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Transgender women advised to call 999 if asked to leave women-only lavatories

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ChristinaXYZ · 30/04/2022 21:31

"Transgender women should call 999 if they feel unsafe through a request to leave a women-only lavatory, Britain’s largest child transgender charity has said.

The advice from Mermaids comes amid lingering confusion over the long-awaited new guidance from the Equality and Human Rights Commission (EHRC), the watchdog, for providers of single-sex spaces such as refuges, changing rooms and hospital wards.

The EHRC ruled last month that trans women, who are born as males, can be excluded from female-only spaces if there is a legitimate reason such as protecting privacy and dignity...

...But Mermaids has become the latest lobby group to issue its own guidance in response, saying it is “not happy” with the regulator’s approach “because we feel it is not inclusive enough of trans people”.

In its helpsheet, titled “single-sex spaces: know your rights”, the influential young people’s trans charity lists a series of tips for “what to do if someone asks you to leave a facility”.

The first tip, branded “grossly irresponsible” by lawyers, stated: “If you are at risk of harm, try and get somewhere safe and call someone you trust, or the emergency services if you feel comfortable in doing so on 999.”

It also recommends that gender-dysphoric youths “ask the facility/your school for a copy of its trans inclusion policy” and “ask the facility/your school for its reasons for your removal, in writing”.

Trans people are also urged to direct the school or venue to Mermaids phone lines and “take notes”. The charity stresses that the EHRC’s guidance “is not the law and cannot be enforced” and that “you still have the right to access the services and facilities you did before the guidance was published”.

Leading lawyers have said it shows how venues such as schools, gyms and hospitals are caught in a war of words between activists and regulators, with little clarity on how to act....

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www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2022/04/30/transgender-women-advised-call-999-asked-leave-women-only-lavatories/

OP posts:
MrsDanversBroom · 01/05/2022 17:00

Omgfg, every time I think it can’t get worse…

Datun · 01/05/2022 16:59

Actually that's not quite true. The rule of primogeniture is a hard and fast no.

The rule that the eldest son inherits a title and the estate still holds. If his older sister identifies as a man, she's shit out of luck in terms of inheriting that privilege.

Funny that.

Datun · 01/05/2022 16:56

MarshaBradyo · 01/05/2022 15:02

So if TW cannot be excluded from single sex spaces then do we not have any single sex spaces by law?

That's right, we don't.

Because it was never considered necessary to make it law.

MarshaBradyo · 01/05/2022 15:02

So if TW cannot be excluded from single sex spaces then do we not have any single sex spaces by law?

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 01/05/2022 14:54

Redshoeblueshoe · 30/04/2022 22:55

I was just writing a long reply, but as I have consumed copious amounts of 🍷
I've changed my mind.

Fuck it. Just fucking fuck it.
I'm going to start using the men's, as we know all the fucking creepy men are in the ladies.

And when the bloody men complain that women are in their toilets they will be listened to.

Hopefully then we can get single sex loos back.

This is so true Confused

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 01/05/2022 14:53

How often is a TW ever harmed in a ladies lavatory though , I'm presuming by other women?

For clarity once is too often. I would never excuse it based on the numbers. Im interested to understand how much of a problem it is, and who the perpetrators are. The cynic in me wonders if actually a polite request to leave is, as others have said up thread, being classed as literal violence.

The cynic in me is also wondering exactly what the response to the 999 call would be seeing as how I know damn well that when I was the target of unwanted sexually suggestive comments from a "white van man" when running this week ringing 999 would be pointless.

MarshaBradyo · 01/05/2022 14:53

PrincessRamone · 01/05/2022 10:04

You cannot be excluded from a single sex space without a fair reason. Someone being ‘scared’ of trans people is not a good enough reason.

I am relatively new to all of this, and am a bit lost.

Does this mean that they are saying that e.g. a trans woman should be using the mens facilities and cannot be excluded from it? Or the other way around? Or neither?

and surely a “fair reason” for excluding a trans woman from the single sex space of e.g. a women’s bathroom would be that the facility is single sex, not single gender, and that it is biological sex which is the protected characteristic.

I’m finding it confusing too.

if you call a space single sex then it should be that

viques · 01/05/2022 14:50

Babdoc · 01/05/2022 14:41

One struggles to envisage any sort of “harm” being inflicted by a small woman distressed at finding a man in the female toilets.
However, the converse…

precisely.

(though to be fair if I met Dylan in the ladies and he offered me a tampon ………)

FrancescaContini · 01/05/2022 14:42

Only read the OP but never heard such fucking stupid “advice”. What a waste of time for the 999 call handler.

This Mermaids charity really likes to ramp up the notion that certain people are always the imminent victims of the most awful crimes 🤔

Babdoc · 01/05/2022 14:41

One struggles to envisage any sort of “harm” being inflicted by a small woman distressed at finding a man in the female toilets.
However, the converse…

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 01/05/2022 14:33

FrankLeeSpeaking · 30/04/2022 21:54

Can't read the article. But from the help sheet, if someone does feel at risk of significant harm (ie are being threatened with violence), whats wrong with calling 999?

The word significant doesn't appear in the help sheet guidance but this does.

If you are at risk of harm, try and get somewhere safe and call someone you trust, or the emergency services if you feel comfortable in doing so on 999.

mermaidsuk.org.uk/news/single-sex-spaces-know-your-rights/

Quite a lot pivots on the perception of risk of harm. Some people might consider that a challenge to their immersive fiction is a harm or risks it being one.

LK1972 · 01/05/2022 12:17

Actually, scrap that, Charity Commission is non-ministerial government department, so would automatically be bound by PSED.

Also, as explained here (www.citizensadvice.org.uk/law-and-courts/discrimination/public-sector-equality-duty/who-must-comply-with-the-public-sector-equality-duty/) the charities are bound by PSED when carrying out 'published functions', but that is woolier and needs to be proved.

It is time to read up on the functions of the Charity Commission. I wonder if they are ok with their customers openly flouting, and discouraging others to do so, latest guidance from another government agency

LK1972 · 01/05/2022 12:07

As suspected, the charities are not defined as 'public authority'.

More interestingly , the Charity Commission isn't bound by the PSED either, seemingly: www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/schedule/19

An oversight?

LK1972 · 01/05/2022 11:58

Inebriati, iirc, I don't think charities are classed as public authority, so are not under PSED.

I'll dig around on EHRC pages and report back.

IcakethereforeIam · 01/05/2022 11:55

What should the police do when they arrive? Assuming there's only been 'literal' and not 'actual' violence.
Show them the nearest Gents or gender neutral bogs, let them pee in their helmet, escort them to the ladies and/or arrest the women/girls/other men who complained?

Thelnebriati · 01/05/2022 11:08

26 Harassment
(1)A person (A) harasses another (B) if—
(a)A engages in unwanted conduct related to a relevant protected characteristic, and
(b)the conduct has the purpose or effect of—
(i)violating B's dignity, or
(ii)creating an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment for B.
www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/26

Thelnebriati · 01/05/2022 11:07

I think it could breach the EA. They admit it isn't legal advice. It doesn't foster good relationships between groups with different protected characteristics. It encourages men to use single sex women's facilities, and to feel discriminated against if they are barred.

149 Public sector equality duty
(1)A public authority must, in the exercise of its functions, have due regard to the need to—
(a)eliminate discrimination, harassment, victimisation and any other conduct that is prohibited by or under this Act;
(b)advance equality of opportunity between persons who share a relevant protected characteristic and persons who do not share it;
(c)foster good relations between persons who share a relevant protected characteristic and persons who do not share it.

(2)A person who is not a public authority but who exercises public functions must, in the exercise of those functions, have due regard to the matters mentioned in subsection (1).
www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/149

Artichokeleaves · 01/05/2022 10:53

If it's ok to tell females that being scared and uncomfortable isn't a reason to say no to using a toilet, then it's ok to tell TW that too.

Because otherwise it's just obvious male supremacism. Male people get to choose and be comfortable due to their biological difference and female people get to .... well, just make do with the crumbs of whatever male people choose to let them have, while shutting up about it.

Mermaids lost the plot years ago. The TQ+ lobby really will survive hearing the word no sometimes. Just as they expect female people to survive. They will survive some things existing that are not available to them but are there to meet the needs of others. The world and everything in it not being all about TQ+ people all the time is not a hate crime, and wasting the time of emergency response and police is... well. Let's start with deeply irresponsible and unpack from there.

Datun · 01/05/2022 10:42
  • legitimate aim, not legitimate end.

I thought it looked odd, but couldn't work out why!

Datun · 01/05/2022 10:24

Does this mean that they are saying that e.g. a trans woman should be using the mens facilities and cannot be excluded from it? Or the other way around? Or neither?

Theoretically what they've said would absolutely apply to men's spaces , but they're talking about woman's spaces.

and surely a “fair reason” for excluding a trans woman from the single sex space of e.g. a women’s bathroom would be that the facility is single sex, not single gender, and that it is biological sex which is the protected characteristic.

Equality law doesn't allow discrimination on the basis of sex. But certain exceptions are allowed. So in order to keep a space female only you have to justify it using what they call 'a proportionate means to a legitimate end'.

The EHRC have had to give examples of this because that description is so woolly that TRAs have told everyone that there is no proportionate means that is fair and a 'legitimate end' doesn't exist.

The EHRC have said that all traditional woman's spaces can exclude transwomen to preserve women's dignity and privacy. And an alternative provision that isn't necessarily the mens can be provided for transwomen.

It's guidance tho. Not law. No-one imagined that an actual law would be required to keep eg rapists out of female prisons.

So TRAs are trying to claim its not fair in order to force suppliers to ignore it.

PrincessRamone · 01/05/2022 10:04

You cannot be excluded from a single sex space without a fair reason. Someone being ‘scared’ of trans people is not a good enough reason.

I am relatively new to all of this, and am a bit lost.

Does this mean that they are saying that e.g. a trans woman should be using the mens facilities and cannot be excluded from it? Or the other way around? Or neither?

and surely a “fair reason” for excluding a trans woman from the single sex space of e.g. a women’s bathroom would be that the facility is single sex, not single gender, and that it is biological sex which is the protected characteristic.

Cheesecakeandwineinasuitcase · 01/05/2022 09:51

This is getting beyond ridiculous now 😂

Datun · 01/05/2022 09:48

An organisation that constantly bangs on about being 'kind' and with a website that looks like a nursery school is here threatening girls with the police if they are upset about males coming into their toilets.

Yep. And that if those girls are scared, it doesn't matter.

It's quite the unmasking.

IvyTwines · 01/05/2022 09:42

An organisation that constantly bangs on about being 'kind' and with a website that looks like a nursery school is here threatening girls with the police if they are upset about males coming into their toilets.

What the hell is going on in the minds of those adults in public positions that they have let this self-appointed organisation of - what, exactly? - dictate so much to a generation of young people.

AppleandRhubarbTart · 01/05/2022 09:35

Mermaids appears to advise ignoring the EHRC’s advice, but then relies upon assertions about the law which are unclear and dubious.”

Mermaids, relying on unclear and dubious assertions about the law? Never!

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