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Boris has nailed colours to mast

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Ridcully82 · 23/03/2022 12:41

On gender transition at PMQs:" biology overwhelmingly important", preceded by urging respect for those feeling they need to transition. Sounded calm, respectful,and kinda where we were on course before the TRA actions.

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whitecreambluejug · 23/03/2022 16:08

I just don't understand why Labour and other parties can't see that they need to protect womens rights and not allow any Tom, DICK or Harry self-identify as a woman & invade womens safe spaces/ sports etc

Its so obvious that it does that I think the truth must be that they do realise but just don't care. Or at least they don't care enough to risk being called names. They care more about their 'progressive' identity than about vulnerable women. Its self interest basically.

And Labour abandoned any sort of class analysis a long time ago, let alone not having a feminist one, so they aren't doing a class based feminist analysis on who is most losing out by this gender ideology.

So they just don't care.

bellinisurge · 23/03/2022 16:06

I did contact my local MP - a shadow minister. He just came back with bullshit.

SantaCarlaCalifornia · 23/03/2022 16:06

Maybe all the people here despairing that voters are choosing to vote Tory instead of Labour, or not even vote at all - maybe you should try contacting the Labour Party and let them know that their strategy of identity politics isn't working?

They haven't listened to GC voices, maybe they'd listen to purer ones.

MalagaNights · 23/03/2022 16:05

Excellent post @FireFlyBoogaloo

It's hilarious on these threads how often 'we' and 'us' are used as if women only vote labour.

Lots of women voted Tory long before the labour party got overun by its gender identity politics feelings over facts stance.

You can post Tory hating bile here confident in your opinion they are The Baddies.

But remember lots of people who are TWAW now think that about you, they're just as confident you are The Baddie.

If this doesn't give people pause in their utter conviction in Baddies and Goodies in politics I'm not sure anything could.

bellinisurge · 23/03/2022 16:04

"I do not think for one moment that the tory party (Patel anyone?) give a furry fuck about women's rights, or any kind of equality. If people fall for that, then so be it."

Neither do I. But I know for certain that Labour don't either so that's on them to put forward a platform that makes them electable. On this, Starmer is just Corbyn with a smarter suit.

ohfook · 23/03/2022 16:04

I think Labour are beginning to listen. I received this reply from my local Labour mp who said Labour will be upholding single-sex exemptions.

Boris has nailed colours to mast
whitecreambluejug · 23/03/2022 16:02

@SmallPrawnEnergy

Cost of living, wages, energy, house prices, overwhelmed health services + possibly climate change and any war related security issues. The majority of MN really don’t care or are in a position not to cate about most of these points. Cost of living, energy, houses prices and health services aren’t important to the rich folk here. There are folk out there who are literally scraping pennies together to feed their kids or put the heating on for an hour, this is what the rotors have done to the working class of this country. Shafted is into ruin and wreck. They don’t care. But call breastfeeding chest feeding and MN will froth and foam. It’s absolutely disgusting the lack of awareness and empathy thr vast majority of women on this site have for those struggling . They will of course say otherwise but simply put, they wouldn’t vote Tory if they did. The tori’s are simply carrying out eugenics on the poor people of this country and those voting them in are complicit
Actually I see it completely the other way around. I see this gender ideology as an exercise in class privilege. The people promoting this don't give shit about the women from disadvantaged communities who are most likely to be most harmed by this - those that end up in prisons, homeless shelters, refuges and recovery centres. The privileged with degrees care not one crap about those women, who are far distanced from their lives. The privileged never imagine themselves ending up in one of those places so care not about what happens to those who do. One of the reasons this ideology has being able to take hold is that we no longer have a class analysis: all that has been replaced by individual 'identity'.

And despite you trying to smear MNers are all rich, you only need to look at any of the many threads from people here who are really financially struggling to know that that is not true.

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 23/03/2022 16:01

Gah, I hate Boris soooo much but now have to feel grateful for these scraps. And I am.

CakeAmbushAlert · 23/03/2022 16:00

I am glad to hear the PM say this. Echoes of Robert Winstone?

