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CoE says ‘no official definition of a woman’

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achillestoes · 10/07/2022 19:47

Tonight The Telegraph reports this as the official stance of the Church of England.

Comments from Dr Robert Innes, the Bishop in Europe:

There is no official definition, which reflects the fact that until fairly recently definitions of this kind were thought to be self-evident, as reflected in the marriage liturgy. The LLF project however has begun to explore the marriage complexities associated with gender identity and points to the need for additional care and thought to be given in understanding our commonalities and differences as people made in the image of God.

If anyone knows what that means...

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Fenlandia · 11/07/2022 10:19

Great post shedwithivy

"The church needs to stand for something or it will fall for everything." - this is exactly how I feel about political parties, charities and the rest of civil society that are pushing genderwoo at us.

AngelicaElizaAndPeggy · 11/07/2022 09:34

My point being, will they then admit that a woman can be a man?

AngelicaElizaAndPeggy · 11/07/2022 09:32

I'll wait for the moment they explain about the expulsion from Eden, the Virgin birth, Amnon's rape of Tamar in the book of Samuel and the bit in Deuteromony where he says its an 'abomination' for a woman to wear man's clothes. Or this nice bit:

1st Corinthians (14:34-5) “Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak: but to be under obedience, as also saith the law.

shedwithivy · 11/07/2022 09:16

Musomama1 · 10/07/2022 21:54

This pisses me off on so many levels.

The decades fought for female priesthood, literally in a matter of a few years the church bows down to gender ideology and says men can be women, diluting the idea of a woman down to a feeling.

They also say vicars can marry same-sex couples if one identifies as the opposite sex, but the vicar can say no if they are not comfortable. They are allowing same-sex marriages and that's definitely a hard no in Christianity.

Very religious gay couples that follow the Bible abstain from sexual relationships because Christianity is notably very clear on this, famously the vicar who was in The Communards did this. But if one person from such couples had identified as a woman then actually they could have relations?

Also, a belief in God means that you can't have the belief of being born in the wrong body. God doesn't make mistakes in creation.

It is completely against the religion, I'm not a Christian but some of my family are really into it and this truly is shit. I know our local vicar, I might have a word to get their opinion.

Great post, articulates what I was thinking exactly.

Particularly the hypocrisy when comparing the ease of waving through gender identity to all the hand wringing over Gay marriage.

I am a Christian (no longer C of E, I also object to their downscaling of parishes and community ministers in favour of more bishops and managers at church house, spending the tithes of faithful old ladies on self-serving projects and drinks receptions)

To me, living in the world outside Eden and this side of heaven, we all have our own difficulties, even Paul referred to a "thorn in the flesh" which is likely to be a chronic illness which was never healed during his ministry. Gender dysphoria must be terrible to live with and worthy of all compassion from the church. But to deny basic reality and ignore the overarching pattern of male and female that God has weaved throughout creation, is adding a new man made doctrine. The church needs to stand for something or it will fall for everything.

howdoesatoastermaketoast · 11/07/2022 09:03

achillestoes · 10/07/2022 19:49

Does that mean they’ll now marry two men or two women if one of them identifies as the opposite sex?

No they still seem to be able to tell perfectly well who is a woman for the purpose of refusing to marry two women.

Disappointingbishops · 11/07/2022 09:02

I am heartbroken by this. The CofE is returning to institutional misogyny.

It's especially difficult to hear from a Bishop of Europe. Diocese of Europe churches tend to be very diverse. Most congregations have members from parts of the world where gender woo isn't a thing. Including refugees and highly vulnerable migrant women with real world problems. Unintentionally sowing confusion and division in return for woke points is unhelpful.

Innes spoke out young refugee women being tricked and trafficked from the Ukrainian border. So he definitely knows what a woman is.

Catholicism has made a biological definition of male and female. Reason to convert?

My DC's RC school has facilitated the transing of several young women. I'll stay and fight in the C of E - for now.

