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Need some help being a judge

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Athenajm80 · 12/07/2022 22:26

I volunteered to judge nominations for an award at work (Civil Service department, we have been Stonewalled but it's not really obvious thankfully)

We have to write our thoughts on each nomination but then will meet and discuss them to decide who wins.

One nomination is for a non binary person, lots of use of "they". The work side of the nomination is ok, but then a good section of the form goes on about how x has done their normal job whilst still representing and standing for LGBT++ colleagues, including getting the entire department to now state their pronouns on their emails.

I COULD just focus on the work part and base my opinion on that, but I want to be prepared for the pronoun part to come up in the discussion and to be able to explain coherently why that has caused me to mark the person lower.

I was thinking of putting something about this putting pressure on GC colleagues, trans/non binary people who aren't "out" yet, but didn't know what else I could say that makes it sound like a well thought out point, rather than an attack (literal violence!) on the candidate. I'm not too bothered if they disagree or if it counts against me at work, partly cause I'm only on a secondment, but I want to make people think.

Do you think I could say something about it being discriminatory against those with gender critical beliefs which are protected in law and refer to the Forstater case? It may be unreasonable of me, but I don't want this person to win based on "how brave and strong" they are, when actually it's not IMO brave and strong to follow the Stonewall yoonique shit.

Sorry for the long post!

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Tallisker · 12/07/2022 23:40

I think it would be relevant to note their contribution to the LGBT community and use it as a bridge to ask about the other 7 protected characteristics and who is championing them. If activism is applauded, how are the other candidates standing up for the other characteristics? Be scrupulously fair.

CharlotteOH · 12/07/2022 23:40

Depends on if the award is for a specific piece of work or more generally on behaviour in the workplace.

I’d critique their work, then say something like… “I’m also mindful of what could be termed their political activity in the workplace. The civil service is of course required to be politically neutral. It is no secret that there is a highly emotional political debate currently raging between trans activists on the one hand, and those with more gender critical beliefs on the other. Both groups have their beliefs protected as a matter of equality law, particularly in the workplace. It’s my understanding that Candidate X has lobbied colleagues in the workplace to support their political position and that creates an inhospitable environment for employees with gender critical beliefs, which has legal implications. For example, pressuring colleagues to state pronouns in email signatures is a well known way of stating support for a certain political ideology. I question whether this is anymore appropriate than asking colleagues to add “vote Brexit” would have been a few years ago. There is a tension with our obligations of political neutrality. I’m cautious about this. I think that in the workplace Candidate X could benefit from reflecting on the extent to which their activities at work could be perceived as failing to be politically neutral. Some might even be said to cause concern regarding the civil service’s legal obligation not to discriminate against employees with gender critical beliefs. And, as I said, there are the issues with X’s work. I prefer Candidate Y because…”

IcakethereforeIam · 12/07/2022 23:40

They've maybe misunderstood the protected characteristics of the EA, or perhaps that's irrelevant. Something to explore?

Athenajm80 · 12/07/2022 23:36

Thank you for all your responses, you're right, I should probably ignore it or take @Motorina 's advice in the first paragraph. The award is nothing to do with activism, diversity, inclusion which now, thinking more about it, is probably why it annoyed me so much. It's the fact that it was shoe-horned in when irrelevant but that's not necessarily the candidate's fault.

They do also look irritatingly smug and like the TRA protestors captured on video. No blue hair though 😂 Obviously this bit is just me being... judgemental and is definitely irrelevant.

Once again, thank you. You have made me think twice and take a more rational and sensible approach.

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Xiaoxiong · 12/07/2022 23:07

If the award is to do with work, focus on their work - the activism is irrelevant. It sounds like their work might be a bit light because of all the time spent on activism anyway.

If the award is to do with inclusion in the workplace, then you can consider whether their activism in this area is better/more impactful than the other candidates.

I'm as GC as they come but I don't think this is a good venue to pipe up about your own beliefs, especially if this is about their work.

titchy · 12/07/2022 23:02

Getting colleagues to add their pronouns is hardly a significant contribution to diversity is it? Installing ramps, supporting someone ND, changing an adoption leave policy, representing someone being sacked because their manager wasn't comfortable with their sexuality - those have required real effort, have had tangible benefits and are worthy of praise.

HJ40 · 12/07/2022 22:54

Please ensure you are fair and treat every entry on its merits. Don't seek to make an example of this person or their actions.

If the main premise is that they've been brave, I think it's fair to say it's important to consider repercussions (intended or otherwise) and be sure you do this with all nominations.

Apply the same criteria to all and the outcome will be fair.

Motorina · 12/07/2022 22:54

I think it depends a great deal on what the award is. Is the T+++ stuff relevant? If not, then I think it's legitimate to comment that the evidence they have submitted is outwith the relevant criteria, and that raised concerns about their focus, both on the award itself, but also that their activism is diverting attention from their core job role.

If it is relevant then I think you have to critique the execution rather than their beliefs. Yes, GC beliefs are protected but, equally, so are theirs. So you might want to look at, for example, if everyone having pronouns in signatures increased team cohesion or if some people felt isolated, and whether they were able to listen to and involve people with different views.

Of course, this only holds true if their LGBT++ activism has actually posed a problem in the workplace. If they've increased openess and inclusion, and supported people who needed it, it might actually be a positive even though you disagree with them. And, really, whether or not you agree with their beliefs should not be a factor in deciding on an award. What should matter is the impact of those beliefs in the work environment.

Fiveorsix · 12/07/2022 22:45

Do you know how this person "got" their department to state pronouns? I think that would be relevant.
How have they represented and stood for LGBT colleagues? Were they elected? Or did they just say what they want to happen, without having been asked to do so by colleagues?

LaughingPriest · 12/07/2022 22:44

Oh Christ, don't mark them lower because of that! There is no way anyone would come out of that well!?!?