No way on Earth would I would vote Tory with that lying, corrupt charalatan still in charge though.

I just don't understand why Labour and other parties can't see that they need to protect womens rights and not allow any Tom, DICK or Harry self-identify as a woman & invade womens safe spaces/ sports etc.

MyLittlePhonyPony · 23/03/2022 15:59

@FireFlyBoogaloo

Yes I recognise that behaviour. I am afraid I used to do it. I've grown up a bit since then, but am still learning.

ScribblingPixie · 23/03/2022 15:54

Before the last General Election, a Labour canvasser promised me that our MP had very strong beliefs on single-sex spaces and I could trust her, but she recently backed Keir Starmer's words on women/cervixes so... no, actually I can't. If a principled Conservative candidate stood in my constituency I'd not hesitate to vote for them. I'm just looking for a candidate with principles at this stage.

FireFlyBoogaloo · 23/03/2022 15:53

@Fluffymule

So much anger directed at women here, who are stating their frustration and anger when faced with perhaps their best fit political party betraying them over their defence of biological reality, women rights, children's safeguarding, privacy, dignity, sporting achievement etc.

Perhaps rather than attacking those of us considering using the remaining power we have left, by voting (or not) in a particular way, it would be better to direct that anger at the Labour politicians who are lying, lacking any integrity, and some even attacking women for their views, making us politically homeless.

Also worth considering that some—many, in fact—women are right-wing, or libertarian, or centrist, even in the absence of the trans debate.

The way that GC people are spoken to and about by TRAs is nothing new to those women because they have been spoken to and about in that way by left-wingers who consider themselves moral betters since time immemorial. They have been told that they are selfishly voting in their own interest and not considering those who are in a different position, and in the next breath that they are stupidly voting against their own interest on another issue, which is also bad. The only common denominator is that the leftist believes herself morally, superior, and believes anyone who disagrees on any topic to be a very bad person. Which ought to be a familiar position to come here, based on the events of recent years.

I'm an "out" centrist with some views that lean left and some that lean right. I'm also too old and too disagreeable to care much about what others think about my opinions. A lot of people would be surprised at how many (cowardly, in my view, but not my circus) people will quietly, privately admit that they don't agree with prevailing narratives—and not merely on the gender issue.

Fortunately, the voting booth is the most private of places.

MyLittlePhonyPony · 23/03/2022 15:49

I think in reality most UK citizens are closer to central than far left or right.
Labour will hopefully find this to their cost. Just hope conservatives have the sense to adapt.

Flippy87 · 23/03/2022 15:45

@ImAvingOops

They'll get my vote for this. It's the hill I'm willing to die on - if the Labour Party etc aren't willing to define what a woman is then they can't be trusted to protect us. If they are so weak that they will allow TRA to pressure them into this ridiculous stance where they deny biological facts, what else will they bend on?

Labour etc have proven themselves to be utterly spineless. I'm not defending the Tories but in a time where no party represents me, at least this one recognises what I am!

It’s this for me.

Of all the issues I’m happy to put this above all others

MalagaNights · 23/03/2022 15:41

The fact the labour party are going along with this batshit absurd gender ideology isn't just some weird freak occurrence, outside all their other thinking.

It's the clearest and most extreme example of the identity politics that has consumed the left.

The idea that your identity feelings and lived experience trump facts and that everything is a power struggle between identity groups is pervasive, and central to leftist thinking.

That's why they're having such a hard time with this. It fits their over arching ideology but has taken it to an extreme position which exposes them.

It makes me laugh everyone who thinks leftist identity politics is still great except on this issue.
This is where it leads.

The labour party's position on gender ideology is consistent with their current politics.

It's a feature not a bug.

savehannah · 23/03/2022 15:38

It is quite terrifying that I agree with something our idiot PM says.

