I am sick of reading these stories. Literally nauseous. I mean, when it comes to the most disgusting things you can do to a person there is murder, rape, torture, enslavement... that's the sort of stuff that's on a level with what we're talking about here. The only justification is that the person consented, but there are so many massive red flags that suggest that "consent" is neither possible nor beneficial. Horrific. I hope he can find peace and maybe even happiness.