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Muster point for new US posters directed here by noisy Twitter storm

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LostTxn · 24/03/2022 14:05

Hi, trying to connect to other GC’s in the US. Just to have an idea of what’s happening. I see tons of GC stuff on Twitter from UK women but little from US women. I’m currently in North Carolina but live normally in Texas (Fort Worth). I don’t know anyone in North Carolina (Southern Pines) and feel very powerless! I have no organization I’m just attempting to connect so we can attempt to be somewhere as awesome as our UK counterparts.
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Redshoeblueshoe · 27/03/2022 23:59

Welcome to Terf Island 🏝️
We have Brew and Wine

mathanxiety · 27/03/2022 23:13

University of California in-state cost of attendance is excellent value.

However, U Texas in-state COA is also good value and no income tax.

But - there are state taxes, local taxes, property taxes, state income taxes, federal income taxes, county taxes, local charges for services like water and garbage disposal, and high housing prices almost everywhere people would want to live.

There are nine states where there is no state personal income tax. All have their attractions, but also drawbacks, and not everyone is able to up sticks and move from California to New Hampshire or Tennessee, and not everyone wants to move to Wyoming, Alaska, or Florida.

thinkingaboutLangCleg · 27/03/2022 23:08

Welcome and Brew to our new US arrivals. Pull up a seat and get comfy.

FlowerArranger · 27/03/2022 22:40

@mathanxiety

Fires and traffic put a lot of people off.
Plus it's very expensive to live in California - state taxes, local sales taxes, cost of property/real estate, college fees...
mathanxiety · 27/03/2022 22:22

Fires and traffic put a lot of people off.

DERFDogmaExlusionary · 27/03/2022 21:34

Question: are Americans leaving California because of the ideology?

"This is the first time California has had a net loss to their population since its founding in 1850"
twitter.com/patrickbetdavid/status/1507899744886136836

DomesticatedZombie · 27/03/2022 06:56

Snoodsy nobody really understands the US law partly because I suppose it differs by state and nobody in the UK really understands the whole representatives/senate/electoral college etc, and nobody in the US is allowed to talk about it.

There is definitely a need for co ordinated action over there. Good luck!

Snoodsy · 27/03/2022 05:05

Is anyone else pissed about how House Speaker Pelosi and the Democrats are calling Republican Governor DeSantis’ Florida bill the “Don’t Say Gay” bill? It’s so intentionally misleading.

The bill limits classroom discussions on sexual orientation and gender identity from children ages 4-8. He wants to pull back the curriculum curtain and give parents a say in what teachers are teaching their very young children. How is this controversial in any way? Children this young don’t need to be sexualized. Let them be kids for a few years, bloody hell. (Love saying ‘bloody’ here.)

We then had Florida Democrats childishly marching around the state capital screaming “GAY GAY GAY.” Senate Democrats are tweeting “GAY.” Settle the fuck down.

The bill just doesn’t want the adults in charge to sexualize your toddlers and small children, also while telling them it’s okay to not tell their parents. Because telling children to keep secrets about their sexuality from their parents is always a fabulous idea.

I know many democrats who feel the same as I do on many of these issues. This is definitely becoming a bipartisan issue. Unfortunately the Biden Democrat agenda and most of the left-leaning US media have chosen this woke hill to die on.

Whew, vent over.

Snoodsy · 27/03/2022 03:51

Howdy (we don’t really say that…very much) from Texas! Although we do say y’all a lot.

I just joined Wolf and am checking out Ovarit. I do wish there was a large scale forum for heretic witches like Mumsnet in the US. I now know more about the UK law than I do about the US.

Would love to connect further!

WouldBeGood · 25/03/2022 20:01

Me too @BettyFilous

FlowerArranger · 25/03/2022 19:50

@TheFnozwhowasmirage - I agree it’s a dive. Only stayed their overnight as we were visiting the Grand Canyon and Lake Powell Smile

TheFnozwhowasmirage · 25/03/2022 19:22

FlowerArranger I once spent a night in Page. The only things I can remember about it was that the town seemed to be a bit of a dive,it was expensive to stay there and I had chilli for dinner. We only stopped there because we'd been driving for hours and were too tired to go to the next town ( which I think was Holbrook,which we really liked).

viques · 25/03/2022 19:08

@MiladyBerserko

What kind of pervert puts gravy on biscuits?

