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Boris or bust?

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tabbycatstripy · 13/04/2022 23:26

It’s not a decision I’ve come to lightly. I think Johnson is casual with the truth, lies when he believes it suits him, doesn’t particularly grace his office.

I’ve had to make my mind up whether I care more about him lying and eating too much cake than I care about children having healthy parts of their bodies removed, because of an excessively liberal worldview that doesn’t seem to be able to balance the rights of the child with the rights of adults to express themselves.

At the end of the day I - and I voted Labour for nearly thirty years - will vote for people who choose to do something about childhood transition. That’s my red line.

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Scorchedterf · 14/04/2022 13:35

Until the other parties can get out of the grips of Trans activists and Stonewall, it’s Boris all the way for me. You’ve got to choose what is the most important issue and womens rights are the hill I want to die on.

tabbycatstripy · 14/04/2022 13:34

Grammar: So - to be clear - childhood transition works for you as a policy? Do you vote Labour?

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LK1972 · 14/04/2022 13:31

@RoyalCorgi

If I was in danger of forgetting how awful the Tories are, the news that they are planning to send asylum seekers to Rwanda has reminded me.

I can't vote Conservative. But the self-ID policies of the other parties make it very hard to vote for anyone else either.

What's the alternative? Currently the Channel is becoming a graveyard, or shall we just open borders?
LK1972 · 14/04/2022 13:30

@GrammarTeacher

The real medical scandal in adolescent health care is the hideous underfunding of the CAMHS service. This is costing lives. There is a ridiculous waiting list for crisis support. It needs more funding and more trained professionals. That is what Would swing my vote.
That I agree with, and have experienced, but NHS overall is in dire straits due to COVID, so don't think it's isolated.
RoyalCorgi · 14/04/2022 13:28

If I was in danger of forgetting how awful the Tories are, the news that they are planning to send asylum seekers to Rwanda has reminded me.

I can't vote Conservative. But the self-ID policies of the other parties make it very hard to vote for anyone else either.

LK1972 · 14/04/2022 13:27

[quote GrammarTeacher]@LK1972 no, all politicians do NOT lie in parliament. It is against their standards. For decades that resulted in an immediate resignation (cf. Profumo). I have no trouble with trans women are women. I know most of you disagree. I avoid discussion on here generally now. However, anyone thinking voting for Conservatives is a good idea for human rights is in for a rude awakening.
I'm bisexual and have already observed that the so-called LGB Alliance is posting bi-phobia on line. This will not stop with trans people (not that this is why I defend trans people).
Regardless, Johnson is either inept, idiotic or both. This makes him an awful choice of leader. Regardless of his standpoint on trans rights. His history shows his he doesn't really do standpoints anyway.[/quote]
Interesting points, I guess the definition of 'lie' is the disagreement between us, which is the problem with this ideology.

You say TWAW is not a lie, but I think it is, and a highly pernicious one. Once you've agreed TWAW it's impossible to debate this issues, because the premise of discussion is a lie, imo.

I would be highly interested to any links of LGBA biphobia, as an also bisexual, if you have them handy.

I believe Boris, is inept rather than idiotic, but is less disruptive to the actual machinery of government than someone currently making an fool of himself due to inability to answer a simple question.

Which leads me to the question of who is he afraid of? Is it political, financial, what is it?

MrsOvertonsWindow · 14/04/2022 13:24

I'll not be voting conservative - I never will. BUT my vote no longer goes to the labour party or lib dems. I live in a closely contested seat with labour close to winning last time. But they're not getting my vote back until they start behaving like a responsible party rather than spouting thought terminating cliches like TWAW.
They're already on a very slight reverse ferret while desperately trying to pretend they're not. They're going to have to grow the fuck up and acknowledge the mess this has created and allow and engage in the difficult discussions to be had. Until they do that they can whistle for my vote back.

GCAndProud · 14/04/2022 13:24

Well if he really cared he could have done something about it, couldn’t he. He’s done fuck all to make sure that males aren’t in Women’s prisons. He’s just sat back and very recently said a couple of things to placate people because he doesn’t really give a shit about the people this affects (DV victims, prisoners etc).

