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Told the diversity and inclusion manager that menopause was a sex, not gender thingbased issue

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Metabigot · 27/05/2022 17:13

Just started a new role as HR Manager - discussion with diversity and inclusion manager who is creating a menopause policy, and said it was a gender issue. No it's not! you can identify how you f'ing like but if you don't have a womb you won't get the menopause! I managed to get her to agree that it's actually a sex issue, and pushed the point that sex is still one of the 9 protected characteristics under the EA and its important we don't forget that in favour of other newer characteristics.

This is why the changing of language matters - otherwise we can't call things what they are. Anyway hopefully a small victory and I didn't excessively put my head above the parapet. I do think the backlash is beginning - one of my team spoke about how diversity issues could clash 'for example feminist rights and trans rights.' Nearly jumped up and gave him a pat on the back when he said that. They are trying to be an ultra-diversity and inclusion workplace so it's refreshing to see that this sex based rights are included in this. And very unusual to be able to say it aloud IME.

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dworky · 27/05/2022 19:19

Good for you. I hope more women will speak up & object to this misogynist claptrap.

Oblomov22 · 27/05/2022 18:59

Frightening that you even needed to make this point to her.

Peregrina · 27/05/2022 18:53

She told me she was trying to be kind.

And then what happened?

FannyCann · 27/05/2022 18:53

Well done OP.

If you find yourself combing through her policies and checking the language you may find this paper helpful if you haven't already seen it.

internal-journal.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fgwh.2022.818856/full?fbclid=IwAR1GmMyg9yC58i3SargXSSpsw1NgaVoD6raB8cz40YuEgx9VxFTr5A4m4OQ

Antarcticant · 27/05/2022 18:49

if you don't have a womb you won't get the menopause!

Not strictly true, as you still go through menopause if you have had a hysterectomy.

JacquelineCarlyle · 27/05/2022 18:45

Well done Op!

Noisyprat · 27/05/2022 18:40

Well done OP. I used to work for my local council and they have a new D&I person. I had to tell her that 'gender' is not a protected characteristic and ask her to change the HR website. She told me she was trying to be kind.

A woman doing something that directly disadvantages women because she wants to be kind. F. Off

Genesis1v27 · 27/05/2022 18:23

Well done, OP.

But something strikes me just now: By the logic of gender ideology, surely menopause should not be a gender issue, i.e. it can be something that affects those of any gender or none, based only on an individual's biology.

Circumferences · 27/05/2022 18:02

More people like you very much needed!

HermioneWeasley · 27/05/2022 17:54

Well done. I think there’s an attempt to get GC Hr people together via Twitter (DM @LoonyQuine)

MigsandTiggs · 27/05/2022 17:50

I applaud your stance on this important issue. 💪However, to be precise, menopause happens when the ovaries stop producing hormones. The presence/absence (eg from surgery) of a womb is immaterial and only one sex has ovaries.

ThisIdiiot · 27/05/2022 17:41

My work is very keen on menopause, lol , which is great but I'm also keeping an eye on their language.

ChubbyNinja · 27/05/2022 17:39

Well done! I think this is how we fight against the prevailing culture of erasure. One step at at time...

MuchasSmoochas · 27/05/2022 17:33

Good for you OP. I have been in a diversity/equality field for 15 years. Am retraining 🤷‍♀️

FeminismAndCake · 27/05/2022 17:20

Yhay well done, we need to keep saying this firmly and politely

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