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Sex Education Curriculum for the Department for Education

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LookingandThinking · 11/07/2022 07:23

Sex Education Curriculum for Department for Education

Here is a curriculum, concise, easy to understand and teach, and cost effective.

Biology: Teach boys and girls to use condoms to prevent pregnancy and STDs.

Consent: Only consent to sex when you are really keen to do so. Talking with your partner helps you both decide what you want to do. Teach boys they are not entitled to another person's body. No means no. Teach girls assertiveness and to leave an uncomfortable or dangerous situation.

Homosexuality: It is fine if you are attracted to people of the same sex. There is civil partnership for homosexual adults.

Of course, there is more detail that can be added. It could be completed in 2 classes or more for a discussion, repetitive learning, such as always use a condom and how to maintain personal safety. The three main points are sufficient to what a government should advise, in safeguarding young people, physically and mentally.

Adolescents don't need a prescription of how to do sex. Sex is an experience of discovery between consenting people. It is important that the teachers or facilitators don't impose their opinions, as that could be grooming. We have overcorrected since the days of not talking about sex at all. There could be an emotional wellbeing element as well, but fundamentally, condoms and consent are the main points.

It is uncomfortable discussing sex and people have a lot of feelings around it. I don't believe it is for the government to manage peoples personal sex lives, once safeguarding is observed.

Do you think there are any other essential points that young people should know?

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Fenlandia · 11/07/2022 09:56

MrsOvertonsWindow · 11/07/2022 09:14

Trying to remember what I said to warrant a deletion? Maybe challenging the nature of some adults involved in wanting to talk to other people's children about sex and their personal experiences?

What I did like was this:
Adolescents don't need a prescription of how to do sex. Sex is an experience of discovery between consenting people. It is important that the teachers or facilitators don't impose their opinions, as that could be grooming. We have overcorrected since the days of not talking about sex at all.

Beautifully put about overcorrection. I was a shy, self-conscious child and teenager, and would have been mortified to have to sit through some of the more extreme training I've seen discussed on this board.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 11/07/2022 09:14

Trying to remember what I said to warrant a deletion? Maybe challenging the nature of some adults involved in wanting to talk to other people's children about sex and their personal experiences?

What I did like was this:
Adolescents don't need a prescription of how to do sex. Sex is an experience of discovery between consenting people. It is important that the teachers or facilitators don't impose their opinions, as that could be grooming. We have overcorrected since the days of not talking about sex at all.

Musomama1 · 11/07/2022 09:02

Like it PP, a framework for mutual respect and boundaries and safety that you can apply to all situations.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 11/07/2022 08:35

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achillestoes · 11/07/2022 07:46

Yes, they need to hear more about the sorts of things people ‘expect’ from their sexual partners that are not actually normal or to be ‘expected by anyone: anything violent, painful, degrading, public.

They need to understand about the risks of technology - sexting, pornography, ‘buses’, and especially the narrative about kids having ‘nudes’ to send needs to be challenged.

They need to know about different forms of contraception and sexual health services.

They need to know people can be bisexual.

They need an overview of transition and gender non-conformity.

They need to know which laws protect their rights, and the rights of others.

Iknowitisheresomewhere · 11/07/2022 07:32

Well, currently there is a requirement to teach about abortion in a non-judgemental way (I paraphrase). I would leave that bit in.

Also online and mobile phone sexual situations (sexting etc) and how to navigate that.

Empowermenomore · 11/07/2022 07:30

There are a few other threads on this and a link to a parliamentary petition to revise content and remove gender ideology you might have seen.

just so threads are not duplicated 🙂

Spottybotty20 · 11/07/2022 07:29

The law and dangers of sexting / making and distributing indecent images of children. Massive problem in our schools.