Macy Gray has capitulated

I am completely out, so to speak, and very vocal.

I am on twitter under my own name and photo.

I work in a skool and happily say I think it's all nonsense in the staff room, because most people agree with me.

Not in the classroom - it's not my job to preach to the kids but to listen and you know what? Most kids don't believe it either, although they are respectful enough to their friends that do.

But macy's actions are very similar to a pal of mine. She was very supportive of my views and we used to talk about them a lot, then she suddenly said she'd changed her mind and didn't want to talk about it any more and lo! One of her daughters friends was trans, and her daughter (16yo) had spoken to her.....

..... But, a year later, she is back tentatively whispering that it's all a phase the kids are going through and it will all be over soon. So.....

Macy Gray has shown why "GC women " are afraid to talk. Bad news for TRAs is We Are EVERYWHERE. And we vote too. Now women are waking up to the grift, they will hold to account any politician who is seduced by it. Because if you can lie about that, you can lie about anything. If you can be fooled about something so obvious as sex vs gender, you can be fooled by anything. And we won't vote for you.

In your experience? If we don't tell anyone our views, how do you know?

Also FYI Macy Gray isn't her real name

I save my ire for women who could speak out - like Caitlin Moran or Bridget Christie - who've made their career by purporting to be feminists but who choose to keep schtum

Absolutely!!! And Deborah Frances White!!! Omg did anyone the patronising pile of shite she put out to GC fems the other week?!?! 🙈🙄

I don't think she's a coward. I think she's been bullied. I hope she has good people around her who are holding her hand while she endures it.

Bette middler too 🙄

I wouldn’t blame her at all, it’s atrocious bullying. It’s perfectly understood that people can go on stress leave and have nervous breakdowns from
being bullied at work and that doesn’t make them cowards. I am in absolute awe of the strong women speaking out and the service they do for women, they are heroes. Macy couldn’t stand up to the bullies and we should send her love, not put the boot in. What she thinks won’t have changed, and I hope she has good friends.

Of course I wish she had kept telling her (& nature's!) truth but I don't blame her I blame the bullies.

just like I wish every woman in an abusive relationship could leave first time I don't blame them for taking -on average- 7 tries

I hope she has good support

@Johnnysgirl Unless you've made your GC views public to a wide audience, you have no right to call her cowardly. Perhaps you need a reminder of how bad it gets

Documentation of threats against GC

It is cowardly …but it’s also perfectly understandable. We all hope that when the spotlight is on us we’ll rise to the occasion. But when it’s your career in the line, and you have a family to support and you’re facing social ostracism, it’s bloody hard. Most will fall.

The video of her on the today show was very, very difficult viewing. it looked like she was being publicly humiliated in a Red Guard Struggle Session. I don’t know how you could watch it and not have empathy for the position she was in.

She might come back - remember JK Rowlings ‘middle age moment’ back in the beginning of her her support.

and yes; Twitter ain't the real world. Not even close. Thank Fuck.

my 20 yr old daughter went to a Pride march at the weekend. She came home and asked why the trans groups were so loud, angry and aggressive. She was totally alienated. Shocked at people walking around with barely healed mastectomy scars (her Aunt has just had one for breast cancer). They shout, scream, bully and harass. Pretty much 100% of people I know are GC but only about 10% are open about it. That number is increasing
all time though.

God this is so awfully sad.

I don't believe it's cowardly. Artists such as MG come along with a massive team, all of whom fall broke the moment she gets dropped. Those inferring the lack of contract clauses should know that when a major record company views you out if favour, you get unceremoniously dropped.

I'd question far more heavily the spineless PR and management teams who have manipulated this in order to conserve future business deals and their own destiny.

I actually pity Macy Gray in these circumstances. We can compare the unique position of JKR who in stark contrast can voice her opinions freely -not all artists are as fortunate.

Really tough viewing 😢

I should elaborate.
Out in the real world, women understand, women know the truth, and women see what is happening.
Out in the real world real women are speaking to each other and in the real world women are not afraid to speak out.
Tinternet is not the real world. You need to get out more and listen to what women are actually saying to each other.

@GirlDownUnder22
You need to get out more.

100% this. The GC crowd want other people to do they heavy lifting for them then take credit for "supporting" them. It's weak, and cowardly.

Macy has bipolar disorder. She didn't seem quite alright in herself during the Piers Morgan interview, I actually felt uncomfortable watching it. I think she's vulnerable at the moment and had little clue about backlash she would receive.

Are you out and proud in your GC views in your work place, family, friends, all social media? If the answer is no, do you consider yourself to be a coward?