I did think about posting this in Relationships but there is a sex/gender angle to it, so here goes
I’ve been on MN for about 18 years but have set up a new account for this as I’m paranoid about being identified.
My long-term relationship ended about 18 months ago when I discovered that my (male) partner had been having an affair for three years.
In my life I’ve only ever had relationships with men which I think is largely due to cultural expectations and the way I was brought up. But I’ve never really found men physically attractive if I’m honest (though I have loved at least two of them). In fact I find male genitalia somewhat repellent.
So at the ripe old age of 58 I know unconditionally that I never ever want to have an intimate relationship with a man again but I am very attracted by the idea of relationships with women.
So I explored some lesbian dating sites and it’s all ‘queer’ stuff and trans women. I’ve heard of people being thrown off such sites for declaring they only want actual women dates.
So finally to my question: are there other ways of meeting women who want to date women and who know what a woman is?