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What does Val McDermid mean?

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achillestoes · 09/08/2022 11:53

“My view of gender politics is you bring people into the tent. Womanhood is a big tent. It embraces me and Kim Kardashian. There’s certainly room in that tent for the trans women I know.”

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ScreechingEchoChamber · 10/08/2022 08:03

Calling anyone a piece of shit is unacceptable. And yes, insults are unnecessary. VM is clearly intelligent.

I think the problem is most often a couple of blind spots. People fix on the marginalization of transwomen and ignore completely the marginalization of women - particularly some subsets of women who will be disproportionately impacted by the inclusion of males in women's spaces- by spaces I mean not just physical tents but stats, shortlists, groups, etc.

Never yet heard a good reason why it's okay to exclude some.women but not Ok to exclude transwomen. Why do transwomen get priority over women?

Floisme · 10/08/2022 07:53

PacificState · 09/08/2022 18:38

I'm with @AmaryllisNightAndDay I think. I tried to read a VM book once and it was so appallingly violent I didn't get past the first couple of pages, but whatever - she's not a stupid woman and she's faced down quite a lot of crap in her time I think.

There is a subset of butch lesbians who feel they've suffered greatly at the hands of women's gatekeeping and (frankly) blind prejudice - Finn McKay (radfem TWAW) talks about the number of time women have aggressively challenged her in toilets.

I can understand how that might lead you to feel solidarity with other people with atypical gender presentation.

I don't happen to agree with either of them, but I respect them as people. Also, and I know this sounds preachy, if we want people to stop dismissing GC feminists as dumb and right-wing maybe we have to also stop the kneejerk abuse of anyone who isn't GC.

I was about to post something pithy and dismissive until I read this, but your point about butch lesbians made me stop and think. A former, much missed poster used to talk sometimes about the abuse she got because of her appearance, and I had the impression that some of this abuse was from women.

So yes, I can see how this might lead to a feeling of kinship with gender non-conforming men. It doesn't make any more sense of what McDermid said, but it does make me more curious about what's behind it than I am about, let's say Margaret Atwood's motivations. I'd like to see the whole interview / essay rather than just a couple of sentences so that I can unpick it properly. Does anyone know where it's from? (Sorry if the info's in the thread already but I couldn't see it.)

And yeah, I was going to reply that disagreement didn't = kneejerk abuse but then I read back and, while the vast majority of posts aren't abusive we've still had the likes of 'dim' 'thick' 'stupid' 'bitchy' (which normally gets shot down pretty quickly on here) and 'piece of shit'.

PermanentTemporary · 10/08/2022 06:46

Just a comment about feminists including all.marginalised people.

Sure - but not as women. Gay men who experience homophobia aren't women. Black men who experience racism aren't women. Disabled people excluded from employment aren't necessarily women. The idea that thinking intersectionally means mushing everyone into a single tent is in fact the exact opposite of what Kimberle Crenshaw wrote.

nettie434 · 10/08/2022 04:22

TheBiologyStupid · 09/08/2022 19:54

So, McDermid is against rapists in men's football teams but OK with them in women's prisons? Where is she on men in women's football?

Right to the heart of the matter there TheBiologyStupid!

SerenaVanDerWoodsenHumphrey · 10/08/2022 01:36

Val McDermid has been a virulent MRA/AWA and a misogynist piece of shit for as long as I can remember.

The fact the someone is a woman and can write and writes about women doesn't make them a feminist. Val McDermid is an out and out screaming, flagrant anti-feminist.

Fluffymule · 10/08/2022 01:16

TheBiologyStupid · 09/08/2022 19:54

So, McDermid is against rapists in men's football teams but OK with them in women's prisons? Where is she on men in women's football?

This was my thought too.

I cheered and supported her stance earlier this year when she ended her sponsorship with Raith Rovers after it signed David Goodwillie, and was scathing in her condemnation of the Board for it. I think she went on Women's Hour to speak about him and the club too. She was incandescent about it.

It's jarring to try and understand how her position on this might change when we consider allowing a rapist into a women's prison, rather than her beloved football team.

Athenajm80 · 10/08/2022 00:47

I wonder if Sandy Toksvig and Val would date a TW with a lady penis? Cause if TWAW, then surely both of them would be willing to if they were single? 🤔

SkiingIsHeaven · 10/08/2022 00:00

Looks like I will need to stop reading her book. We can cancel in the other direction too.

SkiingIsHeaven · 09/08/2022 23:58

Humbolt · 09/08/2022 12:24

Val, you can have your big tent full of Kim's and Caitlin Js as long as we can have our women-only tent. I'll bring my beers.

