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I am embracing virtue signalling pronouns in emails

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MsFogi · 21/07/2022 18:25

I have realised I have made too many assumptions about gender over the years. I had always assumed that Paul (name changed of course) in my company was a man simply on the basis of his appearance (well over 6 foot, well built, big beard, low voice that only someone with an Adam's apple and whose balls have dropped could have). Imagine my relief to find that I have not been misgendering him for over a decade because he has helpfully added his pronouns to his email auto signature - they are he/him/his. There is no company diktat to add pronouns on emails so clearly this is important to Paul or maybe he has been misgendered recently.

So, I thought I would ensure that Paul was not offended on a Teams meeting this afternoon and kicked off the meeting by asking everyone to note that Paul's pronouns are he/him/his and that given that he has stated these that everyone please be sensitive to ensuring that they use them. No one said anything so I think they all took it on board, no one misgendered Paul and I like to think that his move to include his pronouns at work has been embraced in my meeting. Maybe as a result others that attended the meeting will add theirs to their auto signatures too.

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MsFogi · 21/07/2022 18:42

FOJN · 21/07/2022 18:39

Is it dignified for a 50yo woman to smirk and snort like a teenager?

Not in my meetings - going forward I am going to expect everyone to sit in dignified silence (possibly nodding if they like) while I solemnly run through any new pronouns that I have picked up from email auto-signatures at the beginning of every single meeting.

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HinchcliffeandMurgatroyd · 21/07/2022 18:41

😁

FOJN · 21/07/2022 18:39

Is it dignified for a 50yo woman to smirk and snort like a teenager?

Metabigot · 21/07/2022 18:34

Outwoke the woke!
Tis the only way sometimes.

moofolk · 21/07/2022 18:33

Excellent. I'm sure Paul feels really well supported, keep up the good work!

ClappyFats · 21/07/2022 18:32

Haha! Well played! 😃

lovelyweathertoday · 21/07/2022 18:31

Lol. I also work with a 6ft+ Paul, he is also he/him. The appropriateness of a middle-aged man feeling he needs to remind people of this on every email actually makes me smile every time I see him.

Mrsjayy · 21/07/2022 18:28

Oh dearie me 😂

Oblomov22 · 21/07/2022 18:26

Tee hee Grin

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