Meanwhile, his government is proposing sending vulnerable traumatised people crossing the channel to Rwanda. Including many women. And lots will continue to rely on food banks and have to weigh up whether to eat dinner or heat the house for their children.

Donald Trump was also anti self-ID. But then boasted about grabbing women by the pussy 🤷‍♀️

GrammarTeacher · 14/04/2022 13:21

The real medical scandal in adolescent health care is the hideous underfunding of the CAMHS service. This is costing lives. There is a ridiculous waiting list for crisis support. It needs more funding and more trained professionals.
That is what Would swing my vote.

Narutocrazyfox · 14/04/2022 13:19

Completely agree, OP.

I will do anything to protect my children from this dangerous nonsense, so will do anything to keep Labour out. If that means voting tory so be it. This is a one issue sticking point for me, because of the catastrophic effects 'self ID' will have on our children's future lives!

LK1972 · 14/04/2022 13:19

@Kendodd

We are talking about the UK and self-ID hasn't progressed here in the way it has in other places. Hasn't it? Do we have any numbers of transwomen turned down for a GRC after champion of women's rights, Boris Johnson helpfully reduced the fee to £5 for them?
GRC is not self-id, can't see any issues with making government bureaucracy cheaper for people, isn't that a good thing?
GrammarTeacher · 14/04/2022 13:19

I don't think it's a medical scandal. I know how long the waiting lists are and how many hoops people have to jump through. I have taught trans students and had some in my form.

GrammarTeacher · 14/04/2022 13:17

@LK1972 no, all politicians do NOT lie in parliament. It is against their standards. For decades that resulted in an immediate resignation (cf. Profumo). I have no trouble with trans women are women. I know most of you disagree. I avoid discussion on here generally now. However, anyone thinking voting for Conservatives is a good idea for human rights is in for a rude awakening.
I'm bisexual and have already observed that the so-called LGB Alliance is posting bi-phobia on line. This will not stop with trans people (not that this is why I defend trans people).
Regardless, Johnson is either inept, idiotic or both. This makes him an awful choice of leader. Regardless of his standpoint on trans rights. His history shows his he doesn't really do standpoints anyway.

Kendodd · 14/04/2022 13:15

We are talking about the UK and self-ID hasn't progressed here in the way it has in other places.
Hasn't it?
Do we have any numbers of transwomen turned down for a GRC after champion of women's rights, Boris Johnson helpfully reduced the fee to £5 for them?

tabbycatstripy · 14/04/2022 13:15

Grammar:

But you have nothing to say about the medical scandal of childhood transition at all?

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tabbycatstripy · 14/04/2022 13:14

Yes, I blame Labour. I voted for Blair, Brown, Miliband and Corbyn.

I will not vote for Keir Starmer.

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GrammarTeacher · 14/04/2022 13:12

Making decisions based on extremes is not how to make good policy. The protests at the fuel depots are being policed. The penalties that Priti Patel wishes to put in would have harsher sentences than many regimes we judge as being repressive.
Conservative policies have pushed thousands into poverty. This is a far bigger risk than the non-risk you are worried about. Due to his decisions in recent years we have experienced over 100,000 surplus deaths. They were (the Conservatives not Johnson) of the issues with cladding over a decade before Grenfell. Schools and hospitals are stretched beyond all reason. That is what you are also voting for.

LK1972 · 14/04/2022 13:11

@GrammarTeacher

If you think the right to protest changes aren't undemocratic and a real threat to society I don't really know what to say to you. To say that it is a feminist decision to vote in support of Boris Johnson is dreadful. It's not a vote in support of women. The policies of his government have proven time and again to hit women hardest. Look at how he talks about Muslim women. Look at how he treats the women in his life. Have you forgotten about the police being called to his flat due to a domestic incident? Look at the handling of women's pensions. Make whatever decision you want obviously. But don't pretend that this is a good one for women's rights.
What are these 'women' you're talking about? Are we to keep the normal meaning of the word if Labour win power?

