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Telegraph: Highgate School tells pupils "Modern feminism is ‘racist’ and only focuses on ‘straight, white, middle-class women’"

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ResisterRex · 18/04/2022 17:32

It has emerged that Highgate School held a forum on anti-sexism, in which pupils were told:

  • feminism only focuses on white, middle-class women
  • to assess how privileged they are
  • that others are worse off - especially trans victims
  • that LGTBQ+ are more likely to be victims of child sexual abuse.

The forum was held to respond to the fact it was featured in Everyone's Invited. It seems that their response has been to ignore what was said about the school and what girls experienced, and tell them they’re not the real victims. Private school or not, parents decide where their kids go to school. Children don’t make those choices.

Anyone know where evidence is for the line about LGBTQ+ being more likely to be victims of CSA is from?

The school’s response was ill-informed, for example the “case by case” line which is wrong as per the EHRC guidance:

“We know that girls and women are disproportionately affected by sexual harassment and violence and LGBTQ+ people are more likely to experience child sexual abuse and less likely to report sexual abuse than their peers.
“If or where tensions exist or are perceived to exist between two or more protected characteristics under the Equality Act (2010), we will do everything that we can - on a case-by-case basis - to ensure that safeguarding every child in our care remains at the heart of what we do here.
“We continue to follow our safeguarding procedures, offer support to all of our pupils, and be led by the guidance of the DfE, local authorities and the police, where applicable. We remain committed to working in close and transparent partnership with our pupils, their parents and carers, staff, and alumni.”

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2022/04/18/modern-feminism-racist-focuses-straight-white-middle-class-women//_

This whole thing has echoes of this thread:

The word 'woman' is misogynistic, racist and transphobic, apparently.
http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4532660-The-word-woman-is-misogynistic-racist-and-transphobic-apparentlyy_

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apricotlane · 18/04/2022 19:08

Progress yourselves off a cliff.

ResisterRex · 18/04/2022 18:58

Certainly it could be argued that interventions as children, which lead to infertility and lack of capacity to orgasm as an adult, is child sexual abuse. But I'm not sure that's what these people mean.

I've not seen any data to say that LGBTQ+ (their term) children are more likely to be victims.

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NumberTheory · 18/04/2022 18:58

There may also be an issue with CSA and gay teens experimenting in more adult environments than their straight peers tend to. Vulnerable teens tend to be sexually exploited more than average. LGBTQ+ teens are vulnerable and a lot of LGBTQ+ organizations seem to be unaware of the need for safeguarding to be vigilant. We even see run of the mill children's organizations throwing safeguarding measures out of the window in order to “accommodate” LGBTQ+ kids.

zanahoria · 18/04/2022 18:55

Since when have private schools been into all this equality stuff?

I thought gaining privilege was whole point of a private education so why are they trying to guilt trip the kids?

zanahoria · 18/04/2022 18:52

"Do people pay to have their girls listen to this shit?"

Twenty two grand a year apparently

WhiteFire · 18/04/2022 18:33

CSA and LGBT+ is a bit chicken and egg. It is infuriating that this is being used in the way that it is rather than people engaging their brain and considering if the trans identify is a result of the CSA.

Helleofabore · 18/04/2022 18:29

@EmbarrassingHadrosaurus

Seems to be quite the theme this weekend.

I'm so sad that schools are promoting an anti-woman agenda that serves to facilitate their lack of action against sexual assault and rape in schools and other educational facilities.

They're seeking to highlight the hollow core of Everyone's Invited because it plainly does not include acting for the interest of women and girls when they're driving wedges.

It does indeed!
MarshmallowSwede · 18/04/2022 18:17

So the women of colour who are feminists? What about them? How do they explain them?

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 18/04/2022 18:12

Seems to be quite the theme this weekend.

I'm so sad that schools are promoting an anti-woman agenda that serves to facilitate their lack of action against sexual assault and rape in schools and other educational facilities.

They're seeking to highlight the hollow core of Everyone's Invited because it plainly does not include acting for the interest of women and girls when they're driving wedges.

ExMachinaDeus · 18/04/2022 18:09

Historically, the school is wrong.

There were women of colour and working-class women (and women who were both) at the absolute centre of the suffragette movement, for example.

I am sick of these lies being told about feminists

tabbycatstripy · 18/04/2022 18:02

Do people pay to have their girls listen to this shit?

LittleWhingingWoman · 18/04/2022 17:58

Am also what we've been seeing recently in terms of the pushing of the GC women are white racists narrative. Oh and the GC women are against gay marriage. And GC women are Trumpladies. Along with India Willoughby accusing women of being shoulder to shoulder with Putin and Trump.

It the new old TRA tactic with extra burger sauce. Anything to throw shade on the turning tide.

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