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Drag Queen Story Time

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LizzyStrata · 13/06/2022 10:33

First time posting here, so not sure of the etiquette. My apologies if this is the wrong place to raise these concerns.

Reading Borough Council is planning to hold Drag Queen Story Hour events in our libraries during the summer holidays. I’ve written to my MP, my councillors, and the Head of the Library Service to raise concerns. I think drag is entirely inappropriate for children, as it is a form of adult entertainment, highly sexualised and misogynistic, that blurs boundaries and undermines safeguarding.

The response Ive had is simply that they have received very few complaints so no reason to cancel.

Has anyone had any experience of tackling their local library over this issue? Grateful for any tips.

Also, if you live in Berkshire ,would you be willing to write and share your concerns?

thanks!

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MangyInseam · 27/07/2022 15:42

Hearach15 · 27/07/2022 15:39

"He's not, as it happens, gay."

Very true. If these drag queens weren't gay no one would have an issue. It's about homophobia and nothing else. Thank you for pointing this out.

You know that doesn't even follow if we assume your, very obviously, twisted reading was correct, right?

KittenKong · 27/07/2022 15:40

They aren’t all gay. Who told you they were?

ScrollingLeaves · 27/07/2022 15:39

Hearach15 · Today 14:25

ScrollingLeaves · Today 13:51

^GoodJanetBadJanet · Today 13:41
Heh. I think the notion that he would be considered a suitable children’s entertainer would be news to Barry humphries.
I think the point is that lots of us grew up watching him on telly as kids.^

“Barry Humpbries as Dame Edna was a middle aged Melbourne housewife in whose persona he satirised society. The satire would have been completely above the heads of the children of the age shown in DQST,. The costume was not sex fetish version of female. The programmes went out at 10 p.m I posted on this earlier having looked it up.”

However, a drag queen reading children a children's story is not entertainment above the heads of children.

Quite. It’s aimed precisely at them. To draw them in.

You missed the point that Dame Edna was never intended for children. It was political and social satire. It was aired on TV for adults at an adult hour. He was not dressed to look sexualised. If any small children staying up late had seen him, they would have switched off.

Hearach15 · 27/07/2022 15:39

MangyInseam · 27/07/2022 15:29

Neither Dame Edna nor WIndow Twinky are drag acts in the sense of gay men who perform a certain kind of act, typically in nightclubs. They don't even have the same "look." They aren't drag queens as such. Barry Humphries is an actor and writer who has many character roles, many of whom are male, and he's not, as it happens, gay.

DQ story time is about drag queens, who are homosexual, that is the whole point. That's why it's "diversity".

Talking about Dame Edna is completely disingenuous.

"He's not, as it happens, gay."

Very true. If these drag queens weren't gay no one would have an issue. It's about homophobia and nothing else. Thank you for pointing this out.

RandomlyThrownTogether · 27/07/2022 15:37

Yep.

There are only two sexes.
Sex is immutable.

Those are not 'gender critical' beliefs unless you want to class virtually everyone in the world as 'gender critical'. You are free to try and do that, but most people will not have a clue what you're talking about.

'gender critical' feminism is feminism that criticises both the imposition of limiting stereotypes (gender) on people and the idea that gender is analogous to sex.

Hearach15 · 27/07/2022 15:37

TullyApplebottom · 27/07/2022 14:33

desperate stuff, this. First of all, she wasn’t routinely on daytime Tv. Second of all, as has been pointed out, there are clear differences between humphries act and the sort of drag acts we are talking about here. Third, you are still failing to point out any respect in which this activity benefits children.

"clear differences between humphries act and the sort of drag acts we are talking about here."

So true, Dame Edna did not read children stories and these drag acts are. That is why they are suitable for kids.

MangyInseam · 27/07/2022 15:29

Neither Dame Edna nor WIndow Twinky are drag acts in the sense of gay men who perform a certain kind of act, typically in nightclubs. They don't even have the same "look." They aren't drag queens as such. Barry Humphries is an actor and writer who has many character roles, many of whom are male, and he's not, as it happens, gay.

DQ story time is about drag queens, who are homosexual, that is the whole point. That's why it's "diversity".

Talking about Dame Edna is completely disingenuous.

OldCrone · 27/07/2022 15:25

NYcupcake · 27/07/2022 14:56

Would you say they are gender critical beliefs?

