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Waitrose delivery driver

633 replies

MsMoorhead · 09/06/2022 08:16

Kellie Jay-Keen reported by her Waitrose delivery driver!

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PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:59

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 09/06/2022 22:55

I want everyone on this forum to think about all this and ask, where is the line?

Is there anywhere where a woman's wishes outweigh a male transitioner's?

We can't have female-only spaces in public. Not even rape crisis provision. We're mockingly told that it is up to stores and businesses to use the single-sex exceptions, and they don't have to exercise them if they don't want to. So we have feminist meetings and conferences, and we exercise those exceptions at the meetings. So male transitioners attend and insist on using the women's toilets there! It's just a giant dominance display.

And now we have an activist saying a woman is rude and bigoted if she asks a male transitioner to leave her own property.

So where is the line, women?

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:51

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:36

What would the purpose of insulting you be? Confused I am describing what your pattern of behaviour looks like.

If you find the description insulting, I recommend you rethink your posting habits.

Mildly amusing at best 🫤

Cailleach1 · 10/06/2022 00:47

So, the long haired delivery driver decided to interrogate KJK about her business and creep her out about using the same spaces as her daughter in a short time frame. Oh, and then deliberately drag feet about leaving when asked after that. Is it ok that they were only intimidating for a little while? I would hate to be in a small enclosed space with that person; if they are like that in daylight and with people around. .

Inappropriate whether a short or long timeframe. Chit chat is 'nice day'.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:36

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:28

Disappointed. Is that the best insult you can come up with.

What would the purpose of insulting you be? Confused I am describing what your pattern of behaviour looks like.

If you find the description insulting, I recommend you rethink your posting habits.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:33

IcakethereforeIam · 10/06/2022 00:27

Why did KJK leave it was her house?

Because KJK has less right to occupy her own house than a male transitioner. As established!

KnightsofNi · 10/06/2022 00:28

In today’s political climate, adult human female or women signs are a political statement.

I’m absolutely not attacking KJK for displaying those signs, but one of the reasons why we put up posters, flags etc is because we want people to engage with them.

It’s a form of political evangelisation. The driver overstepped his job responsibilities by choosing to verbally engage but had a different driver attended, struck up a conversation and KJK helped them reached the summit of a mountain, it would have been job done and the signs served their purpose.

If I was delivering to a house with a rainbow flag and a slogan about TWAW, I’d remember I was representing my employer and bite my tongue.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:28

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:25

It appears your object is to convince us all that trans activists are totally without integrity and think their wishes supersede all other people's no matter the location, and that given this, negotiation with you is impossible.

Odd objective, but you're achieving it, definitely.

Disappointed. Is that the best insult you can come up with.

Datun · 10/06/2022 00:28

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:18

I see I will have to be specific: “claiming that the most awful aspect of the entire scenario” is not a claim I made. So, that’s a fiction.

ok. Well I must've missed the other awful things in that case.

IcakethereforeIam · 10/06/2022 00:27

Why did KJK leave it was her house?

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:26

chilling19 · 10/06/2022 00:04

Discovereads - misgendering is not harassment. Doesn't matter how much you wish it wasn't so, it isn't.

The U.K. EA Tribunal judgement I posted says otherwise. It says deliberate misgendering, specifically calling a transwoman a man, can be unlawful harrassment and possessing gender critical beliefs doesn’t protect a person from liability.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:25

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:19

Don’t care. Not my objective.

It appears your object is to convince us all that trans activists are totally without integrity and think their wishes supersede all other people's no matter the location, and that given this, negotiation with you is impossible.

Odd objective, but you're achieving it, definitely.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:23

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:18

However one's unwanted presence on someone's doorstep and driveway is just what, flattery?

Well she was wanted though wasn’t she as KJK ordered for her groceries to be delivered by Waitrose to her doorstep. And after KJK told her to get off the property, she left.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:19

chilling19 · 10/06/2022 00:18

Discovereads - still going? Not going to convince the feminist board lovey.

Don’t care. Not my objective.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:18

Datun · 10/06/2022 00:13

Eh? Calling him male is exactly her not calling him female.

Isn't it?

<peers round nervously>

I see I will have to be specific: “claiming that the most awful aspect of the entire scenario” is not a claim I made. So, that’s a fiction.

chilling19 · 10/06/2022 00:18

Discovereads - still going? Not going to convince the feminist board lovey.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:18

Discovereads · 09/06/2022 23:58

Deliberate misgendering is a form of harrassment.

However one's unwanted presence on someone's doorstep and driveway is just what, flattery?

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:16

Cailleach1 · 10/06/2022 00:05

So, all this conversation happened when the long haired, delivery driver had dropped off the delivery and for some reason they decided to hang around and start making remarks to the customer about their business.

They only need to access someone's property to drop the delivery off, and then leave. Is part of the Waitrose delivery service for the delivery driver (long haired or not) to query you about your business and loiter when you ask them to leave? The 'I will be using the same space as your daughter' remark seems designed to creep the customer out. This was after KJK has pointed it makes many women feel uncomfortable.

Let me tell you about a Waitrose delivery. The groceries are not bagged, so you take them from the green crates on the doorstep inside in armfuls and this takes a few minutes. So you normally have a bit of chit chat with the driver. The whole conversation that KJK relates could be done in under 5 mins. After the delivery is done, they have to put the crates back in the back of the van. Then they usually sit in the van and process any refunds due to you (if you refused any poor quality items or substitutions) and to set their GPS for the next delivery before they set off.

Datun · 10/06/2022 00:13

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:06

you knowing all that but still claiming the most awful aspect of the entire scenario is her not willingly calling him female,

Fiction. Made no such claim.

Eh? Calling him male is exactly her not calling him female.

Isn't it?

<peers round nervously>

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:06

you knowing all that but still claiming the most awful aspect of the entire scenario is her not willingly calling him female,

Fiction. Made no such claim.

chilling19 · 10/06/2022 00:06

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😂😂😂😂 - give it up love. You are boring us now.

Cailleach1 · 10/06/2022 00:05

So, all this conversation happened when the long haired, delivery driver had dropped off the delivery and for some reason they decided to hang around and start making remarks to the customer about their business.

They only need to access someone's property to drop the delivery off, and then leave. Is part of the Waitrose delivery service for the delivery driver (long haired or not) to query you about your business and loiter when you ask them to leave? The 'I will be using the same space as your daughter' remark seems designed to creep the customer out. This was after KJK has pointed it makes many women feel uncomfortable.

chilling19 · 10/06/2022 00:04

Discovereads - misgendering is not harassment. Doesn't matter how much you wish it wasn't so, it isn't.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:03

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SpringBadger · 10/06/2022 00:03

chilling19 · 09/06/2022 23:57

Don't engage lovey. Not worth it.

Thank you, you're quite right. That was just shocking to me - I wouldn't speak to anyone here differently to how I would if we were all down the pub, even if I might debate robustly. I shall follow your counsel, keep to civil society and even perhaps go to bed.

NecessaryScene · 10/06/2022 00:02

Deliberate misgendering is a form of harrassment.

Demanding people lie about your sex is a form of harassment.