Are the wife and children really fine?

Pansexual means that you are attracted to aaaallllll the genders (cos there are 100s, don't you know) and in current clownworld - sorry - trans rights thinking, it is the only ethically correct sexuality to be.

In clownworld - sorry - trans rights world, gay, bisexual and lesbian are transphobic identities and should not exist. And don't even get me started on the evil straights!

For example, Jazz Jennings says he is pansexual. This is ironic, because Jazz Jennings by his own admission has no sexual feelings at all and is anorgasmic, and has been ever since his mum put him on puberty blockers at age 12.

Well intersex people exist so you are wrong that there are two sexes.**

This is so offensive!! What you term intersex people are either male or female with VSDs that are specific to each sex. They are not other sexes FFS!!

There are only two sexes male and female.

I can accept that some women would be happy with it. But I'd want to hear it from them. I would imagine those women are probably further into bisexuality and perhaps more "feminine" or gender neutral men in general. I don't think many straight women who like typically masculine men would be OK with it.

And the kids matter too.

[quote EndaDay]@TheOriginalEmu

No, that is bi-sexual. Two Sexes. One has a cock and one doesn't.

Hope that helps you.

WTF is Pansexual?[/quote]
Well intersex people exist so you are wrong that there are two sexes.
It’s just a way of differentiating between people who only like people who identify as the sex they are born as, and people who are also attracted to trans people and intersex people and nonbinary people. Whether you believe those things exist isn’t the point, it’s not for you. There are lots of people who don’t want to date trans people, so this allows them to know the kind of people who are open to dating them. I don’t see why it matters to you if you aren’t in that category.

No woman is fine with it who thought they married Arthur, still loves Arthur but now find themselves with a Martha.

They might be fine with it if they no longer loved Arthur and didn't care if he cut his knob off, painted it Forget-Me_not Blue and hung it from his left eyebrow.

But no woman who stlll loves Arthur and had a future planned with Arthur is fine with it.

@TheOriginalEmu no, that's not what I am saying at all

Word.

It just means that you are happy to date anyone regardless of if they identify as male female trans or other. Why be so aggressive and rude?

Then they are bisexual . Pan is totally redundant. If the bisexual person prefers people of both sexes with brown eyes, what would you call them? Why would one lot have a special eord?

Its only possible to tell if children are really fine when they are no longer in that situation so imo, parents should wait until their children have left home before transitioning.

[quote PinaColada123456]**@TheOriginalEmu* EndaDay* wasn't remotely rude or aggressive. Why are you tone-policing women?[/quote]
Calling someone else’s sexuality ‘sloppy shite’ is in my opinion rude and agressive.

I'm making the most of it as it's not all bad but I figure if it's still like this in 10y then I'll get my ducks in row and go.

@TheOriginalEmu

No, that is bi-sexual. Two Sexes. One has a cock and one doesn't.

Hope that helps you.

WTF is Pansexual?

@TheOriginalEmu EndaDay wasn't remotely rude or aggressive. Why are you tone-policing women?

They won't be fine. If one of my parents, or my partner, wanted to change sex, I would be completely gutted and question everything I ever knew.

It's not an easy road to travel, for anyone involved.

How is it different to bi sexuality though ?

Trans people have a sex . One of 2.

The rest is just personality which is surely applicable to everyone ?

Young people have been programmed that they must decide on a box that they fit into. These boxes get smaller and smaller, more and more rigid, and more and more regressive with it, the more one finds yet more gibberish terms to fit yet more gibberish ideas to fit yet more gibberish ideology.

It’s utter rubbish, on every level.

None of it is necessary.

I am a woman who wears x does x sleeps with x doesn’t sleep with x doesn’t like x loves x eats x ad infinitum. It’s called having a personality as pp has said on another thread. No further labels necessary.

Same for stupid terms such as ‘empath’ or ‘creative’ or whatnot. No. You’re just a person who feels empathy, you’re just a person who has a strong creative drive.

Stop it. Use the language we already have instead of making up stupid, dumbed down toddler-terms for everything.

WTF is Pansexual.

Does it mean having sex with someone whom plays panpipe music while DTD or having sex with a small man who looks like a goat.

As there are only two sexes, the most anyone can be is Bi-Sexual or does Pan mean that you are also attracted to sheep, piano legs and fair isle jumpers?

It really is time to stop pandering (no pun intended) to all this sloppy shite.

The transwoman has sunk into deep depression

I do wonder if this is what happens when you no longer have friends and family to play along with you and you aren't interested in compelling and threatening the world to carry it on.

A " treatment" protocol that is 100 percent reliant on the willing and unwilling participation of the people around you can never work. Encouraging people to live inside their heads affirming that every shop keeper , every member of the public on thr Street is making a judgement somehow on your clothes or your purchases is not healthy at all. It's indulging a dangerous level.if Paranoia.

It solves nothing.

The fact that they think they can speak for their wife and kids says it all for me.

By saying 'don't worry they are fine' it means its harder for them to challenge that and they are less likely to be asked.

Its an act of silencing. Its an exertion of power over the wife and kids who are voiceless.

My friend is doing a part-time uni course. Everyone claims to be pan sexual. There's no evidence for this since they are all in heterosexual or gay relationships. My DD has friends who are socially non-binary or socially gender fluid. They all present entirely as their birth sex.
Either it's trendy to say this or young people are scared of being labelled transphobic. It's madness.

I know someone who came out as a transwoman. It was claimed the wife and children were supportive, but the wife has since had a breakdown and they are divorced. The transwoman has sunk into deep depression.