Would I say what are gender critical beliefs?

There are only two sexes is a scientific fact. People can't change sex is a scientific fact.

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 27/07/2022 15:14

@NYcupcake may I draw your attention to this diagram? I would judge those protesters to be in the green/red overlap area

nothing you have quoted marks them out as having gender critical or second wave feminist views, but if you have further quotes I’m all ears

Drag Queen Story Time
NYcupcake · 27/07/2022 14:56

OldCrone · 27/07/2022 14:24

A few moments later, the protestor could be heard saying: 'You're probably teaching kids that there's 100 genders, there's only two sexes, no man can be a woman. We're here to protect children.'

Which of these statements do you think is untrue?

How many genders do you believe there are, and what are they?

How many sexes do you believe there are, and what are they?

Do you believe that men can be women?

Would you say they are gender critical beliefs?

OldCrone · 27/07/2022 14:35

MyBoiledEggIsTooSoft · 27/07/2022 14:31

Can I just clarify, are people here saying that it is ok to send their children to interact with and hear stories from someone who has a visible erection ? WTAF 🤮

I think it's that the visible erection is not real, it's a trick of the light, and we're imagining it because we have such filthy minds, pearl-clutching prudes that we are.

And even if it is real, it's OK, because some parents take their children to pantomimes.

Or something.

TullyApplebottom · 27/07/2022 14:33

Hearach15 · 27/07/2022 14:27

"They performed away from kids in theatres on a stage" - you do realise parents sometimes take their children to the theatre?

The fact that Dame Edna is so often on daytime TV is because what she says is considered suitable viewing at a time when children are watching.

desperate stuff, this. First of all, she wasn’t routinely on daytime Tv. Second of all, as has been pointed out, there are clear differences between humphries act and the sort of drag acts we are talking about here. Third, you are still failing to point out any respect in which this activity benefits children.

MyBoiledEggIsTooSoft · 27/07/2022 14:31

Can I just clarify, are people here saying that it is ok to send their children to interact with and hear stories from someone who has a visible erection ? WTAF 🤮

Hearach15 · 27/07/2022 14:27

ChristinaXYZ · 27/07/2022 13:53

Barry Humphries and 'Lily Savage' did not perform for kids in closed, close proximity spaces like library reading areas and schools. They performed away from kids in theatres on a stage and in working mens' clubs until they hit the big time with TV where toned -down sanitised versions of their acts were shown. There was no sense that they billed their acts as for children. Neither Dame Edna (whose make-up was decidedly old-lady not sex-club) nor Paul O'Grady had overtly sexualised or 'dirty joke' type names for their characters.

Kenny Everett's female character did have a name that was a bit dodgy I think and I used to find his character an comfortable watch as a kid. I never felt that with Dame Edna nor Lily Savage. Kids, like women, have good antenna for what's right and what's not. they should not have that blurred by well meaning or virtue-signally parents, teachers or Labour MPs.

If you are complaining to your library, council or school about one of these events the Safe School Alliance have an excellent, well-researched piece on the subject that you might find useful:

safeschoolsallianceuk.net/2022/01/09/drag-queen-story-hour/

"They performed away from kids in theatres on a stage" - you do realise parents sometimes take their children to the theatre?

The fact that Dame Edna is so often on daytime TV is because what she says is considered suitable viewing at a time when children are watching.

Hearach15 · 27/07/2022 14:25

ScrollingLeaves · 27/07/2022 13:51

GoodJanetBadJanet · Today 13:41
Heh. I think the notion that he would be considered a suitable children’s entertainer would be news to Barry humphries.
I think the point is that lots of us grew up watching him on telly as kids.

Barry Humpbries as Dame Edna was a middle aged Melbourne housewife in whose persona he satirised society. The satire would have been completely above the heads of the children of the age shown in DQST,. The costume was not sex fetish version of female. The programmes went out at 10 p.m I posted on this earlier having looked it up.

However, a drag queen reading children a children's story is not entertainment above the heads of children.

OldCrone · 27/07/2022 14:24

A few moments later, the protestor could be heard saying: 'You're probably teaching kids that there's 100 genders, there's only two sexes, no man can be a woman. We're here to protect children.'

Which of these statements do you think is untrue?

How many genders do you believe there are, and what are they?

How many sexes do you believe there are, and what are they?

