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Is CIS a legal term?

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purpleboy · 11/07/2022 12:01

So I had a conversation with a friend the other day who is adamant Cis is an accurate descriptor of women and that it is written into law?
I asked where but she couldn't specify just stating it's a factual term (referencing women) that is legally recognized.
I've had a look and can't seem to find anything to back this up, but I know the wise women here will know if there is any truth to this.
Thanks in advance.

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ZuttZeVootEeeVo · 13/07/2022 12:39

But surely using cis is transphobic as it reiterates to a transperson that they will never be the sex they wish to be.

It's a strange balancing act they've put themselves in. They want to enforce 'cis' on women to remove the link between biology and 'woman', to marginalise women in their own sex class, and as a way to force women to show compliance. When women describe themselves as 'cis', they are not only signaling TWAW, but reminding everyone that we cannot link biological reality to what it is to be a woman and 'other'women have it worse. Anything that we talk about that only effects 'cis' women suddenly isn't as important as the issues facing 'other' women. It can be used as way to 'edcuate', too.

The problem for them is if it's used too much and is understood too widely, it comes the default. And as people remember that sex exists and is important, it will be used to exclude 'other' women. I don't think we are too far away from a word that links 'cis' women, transmen and female non binary 'folk', that excludes all males, simply because it will be needed, and the alternative phrasing doesn't roll off the tongue.

Helleofabore · 13/07/2022 08:43

But surely using cis is transphobic as it reiterates to a transperson that they will never be the sex they wish to be.

It is like the dehumanising use of referring to body parts. How does it help to be called at vagina owner if your vagina causes significant distress? There is large % of transitioned males who are horrified to be referred to as penis havers because they don’t want to have to acknowledge they still have a penis. And we know from detransitioner male stories how the stump of the penis remains and can be active still so even males with their penises removed are constantly reminded they had one.

Whatsnewpussyhat · 13/07/2022 08:14

But surely using cis is transphobic as it reiterates to a transperson that they will never be the sex they wish to be. It just reinforces the fact that for example a transwoman can never be a woman as otherwise they would be a ‘cis’ woman. So does the same thing as woman and transwoman just with extra steps and more offence to women

Come on now, you know logic is forbidden in gender ideology.

From the rules of misogyny....

Men are whatever men say they are and women are whatever men say they are.

Conflictedunicorn · 13/07/2022 06:52

But surely using cis is transphobic as it reiterates to a transperson that they will never be the sex they wish to be. It just reinforces the fact that for example a transwoman can never be a woman as otherwise they would be a ‘cis’ woman. So does the same thing as woman and transwoman just with extra steps and more offence to women.

also how come transwomen are women but women are ciswomen? Are transwomen the only true women now?

p s what exactly is a woman? @beautyisthefaceisee

Helleofabore · 13/07/2022 04:18

TheBiologyStupid · 12/07/2022 22:03

Has the meaning of ‘coercion’ been destabilised as well?

Well, hopefully not but it's currently hanging on Allison Bailey's tribunal result. That said, EJ Goodman is a sensible woman and I suspect that the meaning of "coercion" will be properly understood by her and the panel.

I am suspicious of any person who dismisses the destabilisation of science and language with the passion of some TRAs and their allies.

To some people, it is simply the destabilisation of a word here and there. But we only have to look at who has been attributed as ‘pioneering’ the theory underlying this movement to destabilise science and language. Who sought to detract established definitions for their own purposes.

It is always important to follow the theory and the movement.

turbonerd · 12/07/2022 23:13

«Difficult to do when their offensive views are factual though. hence the "humans cant change sex" which should be the feminist boards' motto.»

when offensive views are factual.
factual. And offensive.

so, that «cis» is NOT a legal term relating to describing a subset of women (who also must subscribe to the belief of gender identity, which is wholly based on European historical norms and gender stereotypes (historical as in some undefined part of the past, not sure exactly when or where but roughly the 1700-1900’s) and must then identify their own gender whether they have one or not AND must see if it matches their sex which they were born with)
is a fact. And can also be offensive.

what about those without language? Who can never articulate their «gender identity»? Who rely on others to care for them and advocate for them. Is their existence being eradicated by not being able to say who they are?

this is a real question by the way.
I know I’m too late for the thread, it has fizzled out. But I do Wonder this.

