@Talipesmum
* Where do I fit in?
- Gender can be oppressive
- Gender can be celebrated
- 100% accept gender variation
- Gender is a social construct
- Some sexed characteristics are changeable and some are not (yet)*
Looks like you’re mostly in the top box. Of course sexual characteristics can be changed - but that’s not changing the sex you are. It’s not going to affect your gametes. And I can enjoy my gender, some of the time, while also being aware that it can be oppressive, and absolutely being aware that it is largely constructed.
I'm pleased to be associated with the "Feminism" label as I very much believe in the cause.
I wouldn't agree though that one's gender is a product of one's gametes though (although for most people, their gender will match their gametes! I wouldn't deny that!).
Some people are born infertile: they make no gametes, however still have a gender! So although it's correlated with gametes, it's not caused by them!
Some people stop producing gametes during their life, either through menopause, medical intervention, illness or something else. Yet they retain their gender, so again, it must be something aside from gamete production.
This one is a thought experiment, so it's obviously not real (yet) but the argument is still valid in principle: imagine the transplant of a female reproductive system into a man. His gender wouldn't change just because of this, in fact in this hypothetical scenario he may even retain the ability to make sperm.
I hope that this demonstrates that although gametes (of those who produce them) match gender in 99% of people, they are not the cause of one's gender.