Or will we be variously described by our body parts?

If they can't say what a woman is in opposition, what the heck are they going to do once in power?

Yes, Boris is personally pretty despicable, but somehow connects with people and is not that unpopular, considering his sins. All politicians lie and are amoral, afaics it's in the job description.

The issue is with current Labour, the opposition they provide is inadequate, and they are far from ready for Government. This shit doesn't help, but is not the only factor for me.

tabbycatstripy · 14/04/2022 12:58

I didn’t say it was a feminist decision. I said I’m voting this way because of the medical scandal of childhood transition.

But no, I don’t think restricting the right to protest is inherently undemocratic. When people present a risk to the lives of others (by blocking ambulance routes, for example) I don’t lose any sleep over moving them on. They can arrange a march like everyone else.

Nobody in this country (not the Tories or anyone else) is restricting their right to say their piece, to wave their banners, to persuade anyone and everyone of the validity of their cause.

So actually I’m not worried about them, I’m worried about children having their healthy bodies altered activist medics.

You?

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GrammarTeacher · 14/04/2022 12:53

If you think the right to protest changes aren't undemocratic and a real threat to society I don't really know what to say to you.
To say that it is a feminist decision to vote in support of Boris Johnson is dreadful. It's not a vote in support of women. The policies of his government have proven time and again to hit women hardest. Look at how he talks about Muslim women. Look at how he treats the women in his life. Have you forgotten about the police being called to his flat due to a domestic incident? Look at the handling of women's pensions.
Make whatever decision you want obviously. But don't pretend that this is a good one for women's rights.

tabbycatstripy · 14/04/2022 12:22

‘The Tories are removing the right to demonstrate. They're watering down the right to bring a judicial review claim. And that's just the beginning.’

I’m going to be honest and say I’ve found as I’ve grown older that claims like this are never as simple as they seem.

So take the Extinction Rebellion protests. I think they should have a right to protest but I don’t think they should have a right to take over roads used as ambulance routes, or stop people from getting to work. I actually agree with them about some aspects of their argument, but I lose all sympathy when I see them shrugging off someone having a heart attack and dying in an ambulance on the road they are blocking.

So no, the Tories aren’t trying to stop people demonstrating. They’re trying to stop people demonstrating from disrupting ordinary citizens and their activities.

I think their bill goes too far and it needs to be watered down, but I genuinely don’t believe they want to end political protest.

Some people are given to exaggeration, and the more they exaggerate the less inclined I am to listen to them. I think a lot of people are the same.

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lakeswimmer · 14/04/2022 12:15

@MarshaBradyo

To me this slow move towards eroding women’s rights and denial of biology has more a weathervane feel in that it’s a blatant untruth stated because politicians feel they should. Whether they believe in that lie or not.
Absolutely. For me, the fact that some politicians haven't got the nerve to speak the truth when it comes to scientific facts is an indicator that they're not up to the job, whatever party they represent.

If a senior politician is too craven to want to offend the likes of Owen Jones then how are they capable of making tough and unpopular decisions about public spending or an international crisis?

lakeswimmer · 14/04/2022 12:07

[quote Alcoh]@lakeswimmer you are right re rest of world but I thought we were talking about the U.K. and the Tory party in particular.[/quote]
We are talking about the UK and self-ID hasn't progressed here in the way it has in other places. What's the difference? Possibly the government although there may be other factors.

Peregrina · 14/04/2022 12:06

And at the moment Boris is the only leader who has spoken any sense.

Has he followed through with actions? Has he taken all penis and testicle havers out of women's prisons?

Moodlesofnoodles · 14/04/2022 12:04

The Tories are removing the right to demonstrate. They're watering down the right to bring a judicial review claim. And that's just the beginning. Vote them in and they will do whatever the hell they want in the future. And women's rights are clearly a very long way down their agenda. I'm sure Boris would sacrifice his own granny for power or money. He doesn't give a toss about our (or probably his) daughters.