TheBiologyStupid · 12/07/2022 22:03

Has the meaning of ‘coercion’ been destabilised as well?

Well, hopefully not but it's currently hanging on Allison Bailey's tribunal result. That said, EJ Goodman is a sensible woman and I suspect that the meaning of "coercion" will be properly understood by her and the panel.

tobee · 12/07/2022 21:36

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/07/2022 20:48

Anyway

I think we've established that "cis", an ideological in group term, is not a "legal term".

The rest is distraction

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/07/2022 20:48

Anyway

I think we've established that "cis", an ideological in group term, is not a "legal term".

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/07/2022 20:45

lovelyweathertoday · 12/07/2022 20:04

By all the PP on here claiming cisgender is offensive? Yes, that fits

I find cisgender an offensive descriptor because:

  1. It's usually inaccurate. Surely practically no-one's self identify matches the gendered expectations of society.
  1. It's involuntary. It's used to describe anyone "non-trans", whether they use it themselves or not.
  1. It forces anyone who is not trans to define themselves in terms of gender ideology, whether the believe this religion or not.
  1. It's completely unnecessary. I am a woman without a gender identity.

You can keep using language that I find offensive if you like, it's irrelevant to me, my self-esteem is not based on your religious beliefs, you may as well call me a heretic.

This.

DialSquare · 12/07/2022 20:44

Would it be spiteful to say that the earth isn't flat to a flat earther?

Helleofabore · 12/07/2022 20:41

winederlust

Then I don't understand why he offended by people stating the fact the he himself acknowledges is a fact?

Yes. Either there is some great hypocrisy at play, or we are being emotionally manipulated to use language to dishonestly convey support someone’s belief that is not something they actually even believe. We are being told again that trans people don’t actually believe they can change sex, but to change our language as if they do believe that.

But ‘there is no coercion here, move along, nothing to see’, it seems.

beautyisthefaceisee · 12/07/2022 20:38

I'm out.

beautyisthefaceisee · 12/07/2022 20:38

DialSquare · 12/07/2022 20:10

By all the PP on here claiming cisgender is offensive? Yes, that fits

Was I one of them? No I wasn't. I personally don't find it offensive. It's a nonsense term and is totally unnecessary. Women are not a subset of their own sex. You on the other hand are offended that people won't lie about your friend.

No, I'm upset that people are downright spiteful.

Helleofabore · 12/07/2022 20:31

ErrolTheDragon · 12/07/2022 20:20

on a thread about people being offended by a word.

If that's what anyone thinks this thread is actually about they're not really paying attention to other posters.

Yes Errol. I think it is a very simplistic view of what this thread is about.

ErrolTheDragon · 12/07/2022 20:20

on a thread about people being offended by a word.

If that's what anyone thinks this thread is actually about they're not really paying attention to other posters.

tobee · 12/07/2022 20:16

It's always fun to see posters stomping off with "I'm out!" And then returning. And "I'm not engaging with you anymore " and then coming back immediately engage again

Winederlust · 12/07/2022 20:13

Madhairday · 11/07/2022 23:14

The Christian equivalence is interesting. I'm a Christian and have been around MN for years, on many threads where I've been mocked and derided about my imaginary skyfairy friend etc etc, told I must be of low intelligence. My very identity has been under attack, because my identity is wrapped up with my faith.

Now I have also had great interactions with people who don't believe - respectful, even funny (I remember @ErrolTheDragon from this thread for some of these.) I've been gently challenged and asked to provide evidence for any claims I wish to make. All fair enough.

Now I could easily say that these interactions - both unthoughtful attacks and thoughtful, educated challenges - are attacks on my identity and they erode it. I could then say that everyone should just stop making any negative comments at all about my faith - but more than that, they should start to make my faith claims for themselves. They should recite the Nicene Creed and mean every word, because if they don't do that it's mean to me and erodes my identity.

I could ask for those things. I could try to make sure that if people do not do these things they are torn down as heretics - and this happened in the past, to every thoughtful Christian's dismay, just as we are dismayed at some of the stuff happening in the US under the Christian right (ugh).

So I see the equivalence, because here we are seeing the formation of a new religion, a new forced creed, a new witch-hunt, and feminists are the big nasty witches who do not comply.

