Great summary, Misstache, thank you.
Shocking. This is what happens when you enable this madness.
women must be saintly after months of vexatious complaints, constant demands on time, having to cover TW shifts as never at work, it’s covid.
And this is a recurrent thread we see over and over. Bio male trans people in this kind of situation, going off this and other things I’ve heard, can do pretty much whatever they like and everyone goes out of their way to accommodate them. Talk about bending over backwards.
But women, the women who are the ones putting up with this dreadful, unprofessional behaviour, picking up the slack, going above and beyond to try to make things work for the trans individual, and having inroads made into their free time as well - they are supposed to just keep on giving and giving and giving. Putting up with whatever. And with a smile and a cheery demeanour to boot.
And if they act like actual human beings, instead of service humans, once in a while - the horror, the endless apologies necessitated, the dreadfulness of being a woman who dared to show that she was fed up of this circus.
It’s so crap. All these women trying so hard to appease this one individual whose total contribution was to make everybody else’s life harder from the sound of it.
How do we get to women like this and tell them they DON’T always have to “be kind”, at their own expense? Imagine if there were feminists going into these workplaces and doing consciousness raising for women instead of Stonewall etc type “diversity” training. Imagine that.