I do feel sorry for him. But that's not a good emotion to have about a politician.
The problem comes back to there being a mechanism for a man to obtain a female birth certificate and strong id.
Few politicians want to acknowledge this process, how it works and the reality that it means that a man with a penis, who has no intention of removing that penis, is legally called 'female'. That's the bit that no politician wants to explain.
To avoid the real issue, it seems the tories are saying sex matters (but not really saying if it's legal sex or actual sex), labour is flip flopping between saying sex doesn't exist anyway to whatever the hell Starmer thinks he's saying.
As a feminist, I'm raging at politicians redefining women and our right to organise without the permission of men, and to even have words to describe ourselves with including men. But I understand that no political party is going to be truly feminist. So just getting them to be honest, would be a start.