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Times: Girl ‘driven out of school for questioning trans ideology’

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ResisterRex · 17/05/2022 05:37

This seems to be a clear failure on the part of all adults involved, if what's reported here is accurate:

Girl ‘driven out of school for questioning trans ideology’

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/50aac934-d539-11ec-8585-951ab3afb4d2?shareToken=d55c6d8482ff6dde48eb9c33de693f54

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Clymene · 18/05/2022 18:37

@GCRich - can't remember who said it (menopausal brain) but some straight TRA definitely said they considered that TWAW except for relationship purposes.

DodoPatrol · 18/05/2022 18:27

The story from the year 12 girls is very different to the one you have described.

And happened in a different month. So it's possibly a different school, and two schools have at least one girl driven to tears by mob mentality.

ResisterRex · 18/05/2022 18:16

Please don't name the school.

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 18/05/2022 18:13

I didn't expect this would be a Catholic school. Gosh.

ResisterRex · 18/05/2022 18:01

"Fantasy" is perhaps not the best choice of term to describe a schoolgirl's account of an incident.

The only people who can know if this happened are the sources. It seems that TT and The Times have the sources.

Maybe - even if you're an adult who's first instinct is to call a child, a liar - your time would be better spent saying something like:

"Me/my organisation do advocate for X things. But we are peaceful and we want respectful debate. I/we think adults should lead by example and if this report is correct then I/we don't think that the adults did right by the students"

Something like that might be a better approach.

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GCRich · 18/05/2022 17:55

ScreamingMeMe

Some people (especially men) seem to get the sports issue, but hand-wave away the rest of it. It's odd.

I was speaking to a friend a week or two back, and he seemed to get the "sex with him" issue. ie TWAW apart from in his bed. He has a friend who has apparently always been trans, brought up as a girl, is a woman in every single way and woman need to budge up, be nice and not make a fuss. But obviously he - as a straight man - would never sleep with "her" because "she" is not the right kind of woman for a straight male.

I find it hard not to find his viewpoint absolute incredible in how hypocritical and despicable it is.

The sport is a biggie, but I get them impression than many people (especially men) get the "I don't engage in sex outside of my sexual orientation" part of this. A lot of straight men seem to have a big problem with gay sex full stop... but pretty much every straight man has a problem with gay sex for them! (and obviously straight men who don't have a problem with gay sex are bi not straight.)

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 18/05/2022 17:52

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/05/2022 12:03

Robin White, the barrister who often pops in here, has just declared on Twitter that the story is a “fantasy”

You'd think Robin might be busy today?

I hope there are screenshots and archives of that tweet…

And that RMW has it in mind to issue an apology as soon as practical should RMW learn that there are grounds for the story (there already are). It would be gracious of RMW to publicly acknowledge the error even if the reflection on what drove RMW to consider it a fantasy remains private.

RoseslnTheHospital · 18/05/2022 17:46

CruCru · 18/05/2022 17:44

It is possible that Lover of Dogs isn’t who she claims to be and that her daughter is completely made up.

True. But the information that can be identified as a result is definitely the correct school. It's alarming to me that this incident can be so easily identified just from one weirdo idiot posting about it and leaving identifying information available to those that are curious enough to follow the trails.

CruCru · 18/05/2022 17:44

It is possible that Lover of Dogs isn’t who she claims to be and that her daughter is completely made up.

EmotionalSupportOlive · 18/05/2022 17:27

Well that's cleared up which school, isn't it? Their sixth form centre is in its own building and doesn't always have a staff member in it so quite possible for all sorts to happen without supervision.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 18/05/2022 17:16

ScreamingMeMe · 18/05/2022 15:10

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If I had £1 for every parent who tried to correct me about incidents that happened in school when they weren't there I'd be a very wealthy woman.
Hmm And would have retired from teaching by the age of 35 Grin

secular111 · 18/05/2022 17:14

ScreamingMeMe · 18/05/2022 13:50

LOJ edited his facebook post to belatedly add something about safeguarding

Liar.
The edit history shows the 'original shout out' on FB was only amended to include a note about under 18s/parental consent an hour ago

twitter.com/Ayrshirelass13/status/1526904641698635776?t=lKibRaxOxxv-7c1tyNiSSw&s=19

LOJ not having a great time of late.

