The transcripts of the podcast are illuminating. There is some decent stuff there to be fair, but it's mixed in with some shocking stuff that undermines safeguarding plus a huge helping of gender identity indoctrination nonsense.
The podcast is aimed at 16+.
In the one on how talk to kids about porn a bloke says this:
"I know lots of people might happen to see porn a bit younger, and that’s ok, but do you know what the legal age to watch porn in the UK is?"
The context is that his 10 year old has newly got a phone and so may come across porn, and he's suggesting things you could say to a child about porn.
It is NOT ok that children see porn younger than 18 and it's extremely worrying that this is the message they put across.
Other questions they suggest you might ask your child include:
Why might someone watch porn?
When we talk about touching, there’s touch that we’re comfortable with and touch that we’re not comfortable with…what sorts of things make touch good or comfortable?
What might make touch uncomfortable?
How might people feel when they experience good touch?
How might people feel when they experience uncomfortable touch?
What is sex? How do people define it? How else could people define it?
If you did come across something that you had questions about, or that upset you for any reason, do you feel like you have someone who could support you?
This is positioning porn as a choice, and putting the responsibility for for finding it problematic onto the child, rather than explaining that it's porn itself that's problematic, and it's am exploitative industry by nature.
When I had a conversation with my 11 year old, after I discovered he'd been shown porn by other boys within weeks of starting secondary, I made it very clear to him that:
- porn is not real, the people are actors
- this is not what real sex is about
- many of the women are being forced to be there and are harmed by what it being done to them.
- The women are being paid or coerced to pretend to enjoy it, this is not what women actually enjoy
- porn is not cool
- criminal gangs are involved in running the porn industry.
- watching porn can harm you. e.g. adult men and teenage boys who have watched a lot of porn have trouble with relationships and it can make them not be able to have sex properly
- it's natural to be curious about sex, but porn won't give you truthful answers. If you want to know more about sex, you can read factual books about sex, and there also is a lot of teen fiction that talks about sex