About 10 years ago, a close friend worked in Parliament and she would always say the best, most effective policies and campaigns were drawn up and pursued by cross party groups fighting for the same cause.
100% agree with this. When it comes to campaigning to safeguard women’s and girls’ rights, it is the only way we will get anywhere on this issue. That’s fine. We don’t have to align on everything.
People who would eg dismantle abortion rights (whatever their personal justification) are in my eyes a serious threat to women’s health, lives and our mental health and are actively threatening women’s rights and place in society relative to men’s. I have zero respect for that position however sincerely held.
But to get big changes and safeguards for women and girls made we will all need to work together on specific issues and that’s OK. As soon as those fellow campaigners on those specific issues start campaigning against abortion, I will disagree with those same individuals, and I will campaign against them on that issue which is also OK.
Political progress has always been made and sustained over time by forming strategic alliances on a focused limited cause. We can’t rely on any political party to do this for us. We are never going to all agree, so there is no point trying to proselytise or re-educate allies on a cause. To try that is not respectful of the individuals who are holding the views that we dislike (and likewise not respectful of us, as individuals holding our views which they dislike, if others try to change our views). We are all allowed boundaries and it’s healthy and essential to be aware of them.