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Boris has nailed colours to mast

613 replies

Ridcully82 · 23/03/2022 12:41

On gender transition at PMQs:" biology overwhelmingly important", preceded by urging respect for those feeling they need to transition. Sounded calm, respectful,and kinda where we were on course before the TRA actions.

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tabbycatstripy · 23/03/2022 13:43

I think we went through such a long period of peace and relative prosperity that we forgot being an MP required more than being clever. It also needs a spine and a dictionary.

ResisterRex · 23/03/2022 13:42

@Iwassonaive yes I did miss that, and I shouldn't have because I've ploughed a small fortune into those cases! It's like another tax.

tabbycatstripy · 23/03/2022 13:42

'Every single woman MP in the Labour Party should have supported Rosie Duffield. The fact they did not shows they are not up to the job of being MPs.'

Indeed. I cringe when I hear them obfuscating, lying and cowering.

crumpet · 23/03/2022 13:42

The worry about a vote for Labour is that they will treat it as endorsement of their policy on this issue

Iwassonaive · 23/03/2022 13:41

@ResisterRex

Corruption and dishonesty are not limited to the Tory party. It is corrupt and dishonest to tell me to ignore the evidence of my eyes.

Exactly. Also this isn't just one issue as some suggest. To say so is demeaning and reductive. It goes through all of our everyday lives, all the time.

Labour's fucked it so far as I'm concerned. They could have - should have - been a functioning opposition. They should have been asking about:

  • safety of women prisoners
  • quality of evidence base for self-ID
  • for a review such as Cass
  • for good quality, impartial schools resources
  • protection of women's sports
  • more money based on evidence of need for LGBT refuges and rape crisis services
  • protection of a free press, one not forced to lie about salient facts in crime reporting

So the list goes on.

What did they choose to do? Throw Duffield under the bus, ignore us, tell us to shut up, arse about with "this woman votes" luxury beliefs garbage.

It was up to (mostly) women to take time out of our lives to write to our MPs about these things. To do the research that civil servants and MPs' assistants should have been doing. You'd think the opposition would've been interested but they weren't. They told us "it never comes up". Then to be kiiiind / "both sides". Ignoring the origins of the rape and death threats.

They've betrayed women and children. No way will I vote Labour after this.

Great post. You missed one thing, we women should not have had to fund other brave women (and some men) fighting these misrepresentations of the law. Politicians should have been looking after the rights of 50% of the population. Every single woman MP in the Labour Party should have supported Rosie Duffield. The fact they did not shows they are not up to the job of being MPs.
JoodyBlue · 23/03/2022 13:39

I will find it very very hard to forgive the Labour party over this utter fiasco. Lie after lie, gaslighting at every opportunity. I would rather have a party that I disagree with over almost everything, and I do with the Tories, and that party does not explicitly try to tell me that up is down and insist I do the same with my kids.

MaryQueenOfSwots · 23/03/2022 13:38

I would give anything to get the repellent joke of a PM and his cronies out of office - except my sex-based rights.

Fluffymule · 23/03/2022 13:37

If anyone wants to know what Johnson really thinks of women then read this

We know what Boris really thinks. We know who he is. That is not the point.

Labour's issue is that even knowing who Boris is people will still vote for the Conservatives over a united Labour position that cannot and will not say what a woman is. That has MPs saying humans can change sex. That has women MPs telling women to 'pipe down' and accept trans ideology.

nevercis · 23/03/2022 13:36

Johnson doesn't believe this position any more than he believes anything else he says. It's just that enough of us have made it politically expedient for him to take this line.

Thewindwhispers · 23/03/2022 13:34

@ChaToilLeam

All well and good, but they won’t get my vote. They might know what a woman is but there are many reasons not to vote Tory. I’m politically homeless at present.
This. Why is there no one to vote for?!
HazySummer · 23/03/2022 13:34

@Joystir59

If we don't vote Labour we have the Tories again. That's much more shit for many more people who are already struggling. If you abstain, the Tories win, if you spoil your ballot paper the Tories win, if you vote for Libdem, Green, SNP, Women's Equality, any of the minority parties, the Tories win. Vote Labour and get rid. We can work with labour to change their batshitery on gender.
I don't want to have to work with them though. They think so little of me that they deny the existence of my sex. It's such a fundamental insult to women.
CarbonelCat · 23/03/2022 13:33

I detest the man but on this, I'm relieved and hopeful.

He needs to join the dots now then. If biology is overhelmingly important then that applies in prisons, hospitals, schools, sports and he is in a position to make the lines clearer and to enforce safeguarding.

He needs to communicate with the DfE and ensure their guidance on PSHE is clear, non contradictory and supports schools to resist the compulsion to indoctrinate gender ideology...

ResisterRex · 23/03/2022 13:32

Corruption and dishonesty are not limited to the Tory party. It is corrupt and dishonest to tell me to ignore the evidence of my eyes.

Exactly. Also this isn't just one issue as some suggest. To say so is demeaning and reductive. It goes through all of our everyday lives, all the time.

Labour's fucked it so far as I'm concerned. They could have - should have - been a functioning opposition. They should have been asking about:

  • safety of women prisoners
  • quality of evidence base for self-ID
  • for a review such as Cass
  • for good quality, impartial schools resources
  • protection of women's sports
  • more money based on evidence of need for LGBT refuges and rape crisis services
  • protection of a free press, one not forced to lie about salient facts in crime reporting

So the list goes on.