This cartoon has been about for a while now, but no-one can identify the artist. I've been seeing it all over Twitter today.

Times: Girl ‘driven out of school for questioning trans ideology’
TheBiologyStupid · 18/05/2022 17:11

It's easy to be spat on, albeit unintentionally, when someone is frenziedly shouting in your face.

Abitofalark · 18/05/2022 16:59

"...she was confronted in conversation." Interesting formulation, the juxtaposition of confronted and conversation. But even in attempted denial, the language is telling: confronted.
Well, that says a lot, confirming she was confronted. Yet there is no anxiety about confronted, as there is about spitting: those girls would never spit. But confronting is deemed to be right and proper. Tell me: Why would she be confronted?

theemperorhasnoclothes · 18/05/2022 16:47

Not at all. It is for identifying children at risk from being groomed in to any kind of extremism. The training I had on it had a case study on far-right extremism.

Yes. I sat through the whole second half of my prevent training thinking ' this could apply to gender ideology and I could construct an entirely similar case study relating to that'. And then thinking, as Lang used to say, we've created a massive great safeguarding loophole by disallowing any safeguarding concerns to be raised about trans issues even when it could be trans children that are negatively effected. It's appalling.

Anactor · 18/05/2022 16:46

‘Confronted in conversation’. Do you think that’s code for ‘encircled by a shouting pack of girls and screamed at until she broke down in tears’?

yellowsuninthesky · 18/05/2022 16:43

Innocenta · 18/05/2022 16:33

But 'Lover of dogs' has retweeted a few tweets which seemingly take the GC position re: trans people and women's sport. I wonder if she's thought much about the issue? As it seems oddly inconsistent to support this bullying of a young woman but (as it were) to have a GC stance on sports.

Oh well we know what school it is now! Lets go to great lengths to keep everything confidential, and then one of the parents gives the game away.

yellowsuninthesky · 18/05/2022 16:36

FacebookPhotos · 18/05/2022 11:56

I thought PREVENT only applied to Islamic terrorism.

Not at all. It is for identifying children at risk from being groomed in to any kind of extremism. The training I had on it had a case study on far-right extremism.

Interesting - well this should definitely be covered then.

ScreamingMeMe · 18/05/2022 16:36

Innocenta · 18/05/2022 16:33

But 'Lover of dogs' has retweeted a few tweets which seemingly take the GC position re: trans people and women's sport. I wonder if she's thought much about the issue? As it seems oddly inconsistent to support this bullying of a young woman but (as it were) to have a GC stance on sports.

Some people (especially men) seem to get the sports issue, but hand-wave away the rest of it. It's odd.

Innocenta · 18/05/2022 16:33

But 'Lover of dogs' has retweeted a few tweets which seemingly take the GC position re: trans people and women's sport. I wonder if she's thought much about the issue? As it seems oddly inconsistent to support this bullying of a young woman but (as it were) to have a GC stance on sports.

MagnoliaTaint · 18/05/2022 16:06

Well, good to see OJ is sympathetic and caring enough to want to hear this woman's point of view, and no doubt all about her thoughts on who should be deported, etc.

ScreamingMeMe · 18/05/2022 16:02

RoyalCorgi · 18/05/2022 15:48

As if the girls in question are going to admit to having spat at her.

This person also claims that the Times article wrongly states that the girl left in September, when it was in fact December. But the Times article says December. So someone's got poor literacy skills.

Quite.

There's this little nugget too, which is enlightening.

"Can I just say my daughter is at the school you are talking about. The story from the year 12 girls is very different to the one you have described. The school has the Stonewall society where discussions are held on a weekly basis. At no point would these girls spit either."

twitter.com/GspLuna/status/1526621020718776320?t=Tb2m_Gm5U-p4TKbhF8tAEw&s=19

(People are also saying that her daughter would be the wrong age?)

And crikey, that woman's timeline! Kinda racist 😕

Times: Girl ‘driven out of school for questioning trans ideology’
Datun · 18/05/2022 15:57

Placemarking

Clymene · 18/05/2022 15:57

Looking at that woman's timeline, she is not a very pleasant person

RoyalCorgi · 18/05/2022 15:48

As if the girls in question are going to admit to having spat at her.

This person also claims that the Times article wrongly states that the girl left in September, when it was in fact December. But the Times article says December. So someone's got poor literacy skills.