Do you believe that men can be women?

NYcupcake · 27/07/2022 14:20

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 27/07/2022 13:59

I fear that you don’t know what ‘gender critical’ means @NYcupcake

did you hear any of the protesters say ‘women face systematic oppression as a result of their biology’?

that is far more likely to mark them out as GC

everyone in the world knows that men aren’t women, that doesn’t tell you much

From the Daily Mail

A few moments later, the protestor could be heard saying: 'You're probably teaching kids that there's 100 genders, there's only two sexes, no man can be a woman. We're here to protect children.'

This is straight out of the GC/Posie Parker playbook.

Drag Queen Story Time
ScreamingMeMe · 27/07/2022 14:05

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 27/07/2022 13:59

I fear that you don’t know what ‘gender critical’ means @NYcupcake

did you hear any of the protesters say ‘women face systematic oppression as a result of their biology’?

that is far more likely to mark them out as GC

everyone in the world knows that men aren’t women, that doesn’t tell you much

I think some people have kidded themselves into thinking "men can't be women" is some kind of minority, niche view, when it absolutely is not.

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 27/07/2022 13:59

NYcupcake · 27/07/2022 12:32

The women protesting in the library were gender critical, you can quite clearly hear them saying "men cannot be women" etc.

I fear that you don’t know what ‘gender critical’ means @NYcupcake

did you hear any of the protesters say ‘women face systematic oppression as a result of their biology’?

that is far more likely to mark them out as GC

everyone in the world knows that men aren’t women, that doesn’t tell you much

ChristinaXYZ · 27/07/2022 13:53

Barry Humphries and 'Lily Savage' did not perform for kids in closed, close proximity spaces like library reading areas and schools. They performed away from kids in theatres on a stage and in working mens' clubs until they hit the big time with TV where toned -down sanitised versions of their acts were shown. There was no sense that they billed their acts as for children. Neither Dame Edna (whose make-up was decidedly old-lady not sex-club) nor Paul O'Grady had overtly sexualised or 'dirty joke' type names for their characters.

Kenny Everett's female character did have a name that was a bit dodgy I think and I used to find his character an comfortable watch as a kid. I never felt that with Dame Edna nor Lily Savage. Kids, like women, have good antenna for what's right and what's not. they should not have that blurred by well meaning or virtue-signally parents, teachers or Labour MPs.

If you are complaining to your library, council or school about one of these events the Safe School Alliance have an excellent, well-researched piece on the subject that you might find useful:

safeschoolsallianceuk.net/2022/01/09/drag-queen-story-hour/

ScrollingLeaves · 27/07/2022 13:51

GoodJanetBadJanet · Today 13:41
Heh. I think the notion that he would be considered a suitable children’s entertainer would be news to Barry humphries.
I think the point is that lots of us grew up watching him on telly as kids.

Barry Humpbries as Dame Edna was a middle aged Melbourne housewife in whose persona he satirised society. The satire would have been completely above the heads of the children of the age shown in DQST,. The costume was not sex fetish version of female. The programmes went out at 10 p.m I posted on this earlier having looked it up.

TullyApplebottom · 27/07/2022 13:48

GoodJanetBadJanet · 27/07/2022 13:41

Heh. I think the notion that he would be considered a suitable children’s entertainer would be news to Barry humphries.
I think the point is that lots of us grew up watching him on telly as kids.

that in no way establishes that drag queens reading stories is of benefit to children, I’m afraid.
but see if Barry is up for the gig by all means 😂

MenopausalMe · 27/07/2022 13:43

Anyway I’m out, we know disruptors use multiple deletions to get the thread pulled and that would be a shame if this was pulled.

I’ll go back to the day job where I know I am making a difference to women’s opportunities in India

GoodJanetBadJanet · 27/07/2022 13:41

Heh. I think the notion that he would be considered a suitable children’s entertainer would be news to Barry humphries.
I think the point is that lots of us grew up watching him on telly as kids.

MenopausalMe · 27/07/2022 13:35

lollipoprainbow · 27/07/2022 13:21

@CrossPurposes exactly but of course people with dirty minds will see what they want to see.

Who’s keeping a bingo card of things said to dismiss women raising the alarm?

‘Dirty Minds’

’Imagining it’

There are other photos of this performer from other events reading to children showing similar they can’t all be dismissed as a trick of the light.

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