What did they choose to do? Throw Duffield under the bus, ignore us, tell us to shut up, arse about with "this woman votes" luxury beliefs garbage.

It was up to (mostly) women to take time out of our lives to write to our MPs about these things. To do the research that civil servants and MPs' assistants should have been doing. You'd think the opposition would've been interested but they weren't. They told us "it never comes up". Then to be kiiiind / "both sides". Ignoring the origins of the rape and death threats.

They've betrayed women and children. No way will I vote Labour after this.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 23/03/2022 13:31

If anyone wants to know what Johnson really thinks of women then read this.
www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/politics/2021/oct/06/tottymeter-and-girly-swots-how-johnson-shows-women-respect

tabbycatstripy · 23/03/2022 13:30

'Vote Labour and get rid. We can work with labour to change their batshitery on gender.'

You can't work with people who are prepared to sacrifice reality on the altar of whatever this is. They are zealots.

DdraigGoch · 23/03/2022 13:30

@bellinisurge

Tories want to separate themselves out from Labour on this. It will be their last desperate gasp of winning votes. And Labour shouldn't fall for it and should, instead, make it clear that sex is immutable, that TW are TW and that, if you are offering support for trans people, it should be in addition to support for women and not at the expense of women.
This could wake Labour up. So far they've been hoping to keep this quiet but now that the PM has picked a side, they will have to be clear on where they stand. If they want to win an election, there's only one side they can pick.
inmyslippers · 23/03/2022 13:30

labour to change their batshitery on gender.

I admire your optimism but i think it's misplaced.
Women have been trying to work with Labour on this for years, Labour just aren't listening, and often refuse to even meet with women's groups. They rejected Karen Ingala Smiths application to join as a member while elevating people like Lily madigan.

^^agreed Labour are a lost cause

Iwassonaive · 23/03/2022 13:29

@Alonelonelylonersbadidea

Yes that's the sad thing. I cannot vote Tory. But this is big enough for me to not vote Labour. The Greens are awash with this as are the Lib Dems. I don't have to agree with a party on everything, but I have to agree on more than one thing so I can't vote Tory.
So if you don't vote, you put yourself back to the position of women in the UK 100 years ago when they had no vote. You have let the TRAs and MRAs win if you do this, for you have let them disenfranchise you.
PronounssheRa · 23/03/2022 13:28

Vote Labour and get rid. We can work with labour to change their batshitery on gender.

I admire your optimism but i think it's misplaced.
Women have been trying to work with Labour on this for years, Labour just aren't listening, and often refuse to even meet with women's groups. They rejected Karen Ingala Smiths application to join as a member while elevating people like Lily madigan.

ImAvingOops · 23/03/2022 13:27

The thing is, Labour knows full well what a woman is. They are just too chicken shit to say. I don't want to vote for a party where the leaders are too weak to speak the truth. JKR had it right when she said Cooper needs a dictionary and a spine.

Iwassonaive · 23/03/2022 13:25

@mudgetastic

Why is it more likely that we can persuade labour to understand biology than we can persuade the tories to have a greater awareness of poverty ?
It's not more likely since the Labour Party's stance is totally unpragmatic. Pragmatism is good in response to real issues. . Furlough was an example of unexpected generosity (pragmatism) from the Tories. Many Daily Telegraph commentators accuse Boris Johnson of being too 'left wing'.
Fluffymule · 23/03/2022 13:25

Is Boris a liar? Yes, we know this.

Are Labour MPs, including their front bench liars when they say that biological sex doesn't exist, that humans can change sex and that women (and men) who call this out are hateful bigots?

In my opinion yes. Liars.

Whether through fear, or lack of integrity I don't care. Liars.

Otherwise I have to summise they are stupid. Too stupid to be trusted with my vote.

Women and girls make up 50% of our population. All laws and policy impact their lives. If politicians can't even get the first, most basic, recognition of our right to be recognised by our sex, all other policies and laws start to crumble or be meaningless.

I don't yet know who I will vote for at the next election, but it won't be Labour.

Iwassonaive · 23/03/2022 13:21

@DoobryWhatsit

Ugh. I agree with exactly what he said, and the manner in which he said it. And I absolutely don't have time for any of Kier Starmer's blithering bullshit. Please someone tell me that I haven't just hit that point in middle-age where I suddenly switch to being a tory bastard?!!
Yes it can happen....how old are you lol
mudgetastic · 23/03/2022 13:21

Why is it more likely that we can persuade labour to understand biology than we can persuade the tories to have a greater awareness of poverty ?

MarshaBradyo · 23/03/2022 13:20

@Joystir59

If we don't vote Labour we have the Tories again. That's much more shit for many more people who are already struggling. If you abstain, the Tories win, if you spoil your ballot paper the Tories win, if you vote for Libdem, Green, SNP, Women's Equality, any of the minority parties, the Tories win. Vote Labour and get rid. We can work with labour to change their batshitery on gender.
No chance. You can but I’m not working on this after Labour get in. I’m avoiding it altogether.

If Labour listened to women they’d have more of a chance to win votes.