Artichokeleaves · 23/03/2022 15:38

@SmallPrawnEnergy

Cost of living, wages, energy, house prices, overwhelmed health services + possibly climate change and any war related security issues. The majority of MN really don’t care or are in a position not to cate about most of these points. Cost of living, energy, houses prices and health services aren’t important to the rich folk here. There are folk out there who are literally scraping pennies together to feed their kids or put the heating on for an hour, this is what the rotors have done to the working class of this country. Shafted is into ruin and wreck. They don’t care. But call breastfeeding chest feeding and MN will froth and foam. It’s absolutely disgusting the lack of awareness and empathy thr vast majority of women on this site have for those struggling . They will of course say otherwise but simply put, they wouldn’t vote Tory if they did. The tori’s are simply carrying out eugenics on the poor people of this country and those voting them in are complicit
And five minutes actually reading around the boards would make it plain that this is a lot of bollocks.

Another 'rightwingantiabortionreganfundednunrichwhiteoldsaggytitted' smearing attempt in desperation that no one listen to women. Stopped working years ago.

MyLittlePhonyPony · 23/03/2022 15:37

I wrote to my labour mp a year or so ago. Never got a reply.

I'd be very wary of writing again. Of labour get in how long would it be before they pinned my concerns for a hate crime?
I don't have any money or power to protect me from that. Thankfully voting is anonymous.

ethelredonagoodday · 23/03/2022 15:37

@Alonelonelylonersbadidea

Yes that's the sad thing. I cannot vote Tory. But this is big enough for me to not vote Labour. The Greens are awash with this as are the Lib Dems. I don't have to agree with a party on everything, but I have to agree on more than one thing so I can't vote Tory.
Agree. It really fucks me off when TRAs amongst other suggest that those of us who are GC are hard right, or rabid fascists. I've NEVER voted conservative, I've always tended to the left, have been a Labour Party member...and it kills me really, that the party I really, really do not support, are seemingly the only ones speaking sense on this.
babyjellyfish · 23/03/2022 15:37

@JoodyBlue

I don't want to get the Tories out - they are the only party holding the line for women. I say that as a person who has never voted Tory before.
Snap.
Floisme · 23/03/2022 15:35

I voted Labour 40+ years, up to and including 2019. I've leafleted, knocked on doors, frozen my arse off at polling stations and had dogs set on me. So spare me your finger wagging. Take it up with your craven, spineless, brain coddled party.

Papayamya · 23/03/2022 15:34

@FOJN

Whilst it might not be a deal breaker as such for the majority or perhaps they haven't heard labours view on it yet- I think more people than you'd think will take notice of it.

I think you might be right about this. I'm a member of a group where a proposal for gender neutral language was put forward recently, I was bracing myself for a difficult discussion but it was unanimously dismissed as ridiculous which really surprised me. People were using activist buzz words satirically to underline how absurd they find the whole issue. If you'd asked me beforehand I would have guessed that three quarters of the people present would know nothing about the issue but I was very wrong. Anyway it was a relief not to have to persuade anyone to reject the proposal.

Even platforms like tik tok and twitter the tide is turning, and that's the demographic largely that preciously were behind it.
Fluffymule · 23/03/2022 15:32

So much anger directed at women here, who are stating their frustration and anger when faced with perhaps their best fit political party betraying them over their defence of biological reality, women rights, children's safeguarding, privacy, dignity, sporting achievement etc.

Perhaps rather than attacking those of us considering using the remaining power we have left, by voting (or not) in a particular way, it would be better to direct that anger at the Labour politicians who are lying, lacking any integrity, and some even attacking women for their views, making us politically homeless.

JoodyBlue · 23/03/2022 15:32

@MsFogi

The Women's Equality Party really needs to sort themselves out on this issue - they could get so many votes from....Women!!!
they've blown it - need a break away party
JoodyBlue · 23/03/2022 15:32

@Laniania

I also want this notion of association between GC ideas and the right broken because it's bullshit, we all know it's bullshit and that this crosses the spectrum, and yet it's trotted out again and again and it makes my blood boil. Only slightly less than being told I'm being manipulated by the rich, powerful "Christian right" lobby that doesn't bloody exist here.
This thread is a spot sample of that. Most posters here are not natural tories, but the overwhelming majority will not vote Labour now due to this issue.