Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

If you're breastfeeding and live near Kidderminster, it's time for a nurse-in

31 replies

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 28/06/2022 12:06

A woman was told not to breastfeed in the car park of a supermarket there. Possibly, although it's not specified, while sitting in her own car. TwitterHi @sainsburys, can you please ensure your staff at Kidderminster branch understand the laws around breastfeeding. At 8:30pm last night a female member of staff in uniform approached a breastfeeding mother in the car park of your store 1/2and told her she was not allowed to breastfeed there because they "didn't think it was appropriate". First of all this is illegal but secondly, has really upset and knocked the confidence of a first time mother suffering with postnatal depression. Please deal with this ASAP.3 I am aware that your policy is to support and encourage staff and the public to breastfeed in your stores as is their legal right. Please make sure all of your staff are trained and versed appropriately. An official complaint will be lodged in due course, if mum feels able totwitter.com/themilkrebel/status/1541117103486410754?t=wTttUJzAV-54_uiVXTcYHA&s=19

OP posts:
TeddyTonks · 28/06/2022 12:26

It happened at 8.30 last night. It's only 12.30pm the next day, give them a chance!

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 28/06/2022 12:23

Squareflair · 28/06/2022 12:11

Sainsburys have asked for a description of the member of staff presumably so this can be addressed. Yes the staff (the whole team) need educating on this but it isn't a sainsburys policy or whatever else so not sure why there would be the need for a sit in? Seems like one of those situations someone has been delighted to have been party to (not the mum but the social media poster) in order to get some attention posting about it.

Because Sainsbury's grey rocked the mum until she got a breastfeeding advocate with a decent number of followers to tweet about it, that's why.

She should have received an apology when she first contacted Sainsbury's. She didn't. That's not down to one member of staff acting on her own initiative, that is Sainsbury's being diabolical.

HI All I am the mum this post retains to, unfortunately though phone calls have been made and posts and emails from multiple people in multiple places Sainsburys seem to not want to respond. Thank you all for your kindness @themilkrebel thank you especially 💜

OP posts:
oddoneoutalways · 28/06/2022 12:22

Oh for heavens sake. What nonsense.

Yes, the staff member needs training. It shouldn't have happened. They are wrong, obviously. The Mum just needed to say 'I'm allowed in law to do this anywhere in a public place. Go and check with your manager. Now go away please' and ignore them.

I hate all this 'nurse in' crap. It just makes mothers look like militant fools jumping on the bandwagon. The vast majority of women who breastfeed do it in public with no fanfare or fuss. It's really not a big deal.

Coming form someone who breastfed two, for a total of four years so well out of tiny babyhood, did it in public frequently anywhere and everywhere and never had so much as a tut from anyone. I'd have ignored them if I did.

Yes, I know it hurts peoples feelings and makes them feel embarrassed if they're wrongly challenged but honestly, you're a grown up. Any number of things could embarrass you, you're a parent now and I bet your child will manage to embarrass you in a myriad of ways in public over the next ten years. Buckle up and get over it! You know you're in the right on this one so no actual need for embarrassment either - the challenging person looks like an idiot, not you.

TeddyTonks · 28/06/2022 12:21

Whilst annoying, it's one ill informed member of staff, not company policy. As long as the company addresses appropriately and apologises, I don't see that a nurse in is required.

I had similar at a national trust property approx 5 years ago. Was asked to sit in the disabled loo 🙄 I complained and pointed out the illegality of the request and it was dealt with quickly. Next time I returned they had breastfeeding friendly signs everywhere and had set up an area for breastfeeding mum's to sit comfortably if required- win!

Squareflair · 28/06/2022 12:11

Sainsburys have asked for a description of the member of staff presumably so this can be addressed. Yes the staff (the whole team) need educating on this but it isn't a sainsburys policy or whatever else so not sure why there would be the need for a sit in? Seems like one of those situations someone has been delighted to have been party to (not the mum but the social media poster) in order to get some attention posting about it.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 28/06/2022 12:07

Oh ffs, the paragraphing has gone.

twitter thread

Hi sainsburys, can you please ensure your staff at Kidderminster branch understand the laws around breastfeeding. At 8:30pm last night a female member of staff in uniform approached a breastfeeding mother in the car park of your store 1/2

and told her she was not allowed to breastfeed there because they "didn't think it was appropriate". First of all this is illegal but secondly, has really upset and knocked the confidence of a first time mother suffering with postnatal depression. Please deal with this ASAP.

3 I am aware that your policy is to support and encourage staff and the public to breastfeed in your stores as is their legal right. Please make sure all of your staff are trained and versed appropriately. An official complaint will be lodged in due course, if mum feels able to

twitter

OP posts: