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Transwoman claims Tampax have offered sponsorship

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DomesticatedZombie · 28/04/2022 18:32

Dylan, currently on 'Day 47 of being a girl' claims Tampax have been in touch.

www.instagram.com/p/CbiQWjUpXXd/

Why?

'Dylan was using a public restroom when a fellow woman called out if she had a tampon, Dylan shyly replying ‘no’.
Afterwards, she decided to buy some to keep in the house and in her purse for all her girlfriends, ending the video with “women support women.” It seemed that Tampax were quite interested in working with Dylan afterwards. What an incredible outcome!'

www.boredpanda.com/trans-tiktoker-documents-journey

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Mandodari · 28/04/2022 20:29

AngelicaElizaAndPeggy · 28/04/2022 19:00

I dunno, I've just looked at Dylan's Instagram and she's kind of joyous; I'm finding it hard to hate on this, really.

I just looked at it too and she's kind of a 30+ year old male.

MoiraQueen · 28/04/2022 20:27

I've seen their Bored Panda articles and video, they are cringey but the comments section is overwhelmingly fawning, unless they are censored.

AnyFucker · 28/04/2022 20:25

Gawd, the handmaidens are out in force on that instagram feed

embarassing

nepeta · 28/04/2022 20:25

That we are not allowed to notice that what Dylan posts is sexist and ill-informed about actual womanhood is a direct consequence of the 'womenz be kind and silence terfs' campaigns.

Mandodari · 28/04/2022 20:25

Sure you can't go near a woman's public toilet without being deafened by the cries of, sister can you spare me a tampon.

nepeta · 28/04/2022 20:23

Dylan's first day as a 'girl' certainly strikes me as a parody. She cried three times, puts lip gloss on and so on.

Lynnthesearesexnotgenderpeople · 28/04/2022 20:19

This so bizarre - this stuff is so offensive I assumed it was spoof ('Day 47 of being a girl, and I'm hiking in a pleather skirt because you never know who you're gonna meet') but it's not spoof. But because this guy is so 'positive' and 'sweet' it's all fine?

A woman called Amala Ekpunobi has done a podcast on Dylan, making perfectly reasonable points about how this is offensive and demeaning for women. And all she has in the comments is a tonne of criticism.

How is this OK? Why the fuck do we have to accept this?

Theeyeballsinthefuckingsky · 28/04/2022 20:17

Yeah have they bollox!

BackAgain777 · 28/04/2022 20:14

Guys, you're wasting your time on this thread.
In the nicest possible way.
This is the fifth or sixth thread (maybe more) about men and periods in the last two weeks which has been deleted (this one will be too).

We all know men don't have periods.
We all know transwomen (being men) don't have periods.

It seems that, however, we are not allowed to discuss that on a women's forum.
Also, we are not permitted to discuss WHY a man would be so "interested" in periods, period products, talking about periods and offering period products to women.

This thread is already on borrowed time guys.

AlisonDonut · 28/04/2022 20:13

Then real life eclipses any satire, then you know we are in clown land.

CompleteGinasaur · 28/04/2022 20:10

I've never been asked, or indeed asked, for any kind of sanpro in the women's. But I've got a theory. If you do indeed get caught short in this fashion (I never did before my menopause, was so indoctrinated into exactly how humiliating this would be that, like every other bleeding woman I know, I made sure I was more than adequately equipped at all likely times..) then you look round the loo and realise - hallelujah! - that you are in the presence of a bloke. Gender pay gap being what it is, you know that they are more likely to have spare cash for complete luxuries than actual women have for necessities and so you ask him first.

(The alternative would be that they are lying through their teeth in service of a very grubby fantasy, and I can't believe that that could possibly be true, could it...?)

FictionalCharacter · 28/04/2022 20:06

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Yep - I’ve seen it lots of times now - it’s a fantasy linked to a fetish

Jojoanna · 28/04/2022 20:06

Ridiculous! Stupid Dylan

Spectre8 · 28/04/2022 20:02

WTAF why IS Dylan referring themselves as a girl. They are an adult! Documenting girlhood whilst being an adult is crazy and bit creepy if I've honest.

And who carries tampons for other women! You carry it for yourself cos noone in all my years has ever asked. I mean most if not all public toilets have sanitary machines so you can buy it yourself.

I look forward to Dylan doucmenting all the sexism they've faced being a girl/woman. The glass ceiling they've encountered and how at work being woman means your often told your sensitive etc. You know the real challenges us women face

Rinatinabina · 28/04/2022 20:02

honestly if someone who didn’t have periods was carrying around a box of tampax a “just in case” I’d think it was a fetish or they were like poisoned or something.

Rinatinabina · 28/04/2022 20:01

😂 that’s hilarious LOL. I must remember to carry tampax in case my girlfriends need one. I can shout “ooh me me me me! I HAVE A TAMPAX!”

sorry but this is quite funny.

ChiefWiggumsBoy · 28/04/2022 19:57

Ugh, I've seen this particular person on TikTok. The delusion that after a month or so on oestrogen that he passes so well that women in the toilets would ask for sanitaryware only bolstered by the handmaidens telling them how gorgeous they look Hmm

Lynnthesearesexnotgenderpeople · 28/04/2022 19:53

Wait, have just had a bit of a more in depth look. I don't....I don't think it's a spoof account!

If that is real it is soooooo offensive to women! Shock

derob · 28/04/2022 19:48

I'm not sure Dylan's view of womanhood is very comprehensive. Or realistic www.instagram.com/reel/CbBCPSmDhEM/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

But what do I know, eh ladies? I'm just a silly ditsy girl 🙄

Nickwinkle · 28/04/2022 19:47

Does anyone else find it mildly offensive that by 'being a woman' or 'being a girl' all it seems to involve is wearing dresses and looking pretty? I'd like to think there's more to women then just looking aesthetically pleasing 🤨

Also, never been asked for a tampon.

Clymene · 28/04/2022 19:46

Lynnthesearesexnotgenderpeople · 28/04/2022 19:44

Have just had a look through Dylans account - I'm pretty sure it's a spoof account isn't it?

I think so yes

Clymene · 28/04/2022 19:46

DomesticatedZombie · 28/04/2022 19:33

www.instagram.com/p/CbdyvnADk-3/

Commenter here says her son has been carrying tampons for girls 'since sixth grade' (Idk what that is).

I have NEVER met a man who carries tampons and I WOULD NOT be grateful to have a random bloke whip one out to offer it. FYI, lads.

6th grade is the same as year 7 in England ie 1st year of secondary school.

Any boy carrying around menstrual products in case his female friends ask him for them is creepy as fuck.

Lynnthesearesexnotgenderpeople · 28/04/2022 19:44

Have just had a look through Dylans account - I'm pretty sure it's a spoof account isn't it?

DolphinaPD · 28/04/2022 19:44

DomesticatedZombie · 28/04/2022 18:32

Dylan, currently on 'Day 47 of being a girl' claims Tampax have been in touch.

www.instagram.com/p/CbiQWjUpXXd/

Why?

'Dylan was using a public restroom when a fellow woman called out if she had a tampon, Dylan shyly replying ‘no’.
Afterwards, she decided to buy some to keep in the house and in her purse for all her girlfriends, ending the video with “women support women.” It seemed that Tampax were quite interested in working with Dylan afterwards. What an incredible outcome!'

www.boredpanda.com/trans-tiktoker-documents-journey

I assumed that was a pisstake.

BasicBinaryBltch · 28/04/2022 19:43

AngelicaElizaAndPeggy · 28/04/2022 19:00

I dunno, I've just looked at Dylan's Instagram and she's kind of joyous; I'm finding it hard to hate on this, really.

Tbh Dylan seems like an alright person at face value - upbeat and clearly liked by their fans, but they're using female experiences of pain as validation for their gender identity.

A woman being so desperate for a tampon that she asks a fella for a tampon is not good. I'm more annoyed at the corporations buying into this and using them as a face for tampons, than the individual.

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