This is not right. Or is this just you American lot giving things weird names such as calling your bum 'fanny' and men's trouser braces 'suspenders'.

Sort yourselves out. Or next thing will be that people will start saying men are called women...

Not to mention milk in gravy! (Nurse I need my little yellow pills.) Gravy needs wine in it, and half decent wine at that……
FeAu · 25/03/2022 18:55

[quote GrinitchSpinach]Is any of you CorrienteCanta on Twitter?

I thought this thread of hers, a response to the most recent round of discussion about about genderism v feminism on TERF Island and in the US, was very insightful:

mobile.twitter.com/corrientecanta/status/1507019004497387523[/quote]
I don't think any of us are, but I follow her. She's smart and a good woman to follow.

SpinningTheSeedsOfLove · 25/03/2022 16:28

@WouldBeGood

Women are politically homeless everywhere. And I’m now thinking it’s not an accident.

Previously they denied us the vote by law, now they’re making it impossible for us to vote.

You may have hit on a very profound thing there.

I'm in England, and I have Canadian friends working in London. They currently don't want to go back to Canada because of the hideous social environment there for them and their daughters.

LostTxn · 25/03/2022 16:13

[quote jay55]@LostTxn it's not you, it's the poor formatting of threads on the site. Everything floats.

Welcome.
I have family in Tennessee, a very gc aunt though she wouldn't know the term. Who thinks men in women's sport is outrageous, I wouldn't dare tell her about the prisons.[/quote]
Gotta remember to quote I guess!
It’s all absolutely bonkers!

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LostTxn · 25/03/2022 16:11

You might be right!

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DomesticatedZombie · 25/03/2022 15:52

Twitter - share away, OP. We get our names dragged through the mud on the regular. It's all sunlight. Grin

BettyFilous · 25/03/2022 15:51

@WouldBeGood

Women are politically homeless everywhere. And I’m now thinking it’s not an accident.

Previously they denied us the vote by law, now they’re making it impossible for us to vote.

That’s why I think I might have to hold my nose and vote Tory at the next election. It’s no good if we all take our bat and ball home (spoil paper/stay home). We have to make an active choice to shift the dial. I say this as a lifelong leftie and former Labour voter.
jay55 · 25/03/2022 15:50

@LostTxn it's not you, it's the poor formatting of threads on the site. Everything floats.

Welcome.
I have family in Tennessee, a very gc aunt though she wouldn't know the term. Who thinks men in women's sport is outrageous, I wouldn't dare tell her about the prisons.

LostTxn · 25/03/2022 15:45

Ok I suck using this so far. Some of my responses are just floating through the thread not attached to the original comment.

Like a witch has been here!

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WouldBeGood · 25/03/2022 15:44

Women are politically homeless everywhere. And I’m now thinking it’s not an accident.

Previously they denied us the vote by law, now they’re making it impossible for us to vote.

LostTxn · 25/03/2022 15:43

@HildaHedgehog

I just saw your tweet on this subject on Twitter. Welcome to Mumsnet. I hope a veritable transatlantic tsunami makes its way here to join us!! Bit hugs, Hx
I thought about sharing it wider on Twitter but I assume that’s a bad idea?
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LostTxn · 25/03/2022 15:38

Completely understand. I was a repub until trump. Was just considering dems when I caught on to this so now what do we do? Neither side is appealing.

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LostTxn · 25/03/2022 15:27

@Boxowine

Over here! I think it was The Atlantic that ran an article about the terrible witches on Mumsnet several years ago. I decided to take a gander at the mean, mean women picking on these poor marginalized folks and have been lurking ever since. I think I went peak trans the first time I read a thread about trans women in prison. Was sure it was made up, I mean of course people should be happy with themselves but no one in their right mind would truly put a male in a female prison.
Yea I'm with you on the prisons. Who is this fking idiotic??!!!
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