Musomama1 · 11/07/2022 07:41

aweegc · 11/07/2022 03:30

If Eve was made of Adam with the purpose of being able to reproduce then how can this be argued?

I've listened to some ridiculous religious arguments in my time but they all pale into insignificance against this one which doesn't even follow the religion's own doctrine.

Married Anglican women need to start identifying as male asap. Because that would make all their marriages gay marriage. Or is sex suddenly recognised then and they'd be told they're not men?

Engaged Anglican women need to identify as men and speak to their minister about the "same-sex" marriage s/he's going to conduct.

And they need to ask how the church knows that Eve was a woman and Adam was a man because actually, we've never been told that they felt like a man and a woman. And if God could get it wrong now, then how do we know that He didn't make a mistake with his prototypes?

Brilliant, could I do this?

Catholicism has made a biological definition of male and female. Reason to convert? It's like a vegetarian going vegan surely? A bit more hardcore.

Also, they know what a man is when it comes to gay marriage, which is not allowed still.

Talk about gay conversion therapy, fully endorsed by the CoE.

Please share any literature, this is all utter w#&k. Thinking about how this may trickle down to faith schools and Sunday schools / Church youth groups.

MagpiePi · 11/07/2022 07:33

Snugglepumpkin · 10/07/2022 22:08

Ships & cars are often referred to as 'she'.

That does not make ships or cars women & does not mean women are methods of transport.

You could say women are methods of transport when it comes to surrogacy.

Perhaps 'method of foetus transport' should be added to 'cervix-haver', 'womb-haver', 'menstruater', and all the other reductive terms.

MoltenLasagne · 11/07/2022 07:24

Surely the original CofE definition of women ties directly back to sex : "one who is supposed to be giving the king sons"

lovelyweathertoday · 11/07/2022 07:18

until fairly recently definitions of this kind were thought to be self-evident,

In other words, all of us know which people are women, but we can be persuaded it's complicated if it benefits men in some way.

achillestoes · 11/07/2022 07:13

‘And then someone (a pastor I think) said God hadn't made a mistake by putting him 'in the wrong body' but that God made him to be trans and that was who he always was. Now I'm not saying I agree with the theory, but it was interesting.’

Which is fine. Nobody is arguing against their right to believe this. It doesn’t make that person a man. It makes them someone who is happier identifying as a man.

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stayingpositiveifpossible · 11/07/2022 07:12

Saw this headline.

Just for fun (?) - I thought I would write the following sentence down:

'There is no official definition of a man'.

It reads completely differently doesn't it?

You can already hear the male voices shouting 'oh yes there IS'...

stayingpositiveifpossible · 11/07/2022 07:10

PronounssheRa · 10/07/2022 19:52

They certainly knew what a women was when they banned them from priesthood.

Fab comment. Yes, they did.

Whatwouldscullydo · 11/07/2022 06:55

So they don't know what a woman is whilst simultaneously refusing to marry 2 of them?

I would also , if we are meant to believe woman is a gender, love a definition of what a woman gender is.

Because there has to be one that isn't a circular definition or made up of stereotypes right?

I mean people wouldn't make themselves look ridiculous over a word that has no clear definition and can not be explained right?

StopStartStop · 11/07/2022 06:51

Fabulous. I didn't want to go to church anyway. I now won't be able to put 'CofE' in the 'religion' section of questionnaires, though.

Transwomen are men. Born men, die men. They way they 'do' womaning is a man's way.

FilePhoto · 11/07/2022 06:47

donquixotedelamancha · 10/07/2022 23:59

Does that mean they’ll now marry two men or two women if one of them identifies as the opposite sex?

Yes, yes it does.

I’m a Christian and am horrified at this and v upset actually.

Don't worry, it's just the CofE bishops again. Nothing to do with Christianity.

What do you mean by CofE Bishops being nothing to do with Christianity? Is it some kind of joke I'm missing?

Like some PPs I'm a life long (CofE) Christian. I'm sad that this is the stance they are taking. Although I knew my own Vicar believes "TWAW" because they have a young adult trans relative.

