive content" into the content warning box, and not just "strong language and themes some may find distressing."

As a Fringe attendee of over 30 years I can confirm that what you've said is correct. A few venues will exercise some quality control- The Traverse for example and Summerhall possibly as their shows tend to be arty , not shock-jock type.

I'd never in a million years go to see Sadowitz. The fact he was going to expose his penis should have had a clear warning and it was up to Sadowitz to provide that information.

WalrusSubmarine · 16/08/2022 23:03

Never to hear it spoken again*

Fucks sake.

WalrusSubmarine · 16/08/2022 23:00

acollectionofshortstories · 16/08/2022 22:20

Is it not reasonable that a Pakistani employee who works at a conference centre shouldn't have to, nor be expected to hear JS calling Rishi Sunak a p%%i live on stage?

Id be happy NEVER to have the P word never spoken again. And I’d guess a rape victim wouldn’t want to hear a rape “joke” on stage or CSA victim wouldn’t want to hear a CSA punchline or Michael Jackson song. I’d guess religious people are fed up of being mocked for their religious beliefs and I know gay people who are horrified that countries can ban the new Buzz Lightyear film because of a short chaste gay kiss.

I’d want the context of this comment, I’d want the views of a number of attendees, I’d want to know the complaints procedure and if it was followed, I’d want to know if the artist or promoter was spoken with about removing it, I’d want to know if that employee could be moved to a different section for the night etc.

I know I’m walking the “mumsnet is racist line” but if freedom of speech was that easy we’d have fixed it by now. It’s a complex problem.

Iggi999 · 16/08/2022 22:57

There are churches in Edinburgh that are used as festival venues - I assume it brings much needed funds. That doesn't mean they approve of everything in all the shows or that the minister checks your ticket.

TheLassWiADelicateAir · 16/08/2022 22:46

Alarmcloc · 15/08/2022 17:09

That quote was from a promotional video on his social media page.

That quote looks like a flippant remark - not a warning that there would be nudity.

SerendipityJane · 16/08/2022 22:35

acollectionofshortstories · 16/08/2022 22:20

Is it not reasonable that a Pakistani employee who works at a conference centre shouldn't have to, nor be expected to hear JS calling Rishi Sunak a p%%i live on stage?

I happen to like Reginald D. Hunter, who has made some valid points about his use of certain words. Words which - as he pointed out - are part of his childhood.

I say this, because I've seen him live in a very mixed cultural setting. Sadly this too was years ago, so (as yet) beyond the reach of the wokemasters.

Generally I am not a fan of retrowashing history (eg. Alan Turings pardon). Whatever the intentions, it allows some elements of society to pretend to younger generations "it wasn't that bad in the 60s/70s/80s. It's the modern equivalent of vandalising classical statues.

acollectionofshortstories · 16/08/2022 22:20

Is it not reasonable that a Pakistani employee who works at a conference centre shouldn't have to, nor be expected to hear JS calling Rishi Sunak a p%%i live on stage?

xxyzz · 16/08/2022 22:10

A good point well made, @WalrusSubmarine .

Can you imagine what would happen if everyone who objected to aspects of their job on ethical/moral grounds just put their foot down and refused to do it? The country would grind to a halt immediately!

How many civil servants do you think agree with every aspect of the government's agenda that they're required to deliver? How many teachers love the curriculum and think it's best for their students? What about people who work for all the many industries that harm the environment (power companies), people's health (tobacco companies) or kill people outright (arms companies)?

These people all cope with certain aspects of the job they dislike, no morally and ethically disapprove of, because they get paid, and they need money to live.

There is a bit of me realising, as I write this, with a sudden rush of recognition, that of course it's students doing fabulous summer jobs at the top comedy club at the Edinburgh Fringe who are refusing to work when they don't like the jokes of a particular comedian, just as of course it's Guardian journalists who refuse to work alongside the likes of Suzanne Moore, and of course it's people working in editorial roles at top London publishers who refuse to work on anything written by JK Rowling.

It's because virtually all of them are from highly privileged backgrounds, who have no money worries, an overwheling sense of entitlement, and are extremely well-connected, which is how they get these (frankly much sought-after) jobs in the first place.