You are not even allowed an awning off the tent.

SettingsO · 09/08/2022 23:48

*I'm reading it as 'Kim Kardashian is a bloke'.

Amirite*

🤣

RhannionKPSS · 09/08/2022 23:16

TheBiologyStupid · 09/08/2022 19:54

So, McDermid is against rapists in men's football teams but OK with them in women's prisons? Where is she on men in women's football?

She is a hypocrite, big pal of Sturgeon, only concerned with feathering her own nest and completely out of touch with the majority of both straight & lesbian women in Scotland.

ZuttZeVootEeeVo · 09/08/2022 22:35

If she sees womanhood as gender, and kk, herself and her nice TWAW friends part of it, it still doesn't explain what links everyone. It doesn't explain gender.

It's not sex or presentation, it can only be 'everyone who wants to be in the tent', with no limits. The only difference between womanhood and presumably manhood is wanting to be part of it.

So it's basically all just tents with random people in them. And womanhood losing any meaning.

ParvuliThankYouDebbie · 09/08/2022 21:36

achillestoes · 09/08/2022 15:57

‘Does she mean Womanhood is a club that isn’t exclusively adult human females (ie could include drag artists, effeminate men etc)’

I think it’s this. She perceives women who know what women are as mean-spirited gatekeepers. All we have to do - such a tiny, insignificant thing! - is move over and ‘expand’ our definition to fit anyone who wants it, and who wouldn’t do that? Bigots, that’s who.

Oh I see, well in that case, maybe she is just thick instead of disingenuous then. Because if she was TWAW I’d have to conclude she was disingenuous because nobody, and I mean NOBODY, not a single person alive, actually, genuinely, believes adult human males are adult human females, exactly the same, no difference. Sure, lots of people have reasons to pretend they do, not sure what hers might be, but, if as you say it’s more a kindness to let them into the ‘tent’, then she’s just bog standard stupid if she doesn’t understand, or want to understand, why that just doesn’t work for women, the cunty kind that is.

PermanentTemporary · 09/08/2022 20:35

Womanhood is gender to me. A gender tent i guess.

It just seems that she no longer thinks sex has the slightest relevance to her life. But she must still know what it is. Knowing what it is is not a crime.

picklemewalnuts · 09/08/2022 20:29

If anyone can be in it, what's the point of the tent?

doilookremotelyinterested · 09/08/2022 20:24

@achillestoes And wearing dresses (well robes, close enough) so they're obviously women.

achillestoes · 09/08/2022 20:23

@doilookremotelyinterested

But she says they’re nice people, so I suppose we’ll have to take that.

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doilookremotelyinterested · 09/08/2022 20:23

That would be more appropriate...

ZuttZeVootEeeVo · 09/08/2022 20:18

Oh, I was picturing a circus tent.

doilookremotelyinterested · 09/08/2022 20:11

What happens if you don't like camping and prefer an en-suite with hot shower and flushing toilet? Do you have to share a room with anyone Val thinks suitable?

SudocremOnEverything · 09/08/2022 19:55

Is anyone going to need to get undressed in the big tent?

TheBiologyStupid · 09/08/2022 19:54

So, McDermid is against rapists in men's football teams but OK with them in women's prisons? Where is she on men in women's football?

dandelionthistle · 09/08/2022 19:53

I'm somewhat disappointed (although not newly so - pretty sure VM has been clear on this position for a while), but I do think:

  • it takes extraordinary gumption to not parrot "TWAW" in some industries at the moment, to the extent that even silence doesn't protect women, and
  • VM's position is one I see taken by many middle-aged, intelligent, socially engaged lesbians of my acquaintance. PP made an excellent point about some shared experiences of being made to feel unwelcome in lesbian space, and there's also the factor of wanting to be supportive of trans friends - who don't always fall as easily into "old school transsexuals" vs "self ID".

I don't agree with her, but I can't dismiss it as simply having not thought about the issues.

doilookremotelyinterested · 09/08/2022 19:45

achillestoes · 09/08/2022 12:04

‘I do wonder at her use of KK as an example, suggesting she and her are so wildly different as to allow men to be brought into the same group.’

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I read this at first as being KKK - the Klu Klux Klan - and then realised that actually Val would probably include them as well if it meant more sales.

achillestoes · 09/08/2022 19:43

Yes, it begins with “how does it even affect you?” and when we demonstrate how it affects us, it’s “STFU, you fucking Karen”.

But women are people too. We don’t have to give up our rights so other people can have their (legitimate) rights.

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