Although I did see an interesting video a while ago. A young Christian transman was saying how he couldn't reconcile his trans identity with the "God doesn't make mistakes" teaching. And then someone (a pastor I think) said God hadn't made a mistake by putting him 'in the wrong body' but that God made him to be trans and that was who he always was.
Now I'm not saying I agree with the theory, but it was interesting.

Zerogravity · 11/07/2022 06:22

@runningfromreality I feel very much like you. I was baptised as an adult into the C of E and I feel hoodwinked.

aweegc · 11/07/2022 03:30

If Eve was made of Adam with the purpose of being able to reproduce then how can this be argued?

I've listened to some ridiculous religious arguments in my time but they all pale into insignificance against this one which doesn't even follow the religion's own doctrine.

Married Anglican women need to start identifying as male asap. Because that would make all their marriages gay marriage. Or is sex suddenly recognised then and they'd be told they're not men?

Engaged Anglican women need to identify as men and speak to their minister about the "same-sex" marriage s/he's going to conduct.

And they need to ask how the church knows that Eve was a woman and Adam was a man because actually, we've never been told that they felt like a man and a woman. And if God could get it wrong now, then how do we know that He didn't make a mistake with his prototypes?

MangyInseam · 11/07/2022 03:02

As I read this it's a statement that says very little.

The first part just means that the CoE has never had an official definition of man or woman because no one ever thought it was necessary. So the marriage liturgy for example uses the words but it doesn't take any trouble to explain what they mean, it assumes everyone knows.

The second part is waffle, it's basically saying in looking into the marriage issue they are aware that this is a contentious issue so they will be sensitive. It means very little.

I don't expect any kind of serious intellectual argument out of the CoE these days though, most vicars aren't going to be against anything but bottled water, they are desperate to feel socially with it and as an institution they don't seem capable of really robust arguments any more.

LovelyFlora · 11/07/2022 01:10

I think this is classic! It took a few hundreds of years for the CofE to accept women as priests and bishops.
And it takes five minutes for CofE to fully accept men as women.

Bulldozing away everything women tried to do for women's equality. Substitute a man with "female gender" instead.

CofE? Fuck women's equality and get back in your traditional box. Madonna or whore, but not a leader, not an educator.

LordLoveADuck · 11/07/2022 00:14

Thelnebriati · 10/07/2022 22:09

Its utterly bonkers, I can't make any sense of it. They've gone from arguing about female vicars to being angst ridden about same sex couples to this, in such a short space of time. There's no consistency to it, no logical path from one point to the next.

Given that the Cof E has been haemorrhaging the faithful and therefore haemorrhaging funds, I have to wonder whether pro-trans foundations funded by billionaires like Soros have made substantial donations or promises of ongoing financial support if the Church gave a nod to transgenderism.

donquixotedelamancha · 10/07/2022 23:59

Does that mean they’ll now marry two men or two women if one of them identifies as the opposite sex?

Yes, yes it does.

I’m a Christian and am horrified at this and v upset actually.

Don't worry, it's just the CofE bishops again. Nothing to do with Christianity.

blahblahblahspoons · 10/07/2022 23:50

If it really wasn't possible to immediately tell male from female 100% of the time no matter what they're wearing or what body modifications they've made (because it's hardwired by evolution as an adaptive trait, especially for the female of the species), then the way misogynistic organisations like the church treat the different types of 'women' (XX or XY) would tell you straight away who's male.

You couldn't make it up.

blahblahblahspoons · 10/07/2022 23:48

janesmithsdog · 10/07/2022 22:26

The church has spent centuries oppressing women and now they’ve decided we don’t exist because a few men say so?

Jesus wept.

Exactly.

Where do they think new humans come from?

Conflictedunicorn · 10/07/2022 23:16

So now not only am I politically homeless, my fucking church has decided they suddenly can’t define who a woman is. So all the years they refused to let women become priests, how did they know who to refuse? They certainly had no problem knowing what a woman is then. It’s no wonder the CofE is becoming obsolete and not fit fit purpose