I do not want anyone to forcibly believe my faith. It goes against everything I believe. I do not want anyone to have to partake in anything to do with my faith if they do not want to (and yes, I've observed all the issues with faith schools, HOL etc.) I believe in free speech and freedom of choice for belief, and what we have here is a system that forces people to bend the knee to a belief system they don't believe in. For me, then , cis is not just a word, but the tip of an iceberg.

And I will not comply.

I am sorry your friend feels sad when he hears those words. I feel sad when people mock my faith too. But I can take it because other people's opinions do not shake that faith.

Excellent post Madhairday.

People with religious faith generally do not think that atheists claiming that God doesn't exist is eradicating their identity as their identity is based on their own faith and not on the validation of others.

If anyone thinks he's dim enough to believe he literally can change sex - well, thats on them.

Then I don't understand why he offended by people stating the fact the he himself acknowledges is a fact?

DialSquare · 12/07/2022 20:10

By all the PP on here claiming cisgender is offensive? Yes, that fits

Was I one of them? No I wasn't. I personally don't find it offensive. It's a nonsense term and is totally unnecessary. Women are not a subset of their own sex. You on the other hand are offended that people won't lie about your friend.

beautyisthefaceisee · 12/07/2022 20:06

lovelyweathertoday · 12/07/2022 20:04

By all the PP on here claiming cisgender is offensive? Yes, that fits

I find cisgender an offensive descriptor because:

  1. It's usually inaccurate. Surely practically no-one's self identify matches the gendered expectations of society.
  1. It's involuntary. It's used to describe anyone "non-trans", whether they use it themselves or not.
  1. It forces anyone who is not trans to define themselves in terms of gender ideology, whether the believe this religion or not.
  1. It's completely unnecessary. I am a woman without a gender identity.

You can keep using language that I find offensive if you like, it's irrelevant to me, my self-esteem is not based on your religious beliefs, you may as well call me a heretic.

I didnt actually mean it literally.

I was referring to the PP who used a quote about "If you are fucking offended, so what" to refer to me being genuinely upset by a personal comment towards someone i love, on a thread about people being offended by a word.

lovelyweathertoday · 12/07/2022 20:04

By all the PP on here claiming cisgender is offensive? Yes, that fits

I find cisgender an offensive descriptor because:

  1. It's usually inaccurate. Surely practically no-one's self identify matches the gendered expectations of society.
  1. It's involuntary. It's used to describe anyone "non-trans", whether they use it themselves or not.
  1. It forces anyone who is not trans to define themselves in terms of gender ideology, whether the believe this religion or not.
  1. It's completely unnecessary. I am a woman without a gender identity.

You can keep using language that I find offensive if you like, it's irrelevant to me, my self-esteem is not based on your religious beliefs, you may as well call me a heretic.

beautyisthefaceisee · 12/07/2022 19:38

Helleofabore · 12/07/2022 19:27

You were appreciating the post that a page ago I said was really hurtful and offensive to me due to its personal nature.

Sticking the boot in, for want of a better word. Like I said, my engagement with Artichoke was over when she wrote it and its over with you for promoting it and cheering it on.

Again, I started at page 12 and that is the very first post I read. I then immediately posted my agreement with it.

It may pain you to hear, but I agree with the substance of artichoke’s words, even if it offends you.

Sadly, you don’t have any control on a public forum about who posts, when and how they post.

Great. You carry on agreeing, and I'll carry on ceasing to engage with both of you. I think that's a fair deal.

beautyisthefaceisee · 12/07/2022 19:38

DialSquare · 12/07/2022 19:37

I'm reminded of this quote.

By all the PP on here claiming cisgender is offensive? Yes, that fits

beautyisthefaceisee · 12/07/2022 19:38

lovelyweathertoday · 12/07/2022 19:27

I don't believe for a second yo udidnt read the interaction about it offending me yesterday.

You seem to think that having uttered the magic words "I am very offended" that the conversation has ended, as no-one would be so crass as to have views that offend you.

Maybe explain what you object to, or try to understand what point the other person was trying to make. It's an important life skill.

I didnt say the conversation should end. but reposting and agreeing with a post which was quite offensive to me personally is something I'm not goign to engage with. And if Artichoke or PPdont understand why it was offensive, theyre not people I'm remotely interested in speaking to.

DialSquare · 12/07/2022 19:37

I'm reminded of this quote.

Is CIS a legal term?
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