But instead of being grateful for their extreme good fortune, they expect absolutely everyone around them to pander to their ludicrous sense of privilege.

And depressingly, too many employers like the Pleasance do. Along with the Guardian and the vast majority of publishers.

WalrusSubmarine · 16/08/2022 21:41

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I’m not sure it’s that complicated though. If you work for a council or a corporate or a charity or for an individual you will always meet people that you don’t agree with, have funding that has strings attached, have clients that are not 100% ethically aligned to your values, see decisions made that you don’t agree with etc. You do your job and get paid or you leave and don’t get paid and get a difficult reference!

You don’t tend to see a refuse collector refusing to collect the bins from a church because they don’t hold gay weddings. This is a very “luxury beliefs” thing done by those who can afford meticulous moral standards.

And I’d guess these meticulous moral standards are being funded by ma and pa (who have taken the dirty corporate dollar) so these people are enjoying throwing their weight around because they can afford to.

I’m yet to see the actual offence clearly written out - this is all very vague.

I can’t find the story now but recently there was a woke warrior kicking up an enormous fuss about something on ethical grounds and then it was pointed out that they worked for an arms manufacturer!

I don’t think there is any shame in working for an honest pound but I think there is shame in destroying someone else’s career (JS, the venue, the other staff etc) because of something like this.

YouHaveAnArse · 16/08/2022 20:51

xxyzz · 16/08/2022 14:51

Stiches - that may be the case. Neverthless, if you have accepted a job at a venue during the Edinburgh Fringe, I refuse to believe you don't know you're going to get a random mix of events on.

And the responsibility for ensuring the staff's wellbeing is not Jerry Sadowitz's - as the Pleasance implies - it's theirs. If they know they have a famously outrageous comedian coming up at the venue they manage, it is their responsibility to make sure their staff are suitably prepared and aware of what's coming (or arrange flexibility of shifts if staff really can't cope).

If the Pleasance - who have been quite happy to make money off hosting Sadowitz for countless years - are going to make a commitment not just to host Sadowitz (who I'm 100% sure could find an alternative venue if the Pleasance refused) but also to the audience members who will have bought the tickets in advance, then they have a duty to do any due diligence before the show, not to cancel it mid-run with just hours to go before the second show.

The victims in this who have been entirely forgotten are the audience members for night 2, who had hardly any notice that the show was being cancelled. I saw at least one post on Twitter from someone who'd posted about having flown in from (I think) Belgium, and was looking forward to the event, leading to comments on Twitter along the lines of 'Shall I tell him or will you?' Even if you get a refund, if you've booked hotel, travel etc, then you're still going to be out of pocket.

The other main victim in this is perspective. I will post below on this. But I for one don't want to move to a world where a rude comedian is banned for being non-specifically 'misogynistic, racist, homophobic'. When Frankie Boyle, as we all know, makes unbelievably misogynistic, offensive comments about raping a named woman, he gets to keep his BBC slots and his Guardian columns, and is even labelled as 'progressive'.😡If Safowitz genuinely said anything even a fraction as dangerous and offensive as that, which was widely quoted, I want to see the exact quote of what Sadowitz said that was so much worse, that his show needed immediate cancellation, not even a trigger warning, change of a particular word, etc.

Otherwise, sorry, I am not going to take the word of what appears to be a bunch of students. I am not a free-speech absolutist (unlike say some US right-wingers) - I do believe that where there are actual threats of violence then yes, there is no right to free speech. And the law is quite clear on this. But I don't think that decisions on Sadowitz's 'guilt' and 'punishment' should be taken behind closed doors by some random offended students. Any more than I think that JK Rowling should be found 'guilty' by random people on the internet and 'punished' for it by those who dislike her pro-women stance. This affects everyone, whatever views you hold. If some self-selected moral 'elite' can rule on one person's guilt without needing to give any objective rationale, then they can do it to anyone.

And that's not progressive. And it's not democratic. It's authoritarian. It's regressive. And it potentially provides cover for the very opposite of what it claims.

JS is a magician, I doubt he'd make any jokes as bad as Frankie Boyle's rape joke.

YouHaveAnArse · 16/08/2022 20:50

Maybe FWR should organise a trip to see Sadowitz on his tour this year to show support for free speech!

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